Excuses for your Excuses that Cancel Out Your Excuses

The same mechanism that creates excuses can also be used to create reverse excuses which actually end up being the reasons why you can do what you want.

Here is how you can create reverse excuses so you can do what you want.

When you reverse a negative you turn it into a positive.

You’re already good at doing this if you’re good at making excuses. Lets be honest we are all good at making excuses. I do it millions of times and then what I do is I reverse it and I will use that same excuse that other people will DIE believing in. Ill make an excuse for my excuse which is a reverse excuse. You don’t even have to think positive to reverse your excuses.

Examples of common excuses people will live and DIE by:
I don’t have the money and so I can’t. People say this a lot that they cant do something because they don’t have the money. Here is how you reverse that and make an excuse for it. You say, I can’t not do this because I don’t have money and I want to change that so I never ever ever say I don’t have money ever again from this day forward.

You just made your excuse you were living and dying by into a powerful reason why you CAN do something to get what you want instead of why you can’t. Isn’t that more fun???

I can’t because I don’t have time. Instead, I can’t not do this because I have no time and I’m sick and tired of not having the time that I want. So I can’t not make this positive decision because if I don’t make this positive decision right NOW then I’m going to continue not having the time that I Want.

I cant do this because my spouse won’t let me. Instead, men or women, I can’t not do this because I don’t have control over my life and my wife / spouse doesn’t trust me so I cant not make a decision that’s going to empower my family to where my wife / spouse trusts me aging because I’m a real man / woman.

I cant do this because I have to think about it. Instead, I can’t not do this because I need real time to think about the decisions that I Want in my life. And I’m so caught up in my life that literally I cant do what I want because I’m always stuck in procrastination mode. I can’t not make this decision right now.

Just reverse this crap! What ever your reasons are..

I cant do this because I’m poor. Instead, I can’t not do it because I don’t want to be poor forever.

Change that reason you’re giving yourself why you can’t into a perfect reason why you can. This gives you permission to keep making excuses so you can make excuses for your excuses. This gives you permission to be negative on purpose and you’ll actually accomplish stuff and get what you want now. How cool is that? I cant not do this because I’m sick of being poor!!

-Tom

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Middle America you are the cause for most human suffering

“Follow the money” is loosely thrown around.

When people say “Follow the money” they are talking about politicians, lawyers, doctors, beneath the surface of their shallow spoken words.

What about YOUR money?

It’s easy to say “follow the money” when you’re talking about other people.

What about when YOU buy stuff made in other countries where Child Slavery is accepted and human suffering is condoned so you get your product for a nickel cheaper?

What about all the blood, death, and Human suffering on your hands if we “follow the money” on your money you spend?

How much income and inequality did YOU personally contribute if we “follow the money” of your spending habits?

How much Ego do you have to not question where your time and MONEY is going?

Middle America you’re a COWARD to save a nickel at the expense of children half way around the world.

If we “follow the money” in your own spending we would find the majority of middle America funds child sex slave rings, human trafficking, human suffering, corruption in business and in politics, and you were even DUMB enough to DECIMATE your own livelihood so someone else could have more while you have less.

Middle america needs an ego check because they are the dumbest most immoral and self sabotaging people on planet earth if we “follow the money”.

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-Tom

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You’ve been given a Cancer Diagnosis. Which would you rather hear?

1.) Your cancer is gone thanks to chemo. You have no immune system left so a common cold might kill you and you’re more vulnerable to getting cancer again than you were the first time but we have meds for you to deal with that to take for the rest of your life.

2.) Your cancer is gone thanks to feeding your natural healers and growing an immune system so strong it beat cancer. You might also notice your body more efficiently fighting off common colds than before and the odds of cancer finding its way back into your body again are slim to none so meds are no longer necessary.

Pretty BIG difference in beating cancer hey?

By the way.. the first example is what Private Health insurance and PhRMA companies would like from you =)

Please SHARE THIS and pray it helps someone fighting cancer.

-Tom

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Yes, YOU REALLY ARE DIFFERENT..

But, you’ve built a facade that looks and sounds like everyone else.

Start saying “YES” and “I WILL FIGURE IT OUT EVEN IF I DONT KNOW HOW, YET” so the True YOU starts to Shine…

Instead you’ve become a mental gymnast, just like everyone else.

You do incredible mental gymnastics to rationalize and protect the excuses you built your exterior facade with for why you say “NO” and why you don’t see anything important through.

This makes it temporarily easier for you to live with yourself for holding onto your excuses but deep down you know that kind of self-protection does not work and makes you appear just like everyone else.

You blame facts like no money no time no skill no background no resources no support and anything else you need to make it easier to live with yourself for holding onto your excuses.

You’ve made the rationale of your excuses your best friend which has turned out to be the worst friend you’ve ever had.

Hate the rationale for the excuses not the unique person behind it all.

Your TRUE best friend is that unique person your FALSE best friend has buried inside of you.

Here are some tips to help you to become the REAL you.

Instead of “I can’t afford” ask “how can I afford” and figure it out.

