Good spirited playful banter is the answer

The question is, what builds real attraction and chemistry more powerfully than anything including anything sexual?

Nothing tops building attraction more than two people who are so well connected to themselves that they can connect to each other through healthy playful banter.

Being able to banter with someone says a lot about who you are. It’s much deeper than just the banter. It reveals your emotional intelligence, wisdom, if you’re quick thinking, witty, creative, not boring, playful, emotionally attractive, intellectually strong, if you have confidence, maturity, and on and on. The ability to Banter in a playful healthy way cannot be overstated.

Banter is also the best Segway into getting to know you kind of conversation with somebody because now you’re emotionally mutually invested for a much more meaningful get to know you kind of conversation.

If everything is always logical and feels more like an interview the connection is boring. There is no sex appeal to that. Having a good balance of banter and logical getting to know you type conversation is exciting and arousing.

Most people do not have a healthy connection with themselves which has created a toxic unhealthy dating pool with very few exceptions.

So few people realize the importance of playful banter and the balance of that with logical getting to know you type of conversation.

This isn’t true just for romantic connections but also friendships and relationships of all kinds.

What are your thoughts and opinions of this? How important is a well balanced conversation of playful banter and logistical? Have you been with potential dating prospects that are all logistical and you found yourself bored out of your mind but wasn’t sure why?

Tom
www.orgasmicpathways.com

Fish out of Water

Damn I have some vulnerabilities..

I am a fish out of water on and off the dance floor.

I love dancing with a partner but I have to force myself or I’ll never ask anyone to dance.

I put myself in social settings most nights of every week but it’s more comfortable for me to stay home.

“What the fuck was that?” I silently ask myself after dancing with my follows.

Once in a while I feel a rewarding connection with a follow but it’s only temporary. When I ask that same follow for a dance at the next social that connection is no longer there.

In social settings I rarely ever vibe so I just observe and redirect where I do vibe. I will change venues and locales without notice or communication until I vibe or until I would rather go home.

One on one interactions tend to be more meaningful with depth and clarity but those are temporary too.

Why do I perpetually put myself in these circumstances?

I want to grow, learn, expand my understanding, and most of all I genuinely love dancing and being in social settings even through feeling like a fish out of water.

My motivation is curiosity. “Let’s see what happens” is my backstop and my mantra. Do I want to ask this lady to dance? Let’s see what happens. Do I want to go to this social event? Let’s see what happens. I’m perfectly fine leaving anytime I wish and I often do.

Do I feel like I belong on planet earth?

No.

But, let’s see what happens.

Tom
www.orgasmicpathways.com

Growing numbers of people are isolated, unincluded, disoriented, unloved, and unheard.

People are at the end of their ropes in extreme despair and an existence of torture.

Love Is Never enough. People are hardwired to feel included, loved, and heard.

Relationships of all kinds are supposed to be nurtured, not neglected with the well-meaning intention of getting around to it “someday”.

Over busyness and using technological advances to create further isolation are formidable enemies to The Human Condition.

People are the problem and solution.

The homosapian brain is the most advanced brain of any species in the history of planet Earth and an argument can easily be made that we’ve collectively wasted it.

Tom
www.orgasmicpathways.com

Ever since I updated my profile pic, cover pic, and intro section I’m getting these private messages from women telling me how full of myself, narcissistic, and ego-centric I am.

So, I’ve decided I’m keeping these 3 items exactly how they are for the time being <3 Love and appreciation to the women who love and appreciate men with standards.

I feel like the existence of my facebook profile is doing a lot of the heavy lifting for me. That’s what I call good leverage that frees up more time to focus my energy on who and where it matters.

The rampid widespread bad behavior of women in the dating pool is a daily reminder of how important it is to screen and filter before even setting up a date. I’m sure this is true for women also. If you’re a man or a woman you have to have clear standards that does not tolerate the bad behavior. I’ve never been on a date that was not fun because I do a good job at weeding out the bad dates before they have a chance to happen. Thank goodness. So yes, a mad love shout out to women with standards who also love men with standards.

Always be yourself. Let the wrong people weed themselves out and they will <3

Tom
www.orgasmicpathways.com

I have not dated anyone in the dance community and here are 3 reasons why

“Tom! You dance with all those gorgeous ladies in the videos you post and you’ve got so much going for you how are you still single? Why are you not dating any of those gorgeous ladies in the videos you’re dancing with???”

I’m commonly asked this very valid question and I have a really great answer.

The studio I go to for most of my dance lessons is a tight community. They are friendly and welcoming to new people. This is special because communities that are tight are typically not as accepting and welcoming of people outside of their already existing community. This context is needed for my answer.

There are three reasons I haven’t dated anyone in the dance community. In no particular order..

  1. I want to keep the dance community a safe sanctuary type of place. For obvious reasons dating can cause awkward and uncomfortable situations in an area where we are all dancing with each other and often times very up close in our personal spaces. Some of the partner combos we rotate through with each other are very sensual with lots of body connection points. There is chest to chest contact, hip to hip contact, tracing of the arms in a sensual demeanor etc. If someones heart gets broken it can make it extremely difficult to heal from in an environment like this. It would flat out suck if someone has to decide between dance or healing if they cannot be done simultaneously. It could also create gossip, people talking behind each others backs, and people taking sides and splintering off from the community that was once whole.
  2. Over the past 10 months I have had several surface level crushes. Some of them I might even take some risk and ask out on a date if not for the rationale I just gave. I’ve received some indications from some of the ladies but nothing strong enough to warrant asking any of them out. In that particular safe environment I need a woman to send me strong indicators that she would be enthusiastic about me asking her out or I’m not going to do it, period.
  3. I’ve never been asked out! That’s pretty straight forward. It would be great if more girls did the initiating and the asking but unfortunately in our culture most of the time it’s up to the man. If I’m enthusiastically interested in the woman asking me out I’m going to enthusiastically say yes. This is all true in and outside of the dance community.