Instead of “I don’t have time” ask “how can I become more faithful with the time I do have so I have more free time to spend my time how I want?” and figure it out.

Instead of “I dont know how” start asking “what books, webinars, blogs, seminars, teachers, etc do I need to learn how?” and be a GREAT student.

Instead of “the going got tough I think I’ll quit” start saying “the going just got tough time to double down on getting tough myself and seeing it through I will do whatever it takes to figure it out”.

Instead of saying NO to opportunities say YES and then figure it out and get some help from the right teachers along the way.

Instead of using your kids as an excuse and crutch to say no to your dreams SHOW THEM the hard work with complete transparency of doing whatever it takes for your own dreams so they can see their dreams are worth fighting for, too.

Instead of using facebook as a complete waste of time to be facebroke learn how to use facebook to be FACERICH as the platform of positive impact it is for FREE GLOBAL REACH.

Instead of consumer debt say yes to investment debt.

Instead of saying “I don’t know how” Say “I’m going to learn how”.

Instead of sitting on what you learn ACT on what you learn so you avoid devolving into an educated derelict.

Instead of prioritizing your self image in the eyes of others above making a positive difference REVERSE THAT and make positive impact a priority above protecting your self image in the eyes of others!

Instead of talking yourself out of opportunity talk yourself into opportunity.

Instead of making excuses, start making excuses for your excuses so your excuses are ultimately cancelled out and your true self begins to shine.

Instead of selling stuff no one wants or needs, share and Connect with the willing.

Instead of looking for whats wrong with opportunity look for what’s right with it.

Instead of being obedient to those who want to control and manipulate you through money dependency to pay your bills and eat, learn about financial freedom and BECOME A THREAT TO THOSE WHO WANT TO CONTROL AND MANIPULATE YOU.

Instead of living a life style of an Obedient cash cow sucker to private health insurance and PhRMA companies learn how to become Independently Healthy and WEALTHY which would evolve you into a direct Threat to Private Health insurance and PhRMA companies.

Instead of waiting on the government or some company to take care of you and create opportunity for you, CREATE YOUR OWN OPPORTUNITY AND BECOME INDEPENDENT FROM THAT PYRAMID SCAM NONSENSE.

Instead of working for ordinary income, work for PASSIVE and RESIDUAL income so you can CREATE THE SPACE AND FREEDOM TO BE YOUR UNRESERVED TRUE UNIQUE SELF.

I hope I’ve been able to give more than enough ammo to the true person inside of you to FINALLY come out BLAZING and UNRESERVED.

It’s time to LIBERATE your true self from your DUMB False Self and be happy =)

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I promise there are people in your circle who need to hear this and CRAVE to hear this because they are sick of a newsfeed cluttered with nonsensical garbage.

-Tom

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What the LUCK are you talking about?

This morning someone who read some of my blogs about how I bought my house in cash and get to travel BITCHED AT ME because “not everyone can be lucky like you, Tom”.

Here is what always annoys me when someone makes the “luck” statement about me vs. them…

I started my process of being able to do these things when I had no job, no income, no unemployment benefits, no free time, no energy, no resources, no tools, straight Ds in Grade School Special Ed Classes, I rode the “short buts”, No skills, No good experience..

I did not have luck on my side.

Here’s the difference..

I stopped being lazy about my problems and started to figure stuff out.

It wasn’t having things that made the difference because I didn’t have things.

I don’t have the background or a lotto ticket.

I didnt have income, time, or skill so I figured out how to come up with income, time, and learn new skills.

I worked on these things not once and a while, but 7 days a week until I emerged a free human being WITHOUT a Job.

I wanted financial freedom because it’s the one thing that affects all other things.

Financial freedom is Time freedom.

I choose teachers over television.
I chose to invest rather than spend.
I chose veggies over cake most of the time.
I teach as I learn so you take action with me.
I drink my superfoods shake daily.

Now that I’m a free human being I choose to travel instead of have a job, be free of consumer debt, own my house so I have no mortgage and no rent, I fired my boss, I LOVE teaching stuff in my videos and blogs, I love creating my own random adventures and being a Free Spirit without shackles to the dollar.

This doesn’t have to be what healthy and FREEDOM looks like for you… but don’t lessen my hard work to make yourself feel better.

I can do things physically people half my age can’t do and I’m more free with my time than people twice my age and I plan to keep showing up to show YOU what’s possible to inspire You who wants to take action.

When you say, “I can’t _____ because xyz” what you’re really saying is “I lack the creativity and ingenuity to figure stuff out”.

Remember to look at how far you’ve come and build on that!

Learn some new skills from the right teachers and mentors and take action on what you learn.

Find out what most people are doing, how they think, how they make excuses, how they spend their time and money, how they say NO to opportunity and YES to being Wage Slaves, and DO THE EXACT OPPOSITE.

If you’re sincerely interested in what I did to create health and freedom feel free to facebook inbox me.

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-Tom

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In all seriousness, after I lost my job (11 years ago my job was off-shored to India for cheap wages), I was a miserable excuse making self loathing mess.

And totally by my own doing because I was foolish enough to depend on a job to afford bills and food.

While I know the first step in becoming financially free is the hardest, the journey is so worth it.

Ask yourself two questions:

1. What will I gain by taking care of myself Physically, Emotionally, and Financially?

2. Then ask yourself, what is the cost of not doing anything?

But here I am, 11 YEARS later and Healthy and Financially free from needing a job to support myself and I’m the healthiest I’ve ever been at 40, even healthier than I was at 20.

I remember staring into my bathroom mirror in upset and anger over myself at doing nothing to become financially free and independent 11 years ago.

Do something about your situation friends.

YOU CAN DO IT.

Don’t wait like I did until your job is gone which can happen at any time for ANY reason because you don’t own that job or that income someone else does and their goal is to cut payroll expenses whenever possible.

If you’ve already lost your job then you’re in my shoes and I got myself out of that mess. You can do it too.

-Tom

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one kind of MONEY DOES BUY YOU HAPPINESS =)

Hear me out it goes against the grain of Obedient Popular “Thinking”..

Job money robs you of your time and shackles you to control and manipulation through dependency to pay bills and eat.

Passive and Residual money buys you your time back and unshackles you from dependency so you can spend your time however you want.

It’s funny that when people reach a certain age, such as after graduating college, they assume it’s time to go out and get a job.

But like many things the masses do, just because everyone does it doesn’t mean it’s a good idea. In fact, if you’re reasonably intelligent, getting a job is one of the worst things you can do to support yourself. There are far better ways to make a living than selling yourself into indentured servitude.

Here are some reasons you should do everything in your power to avoid getting a job:

1. Income for dummies.

Getting a job and trading your time for money may seem like a good idea. There’s only one problem with it. It’s stupid! It’s the stupidest way you can possibly generate income! This is truly income for dummies.

Why is getting a job so dumb?

Because you only get paid when you’re working. Don’t you see a problem with that, or have you been so thoroughly brainwashed into thinking it’s reasonable and intelligent to only earn income when you’re working? Have you never considered that it might be better to be paid even when you’re not working? Who taught you that you could only earn income while working? Some other brainwashed employee perhaps?

Don’t you think your life would be much easier if you got paid while you were eating, sleeping, and playing with the kids too? Why not get paid 24/7? Get paid whether you work or not. Don’t your plants grow even when you aren’t tending to them? Why not your bank account?

Who cares how many hours you work?

Only a handful of people on this entire planet care how much time you spend at the office. Most of us won’t even notice whether you work 6 hours a week or 60. But if you have something of value to provide that matters to us, a number of us will be happy to pull out our wallets and pay you for it. We don’t care about your time — we only care enough to pay for the value we receive. Do you really care how long it took me to write this article? Would you pay me twice as much if it took me 6 hours vs. only 3?

Non-dummies often start out on the traditional income for dummies path. So don’t feel bad if you’re just now realizing you’ve been suckered. Non-dummies eventually realize that trading time for money is indeed extremely dumb and that there must be a better way. And of course there is a better way. The key is to de-couple your value from your time.

Smart people build systems that generate income 24/7, especially passive income. Once it’s in motion, it runs continuously whether you tend to it or not. From that moment on, the bulk of your time can be invested in increasing your income (by refining your system or spawning new ones) instead of merely maintaining your income.

Once you get going, you won’t have to work so many hours to support yourself. Wouldn’t it be nice to be out having dinner with your spouse, knowing that while you’re eating, you’re earning money? If you want to keep working long hours because you enjoy it, go right ahead. If you want to sit around doing nothing, feel free. As long as your system continues delivering value to others, you’ll keep getting paid whether you’re working or not.

Nobody is born knowing how to start a business or generate investment income, but you can easily learn it. How long it takes you to figure it out is irrelevant because the time is going to pass anyway. You might as well emerge at some future point as the owner of income-generating systems as opposed to a lifelong wage slave. This isn’t all or nothing. If your system only generates a few hundred dollars a month, that’s a significant step in the right direction.

2. Limited experience.

You might think it’s important to get a job to gain experience. But that’s like saying you should play golf to get experience playing golf. You gain experience from living, regardless of whether you have a job or not. A job only gives you experience at that job, but you gain ”experience” doing just about anything, so that’s no real benefit at all. Sit around doing nothing for a couple years, and you can call yourself an experienced meditator, philosopher, or politician.

The problem with getting experience from a job is that you usually just repeat the same limited experience over and over. You learn a lot in the beginning and then stagnate. This forces you to miss other experiences that would be much more valuable. And if your limited skill set ever becomes obsolete, then your experience won’t be worth squat. In fact, ask yourself what the experience you’re gaining right now will be worth in 20-30 years. Will your job even exist then?

Consider this. Which experience would you rather gain? The knowledge of how to do a specific job really well — one that you can only monetize by trading your time for money – or the knowledge of how to enjoy financial abundance for the rest of your life without ever needing a job again? Now I don’t know about you, but I’d rather have the latter experience. That seems a lot more useful in the real world, wouldn’t you say?

3. Lifelong domestication.

Getting a job is like enrolling in a human domestication program. You learn how to be a good pet.

Look around you. Really look. What do you see? Are these the surroundings of a free human being? Or are you living in a cage for unconscious animals? Have you fallen in love with the color beige?

How’s your obedience training coming along? Does your master reward your good behavior? Do you get disciplined if you fail to obey your master’s commands?

Is there any spark of free will left inside you? Or has your conditioning made you a pet for life?

Humans are not meant to be raised in cages. You poor thing


4. Too many mouths to feed.

Employee income is the most heavily taxed there is. In the USA you can expect that about half your salary will go to taxes. The tax system is designed to disguise how much you’re really giving up because some of those taxes are paid by your employer, and some are deducted from your paycheck. But you can bet that from your employer’s perspective, all of those taxes are
considered part of your pay, as well as any other compensation you receive such as benefits. Even the rent for the office space you consume is considered, so you must generate that much more value to cover it. You might feel supported by your corporate environment, but keep in mind that you’re the one paying for it.

Another chunk of your income goes to owners and investors. That’s a lot of mouths to feed.

It isn’t hard to understand why employees pay the most in taxes relative to their income. After all, who has more control over the tax system? Business owners and investors or employees?
You only get paid a fraction of the real value you generate. Your real salary may be more than triple what you’re paid, but most of that money you’ll never see. It goes straight into other people’s pockets.

What a generous person you are!

5. Way too risky.

Many employees believe getting a job is the safest and most secure way to support themselves.
Morons.

Social conditioning is amazing. It’s so good it can even make people believe the exact opposite of the truth.

Does putting yourself in a position where someone else can turn off all your income just by saying two words (“You’re fired”) sound like a safe and secure situation to you? Does having only one income stream honestly sound more secure than having 10?
The idea that a job is the most secure way to generate income is just silly. You can’t have security if you don’t have control, and employees have the least control of anyone. If you’re an employee, then your real job title should be professional gambler.

6. Having an evil bovine master.

When you run into an idiot in the entrepreneurial world, you can turn around and head the other way. When you run into an idiot in the corporate world, you have to turn around and say, “Sorry, boss.”

Did you know that the word boss comes from the Dutch word baas, which historically means master? Another meaning of the word boss is “a cow or bovine.” And in many video games, the boss is the evil dude that you have to kill at the end of a level.
So if your boss is really your evil bovine master, then what does that make you? Nothing but a turd in the herd.
Who’s your daddy?

7. Begging for money.

When you want to increase your income, do you have to sit up and beg your master for more money? Does it feel good to be thrown some extra Scooby Snacks now and then?

Or are you free to decide how much you get paid without needing anyone’s permission but your own?

If you have a business and one customer says “no” to you, you simply say “next.”

8. An inbred social life.

Many people treat their jobs as their primary social outlet. They hang out with the same people working in the same field. Such incestuous relations are social dead ends. An exciting day includes deep conversations about the company’s switch from Sparkletts to Arrowhead, the delay of Microsoft’s latest operating system, and the unexpected delivery of more Bic pens. Consider what it would be like to go outside and talk to strangers. Ooooh
 scary! Better stay inside where it’s safe.

If one of your co-slaves gets sold to another master, do you lose a friend? If you work in a male-dominated field, does that mean you never get to talk to women above the rank of receptionist? Why not decide for yourself whom to socialize with instead of letting your master decide for you? Believe it or not, there are locations on this planet where free people congregate. Just be wary of those jobless folk — they’re a crazy bunch!

9. Loss of freedom.

It takes a lot of effort to tame a human being into an employee. The first thing you have to do is break the human’s independent will. A good way to do this is to give them a weighty policy manual filled with nonsensical rules and regulations. This leads the new employee to become more obedient, fearing that s/he could be disciplined at any minute for something incomprehensible. Thus, the employee will likely conclude it’s safest to simply obey the master’s commands without question. Stir in some office politics for good measure, and we’ve got a freshly minted mind slave.
As part of their obedience training, employees must be taught how to dress, talk, move, and so on. We can’t very well have employees thinking for themselves, now can we? That would ruin everything.

God forbid you should put a plant on your desk when it’s against the company policy. Oh no, it’s the end of the world! Cindy has a plant on her desk! Summon the enforcers! Send Cindy back for another round of sterility training!

Free human beings think such rules and regulations are silly of course. The only policy they need is: “Be smart. Be nice. Do what you love. Have fun.”

10. Becoming a coward.

Have you noticed that employed people have an almost endless capacity to whine about problems at their companies? But they don’t really want solutions – they just want to vent and make excuses why it’s all someone else’s fault. It’s as if getting a job somehow drains all the free will out of people and turns them into spineless cowards. If you can’t call your boss a jerk now and then without fear of getting fired, you’re no longer free. You’ve become your master’s property.

When you work around cowards all day long, don’t you think it’s going to rub off on you? Of course it will. It’s only a matter of time before you sacrifice the noblest parts of your humanity on the altar of fear: first courage
 then honesty
 then honor and integrity
 and finally your independent will. You sold your humanity for nothing but an illusion. And now your greatest fear is discovering the truth of what you’ve become.

I don’t care how badly you’ve been beaten down. It is never too late to regain your courage. Never!

Still want a job?

If you’re currently a well-conditioned, well-behaved employee, your most likely reaction to the above will be defensiveness. It’s all part of the conditioning. But consider that if the above didn’t have a grain of truth to it, you wouldn’t have an emotional reaction at all. This is only a reminder of what you already know. You can deny your cage all you want, but the cage is still there. Perhaps this all happened so gradually that you never noticed it until now
 like a lobster enjoying a nice warm bath.

If any of this makes you mad, that’s a step in the right direction. Anger is a higher level of consciousness than apathy, so it’s a lot better than being numb all the time. Any emotion — even confusion — is better than apathy. If you work through your feelings instead of repressing them, you’ll soon emerge on the doorstep of courage. And when that happens, you’ll have the will to actually do something about your situation and start living like the powerful human being you were meant to be instead of the domesticated pet you’ve been trained to be.
Happily jobless

What’s the alternative to getting a job? The alternative is to remain happily jobless for life and to generate income through other means. Realize that you earn income by providing value — not time – so find a way to provide your best value to others, and charge a fair price for it. One of the simplest and most accessible ways is to start your own business. Whatever work you’d otherwise do via employment, find a way to provide that same value directly to those who will benefit most from it. It takes a bit more time to get going, but your freedom is easily worth the initial investment of time and energy. Then you can buy your own Scooby Snacks for a change.

And of course everything you learn along the way, you can share with others to generate even more value. So even your mistakes can be monetized.

One of the greatest fears you’ll confront is that you may not have any real value to offer others. Maybe being an employee and getting paid by the hour is the best you can do. Maybe you just aren’t worth that much. That line of thinking is all just part of your conditioning. It’s absolute nonsense. As you begin to dump such brainwashing, you’ll soon recognize that you have the ability to provide enormous value to others and that people will gladly pay you for it. There’s only one thing that prevents you from seeing this truth — fear.

All you really need is the courage to be yourself. Your real value is rooted in who you are, not what you do. The only thing you need actually do is express your real self to the world. You’ve been told all sort of lies as to why you can’t do that. But you’ll never know true happiness and fulfillment until you summon the courage to do it anyway.

The next time someone says to you, “Get a job,” I suggest you reply as Curly did: ”No, please
 not that! Anything but that!” Then poke him right in the eyes.

You already know deep down that getting a job isn’t what you want. So don’t let anyone try to tell you otherwise. Learn to trust your inner wisdom, even if the whole world says you’re wrong and foolish for doing so. Years from now you’ll look back and realize it was one of the best decisions you ever made.

The ten reasons I got from Steve Pavlina I hope you enjoyed it.

While I wouldn’t recommend starting an online business for anyone who does not hunger for learning, for everyone else who does hunger for learning it’s the best way to generate income without a job. It has certainly worked disgustingly well for me.

If you’re interested in learning more about this option please private message me.

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-Tom

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What are weekdays for?

FREEDOM is deciding what and where you want to go NOW.

A tyrannical pyramid Scam is having to ask permission from a Gate Keeper for time off who can say yes or no to you.

Become FREE my friends.

You can do it =)

Tell the thief in your mind talking you out of it to piss off.

It’s funny that when people reach a certain age, such as after graduating college, they assume it’s time to go out and get a job.
But like many things the masses do, just because everyone does it doesn’t mean it’s a good idea. In fact, if you’re reasonably intelligent, getting a job is one of the worst things you can do to support yourself. There are far better ways to make a living than selling yourself into indentured servitude.

Here are some reasons you should do everything in your power to avoid getting a job:

1. Income for dummies.
Getting a job and trading your time for money may seem like a good idea. There’s only one problem with it. It’s stupid! It’s the stupidest way you can possibly generate income! This is truly income for dummies.

Why is getting a job so dumb?
Because you only get paid when you’re working. Don’t you see a problem with that, or have you been so thoroughly brainwashed into thinking it’s reasonable and intelligent to only earn income when you’re working? Have you never considered that it might be better to be paid even when you’re not working? Who taught you that you could only earn income while working? Some other brainwashed employee perhaps?
Don’t you think your life would be much easier if you got paid while you were eating, sleeping, and playing with the kids too? Why not get paid 24/7? Get paid whether you work or not. Don’t your plants grow even when you aren’t tending to them? Why not your bank account?

Who cares how many hours you work?

Only a handful of people on this entire planet care how much time you spend at the office. Most of us won’t even notice whether you work 6 hours a week or 60. But if you have something of value to provide that matters to us, a number of us will be happy to pull out our wallets and pay you for it. We don’t care about your time — we only care enough to pay for the value we receive. Do you really care how long it took me to write this article? Would you pay me twice as much if it took me 6 hours vs. only 3?

Non-dummies often start out on the traditional income for dummies path. So don’t feel bad if you’re just now realizing you’ve been suckered. Non-dummies eventually realize that trading time for money is indeed extremely dumb and that there must be a better way. And of course there is a better way. The key is to de-couple your value from your time.

Smart people build systems that generate income 24/7, especially passive income. Once it’s in motion, it runs continuously whether you tend to it or not. From that moment on, the bulk of your time can be invested in increasing your income (by refining your system or spawning new ones) instead of merely maintaining your income.

Once you get going, you won’t have to work so many hours to support yourself. Wouldn’t it be nice to be out having dinner with your spouse, knowing that while you’re eating, you’re earning money? If you want to keep working long hours because you enjoy it, go right ahead. If you want to sit around doing nothing, feel free. As long as your system continues delivering value to others, you’ll keep getting paid whether you’re working or not.
Nobody is born knowing how to start a business or generate investment income, but you can easily learn it. How long it takes you to figure it out is irrelevant because the time is going to pass anyway. You might as well emerge at some future point as the owner of income-generating systems as opposed to a lifelong wage slave. This isn’t all or nothing. If your system only generates a few hundred dollars a month, that’s a significant step in the right direction.

2. Limited experience.
You might think it’s important to get a job to gain experience. But that’s like saying you should play golf to get experience playing golf. You gain experience from living, regardless of whether you have a job or not. A job only gives you experience at that job, but you gain ”experience” doing just about anything, so that’s no real benefit at all. Sit around doing nothing for a couple years, and you can call yourself an experienced meditator, philosopher, or politician.
The problem with getting experience from a job is that you usually just repeat the same limited experience over and over. You learn a lot in the beginning and then stagnate. This forces you to miss other experiences that would be much more valuable. And if your limited skill set ever becomes obsolete, then your experience won’t be worth squat. In fact, ask yourself what the experience you’re gaining right now will be worth in 20-30 years. Will your job even exist then?
Consider this. Which experience would you rather gain? The knowledge of how to do a specific job really well — one that you can only monetize by trading your time for money – or the knowledge of how to enjoy financial abundance for the rest of your life without ever needing a job again? Now I don’t know about you, but I’d rather have the latter experience. That seems a lot more useful in the real world, wouldn’t you say?
3. Lifelong domestication.
Getting a job is like enrolling in a human domestication program. You learn how to be a good pet.
Look around you. Really look. What do you see? Are these the surroundings of a free human being? Or are you living in a cage for unconscious animals? Have you fallen in love with the color beige?
How’s your obedience training coming along? Does your master reward your good behavior? Do you get disciplined if you fail to obey your master’s commands?
Is there any spark of free will left inside you? Or has your conditioning made you a pet for life?
Humans are not meant to be raised in cages. You poor thing

4. Too many mouths to feed.
Employee income is the most heavily taxed there is. In the USA you can expect that about half your salary will go to taxes. The tax system is designed to disguise how much you’re really giving up because some of those taxes are paid by your employer, and some are deducted from your paycheck. But you can bet that from your employer’s perspective, all of those taxes are
considered part of your pay, as well as any other compensation you receive such as benefits. Even the rent for the office space you consume is considered, so you must generate that much more value to cover it. You might feel supported by your corporate environment, but keep in mind that you’re the one paying for it.
Another chunk of your income goes to owners and investors. That’s a lot of mouths to feed.
It isn’t hard to understand why employees pay the most in taxes relative to their income. After all, who has more control over the tax system? Business owners and investors or employees?
You only get paid a fraction of the real value you generate. Your real salary may be more than triple what you’re paid, but most of that money you’ll never see. It goes straight into other people’s pockets.
What a generous person you are!
5. Way too risky.
Many employees believe getting a job is the safest and most secure way to support themselves.
Morons.
Social conditioning is amazing. It’s so good it can even make people believe the exact opposite of the truth.
Does putting yourself in a position where someone else can turn off all your income just by saying two words (“You’re fired”) sound like a safe and secure situation to you? Does having only one income stream honestly sound more secure than having 10?
The idea that a job is the most secure way to generate income is just silly. You can’t have security if you don’t have control, and employees have the least control of anyone. If you’re an employee, then your real job title should be professional gambler.
6. Having an evil bovine master.
When you run into an idiot in the entrepreneurial world, you can turn around and head the other way. When you run into an idiot in the corporate world, you have to turn around and say, “Sorry, boss.”
Did you know that the word boss comes from the Dutch word baas, which historically means master? Another meaning of the word boss is “a cow or bovine.” And in many video games, the boss is the evil dude that you have to kill at the end of a level.
So if your boss is really your evil bovine master, then what does that make you? Nothing but a turd in the herd.
Who’s your daddy?
7. Begging for money.
When you want to increase your income, do you have to sit up and beg your master for more money? Does it feel good to be thrown some extra Scooby Snacks now and then?
Or are you free to decide how much you get paid without needing anyone’s permission but your own?
If you have a business and one customer says “no” to you, you simply say “next.”
8. An inbred social life.
Many people treat their jobs as their primary social outlet. They hang out with the same people working in the same field. Such incestuous relations are social dead ends. An exciting day includes deep conversations about the company’s switch from Sparkletts to Arrowhead, the delay of Microsoft’s latest operating system, and the unexpected delivery of more Bic pens. Consider what it would be like to go outside and talk to strangers. Ooooh
 scary! Better stay inside where it’s safe.
If one of your co-slaves gets sold to another master, do you lose a friend? If you work in a male-dominated field, does that mean you never get to talk to women above the rank of receptionist? Why not decide for yourself whom to socialize with instead of letting your master decide for you? Believe it or not, there are locations on this planet where free people congregate. Just be wary of those jobless folk — they’re a crazy bunch!
9. Loss of freedom.
It takes a lot of effort to tame a human being into an employee. The first thing you have to do is break the human’s independent will. A good way to do this is to give them a weighty policy manual filled with nonsensical rules and regulations. This leads the new employee to become more obedient, fearing that s/he could be disciplined at any minute for something incomprehensible. Thus, the employee will likely conclude it’s safest to simply obey the master’s commands without question. Stir in some office politics for good measure, and we’ve got a freshly minted mind slave.
As part of their obedience training, employees must be taught how to dress, talk, move, and so on. We can’t very well have employees thinking for themselves, now can we? That would ruin everything.
God forbid you should put a plant on your desk when it’s against the company policy. Oh no, it’s the end of the world! Cindy has a plant on her desk! Summon the enforcers! Send Cindy back for another round of sterility training!
Free human beings think such rules and regulations are silly of course. The only policy they need is: “Be smart. Be nice. Do what you love. Have fun.”
10. Becoming a coward.
Have you noticed that employed people have an almost endless capacity to whine about problems at their companies? But they don’t really want solutions – they just want to vent and make excuses why it’s all someone else’s fault. It’s as if getting a job somehow drains all the free will out of people and turns them into spineless cowards. If you can’t call your boss a jerk now and then without fear of getting fired, you’re no longer free. You’ve become your master’s property.
When you work around cowards all day long, don’t you think it’s going to rub off on you? Of course it will. It’s only a matter of time before you sacrifice the noblest parts of your humanity on the altar of fear: first courage
 then honesty
 then honor and integrity
 and finally your independent will. You sold your humanity for nothing but an illusion. And now your greatest fear is discovering the truth of what you’ve become.
I don’t care how badly you’ve been beaten down. It is never too late to regain your courage. Never!
Still want a job?
If you’re currently a well-conditioned, well-behaved employee, your most likely reaction to the above will be defensiveness. It’s all part of the conditioning. But consider that if the above didn’t have a grain of truth to it, you wouldn’t have an emotional reaction at all. This is only a reminder of what you already know. You can deny your cage all you want, but the cage is still there. Perhaps this all happened so gradually that you never noticed it until now
 like a lobster enjoying a nice warm bath.
If any of this makes you mad, that’s a step in the right direction. Anger is a higher level of consciousness than apathy, so it’s a lot better than being numb all the time. Any emotion — even confusion — is better than apathy. If you work through your feelings instead of repressing them, you’ll soon emerge on the doorstep of courage. And when that happens, you’ll have the will to actually do something about your situation and start living like the powerful human being you were meant to be instead of the domesticated pet you’ve been trained to be.
Happily jobless
What’s the alternative to getting a job? The alternative is to remain happily jobless for life and to generate income through other means. Realize that you earn income by providing value — not time – so find a way to provide your best value to others, and charge a fair price for it. One of the simplest and most accessible ways is to start your own business. Whatever work you’d otherwise do via employment, find a way to provide that same value directly to those who will benefit most from it. It takes a bit more time to get going, but your freedom is easily worth the initial investment of time and energy. Then you can buy your own Scooby Snacks for a change.
And of course everything you learn along the way, you can share with others to generate even more value. So even your mistakes can be monetized.
One of the greatest fears you’ll confront is that you may not have any real value to offer others. Maybe being an employee and getting paid by the hour is the best you can do. Maybe you just aren’t worth that much. That line of thinking is all just part of your conditioning. It’s absolute nonsense. As you begin to dump such brainwashing, you’ll soon recognize that you have the ability to provide enormous value to others and that people will gladly pay you for it. There’s only one thing that prevents you from seeing this truth — fear.
All you really need is the courage to be yourself. Your real value is rooted in who you are, not what you do. The only thing you need actually do is express your real self to the world. You’ve been told all sort of lies as to why you can’t do that. But you’ll never know true happiness and fulfillment until you summon the courage to do it anyway.
The next time someone says to you, “Get a job,” I suggest you reply as Curly did: ”No, please
 not that! Anything but that!” Then poke him right in the eyes.
You already know deep down that getting a job isn’t what you want. So don’t let anyone try to tell you otherwise. Learn to trust your inner wisdom, even if the whole world says you’re wrong and foolish for doing so. Years from now you’ll look back and realize it was one of the best decisions you ever made.
The ten reasons I got from Steve Pavlina I hope you enjoyed it.
While I wouldn’t recommend starting an online business for anyone who does not hunger for learning, for everyone else who does hunger for learning it’s the best way to generate income without a job. It has certainly worked disgustingly well for me.
If you’re interested in learning more about this option please private message me.
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-Tom

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follow your heart

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How to do ANYTHING..

AMAZING if you take enough baby steps over a long enough period of time what you can build yourself up to being able to do.

Everyone should THINK like that.

Run a marathon.
Become a Doctor.
Fund Raise for a Charity.
Become Financially Free and Independent.
Write a Book.
Come off Medications SAFELY.
Start a Business.
Inspire the masses.

The journey of a thousand miles is achievable at one digestible step at a time.

You can eat eat something the size of a house in one digestible bite at a time.

You can learn Rocket Science in one digestible bit of info at a time.

You can become 365% BETTER 1 year from today if you just focus on becoming only 1% better one day at a time.

Anyone can do just a little digestible bit of something each and every day.

What’s easy to do is also easy not to do.

98% of the population won’t do it.

Be the 2%.

Be so WEIRD that you are not participating in the 98% anymore not because you are better than them but because you are different than them.

Then surround yourself with other Two Percenters.

Find out what 98% of the population is doing, how they think, how they respond to problems, and RUN The opposite direction as fast as you can and you will be unusually successful.

You can do it.

Feel free to comment below or Private Message me if you have some ambitious goals you want to talk about.

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-Tom

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follow your heart

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Women always want a man needy for some company to take care of him – a JOB

Whenever I begin to wonder why I’m single I just remind myself I haven’t had a job in 11 years and girls like a guy who has a job.

Ladies, why do you set the bar so low?

Having a job is as low as it gets!

You’re flat out saying that you want a man who is co-dependent and needy for someone else or a company to take care of him.

Raise your standards! 🙂

You can do better than some loser who still needs his job to take care of him. 🙂

it takes heart and guts to be independent and takes a coward to be needy for some company to take care of him.

I’m judging peoples actions not so much people.

People needy for their job are not brave in their livelihood, maybe in other areas of their life they are brave, but in terms of their livelihood they are obedient cowards who created the income gap in tandem with Corporate America and Politicians beholden to their Donors in Corporate America.

Most of the women I’ve ever been really interested in have had a job.

But that’s probably only because most women have a job and the heart wants what it wants.

My heart would never allow me to count having a job as a strike against them or their heart.

Work is wonderful!

However, Work in the capacity of an obedient coward is a slave.

Being an obedient worker is the Cowardly part of 49 out of every 50 people in our country.

I’ve been called a “pompous ass” for my philosophies, however, you are regurgitating the talking points of Goldman and Sachs, you know, President Trump’s main dudes who tanked the economy in 2008 on purpose for their gain at the expense of everyone else and never went to jail for it.

Goldman Sachs, and the other “goldman sachs” of our economy, would say I’m the pompous ass because they see people like me as a threat to them and they see the middle and the poor as their bread and butter.

I WISH THE MIDDLE WOULD STOP DOING THINGS TO DECIMATE THEIR OWN LIVELIHOOD SO THE GOLDMAN SACHS OF OUR ECONOMY CAN HAVE MORE WHILE THE MIDDLE AND POOR HAVE LESS! IT’S SO OBNOXIOUSLY SELF-SABOTAGING!!!!

Be free and happy.

TRUE RICH is having both yes and yes.

Poor is to have one but not the other.

A WISE woman told me, “Nah, I don’t put much stock in his job status. You just haven’t met someone you’ve really clicked with.” I agreed with her whole heartidly! This wise lady friend of mine is none other than Jill Kawecki.

I just might end up with a lady who has a job and I will love her just the same anyway LOL

What I’m saying is if a person enjoys being able to own their time and their life it cannot happen through a codependency on a job.

If a job is optional because an individual has enough passive income that it exceeds all their expenses then a job is totally cool but when it’s not optional, when it’s out of codependency to be able to afford bills and food, a job is not cool.

There is a gross inconsistency when someone says they love to be a free human being while they need their job or they can’t pay their bills.

People can live however they want I’m just asking for consistency.

If someone wants to be needy for a job or they can’t afford to eat then they should say they like being controlled and manipulated through money dependency and I’m totally cool with that.

But who is really truthfully enjoying being controlled and manipulated through money dependency to pay bills and eat?

I’ve NEVER heard anyone say they enjoy that!!!!

So if we are being forthcoming HONEST then everyone would be figuring out how to build passive income to exceed all their living expenses to be consistent with their INNATE DESIRE to be a FREE human being.

But most people are not doing ANYTHING to build passive income.

Most people are not intellectually inconsistent.

By the way this might shock some of you but I am very much pro job not anti Job 🙂

Above All Else I’m Pro freedom and anti-slavery.

No one needs to have a job because they depend on it for their income.

A job can be an optional thing when you learn about passive and residual money from assets you can acquire and own your self.

They don’t teach this in school and it is done on purpose because they need you to be co-dependent on your job.

They don’t want your job to be an optional luxury item in your life.

“jobs typically get in the way of fun” – Katie Kadaver

Amen sistah Katie Kadaver!

I want all my friends to start getting into passive income so we have time to play together more!

-Tom

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follow your heart

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