In summation, I want to do my part in keeping the dance community a safe environment for everyone who is passionate about dancing. However, if there is a strong enough connection with a woman, I am a romantic, I will absolutely ask her out on a real date and she will be one exceedingly happy lady being invited into my exciting life that I’ve built on purpose. There is no doubt!

I hope you got some great insight into the workings of my brain. Not just in direct answer to the posed question but some of my driving philosophies in dating and in romance at large.

Feel free to share this and I would love your feedback in the comments. Am a taking the right precautions in your opinion given the nature of the dance environment I described? Would you ask someone out less cautiously than me? Would you be even more cautious than me even if you’re really interested in someone and you are getting indicators from them as well? How would you operate here? I would love to know. Maybe your method of operation will help me fine tune mine or others reading in the comments as well. My favorite positive about the comments section is it’s always an opportunity for people to help and support each other.

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Bye for now!

Tom

Rules and simps around dating is meant for playing games and manipulating human emotions

You’re a “simp” if you do this. Don’t do that or you’re a simp! Lots of rules to follow to avoid being a simp! You know what an actual simp is? A man (or woman!) who chases after someone who has pulled away.

They say don’t send a woman a good morning text because only simps do that. BS – If she (or he) is interested in you she will reciprocate.

They say don’t text a woman right away. Wait a couple days or you’re a simp! BS – If she is interested in you she will love hearing from you and she will put real effort into engaging in the conversation with you.

You know what all of these so called simp rules are? They are games. It’s a rule book for how to play games and toy with peoples emotions. It’s the equivalent of pissing in the dating pool which has made the water toxic for everyone.

If a woman ( or man ) is not showing up with any effort or emotional investment then they are not interested in you or they are playing a game. If you feel confused then most likely they are not interested in you. If someone is distancing themselves from you, from investing any effort with you and you still send the good morning texts, the various ego pumping meaningless pointless validations toward her, then you are chasing rather than pursuing and that’s what simps do.

Good humans are frustrated when you show really low effort in conversation.

What we truly desire is reciprocation because it demonstrates you really care about us and the relationship.

We rely on you being able to communicate. It’s extremely frustrating to good people when we are expected to read your mind instead of getting a straight forward answer. This is why you don’t want to play games with a good human because those types of games we want no part in we can spot from a mile away just before walking away, from you.

Without reciprocation or at least a clear show of effort you’re either playing those simp games and we will walk away which will leave you frustrated because you lost us as a result of some really bad simp rule you subscribed to from someone else who told you it was a good idea. Or, if there is no reciprocation the other possibility is you’re genuinely not interested so it becomes on us to move on and enjoy our lives we built for ourselves that we are proud to live and eventually invite the right woman to be part of. Either way, no outwardly expressed reciprocation means move on.

A quick fix for a very toxic dating pool would simply be for all of us to move on when there is no reciprocation. I’m sure that will never happen but all of us individually are in control of our own decisions and one silver lining to our toxic dating pool is it makes it easy for us good humans to positively stand out and there is worthwhile value in that. Fellow good humans will recognize that and appreciate it.

At the end of the day it’s about attracting someone for a healthy reciprocating relationship where both humans involved are investing effort, energy, time, nourishment, and growth. If it’s about simply hooking up with someone then that’s an entirely different conversation. I personally won’t perpetuate hook up culture I think it does more emotional harm than good because it’s so vacuous and empty. To each their own but my video and blog channels are not going to prop up and perpetuate hook up culture. My content is for people who are attracted to healthy long term reciprocating relationships of all kinds.

What are some examples you have of games that have been played on you that you spotted from a mile away? How do you respond when you recognize you are being gamed? I love the more meaningful comments because they not only help me refine myself but others reading the comments also get benefit from your experiences too.

My favorite positive about the comments section is it’s always an opportunity for people to help and support each other.

Orgasmic pathways dot com is my website. Orgasmic pathways dot com. Natural health, healthy recipes, fitness, music, dance, philosophy, and whatever else I feel like.

Bye for now….

Tom

Men have peed in the dating pool and made the water toxic for everyone.

Men have screwed up the psychology of women so thoroughly that women will drive out good men who will not chase her or compete against her bad behaviors.

Women are so overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and physical sick from the bad behaviors of men that they’ve put up impenetrable walls that go beyond being justifiably cautious.

Here is what men need to do. I don’t give a fffffflip what anyone says because this is 100% true.

Men need to give women their time and space to heal from the onslaught of bad experiences from men. Men need to start focusing on themselves to develop an exciting life they are actually proud of and worth while of inviting a woman into.

Women, from a good mans perspective I would highly recommend you swear off dating until you are healed. At the moment, most of you woman are so badly traumatized that a good man most likely won’t be recognized as a good man. If you are healed, if your engine is running clean and healthy, it becomes easy for you to discern a good man from the bad ones who perhaps also need to focus on their own healing instead of dating.

Most women have no congruence between what they say they want and what they actually do. I hate to say this but when you hear most woman say what they are looking for in a man it’s either directly not true, or, not true based on critical omissions. A woman with a healthy connection to herself is going to be a woman who is congruent between what she says and what she does.

Men will buy women drinks they don’t even know. On dating apps the average woman will receive over 100 likes in the same amount of time it will take the average guy to receive 1 like (this is literal!). Women receive so much pointless validation from men that it screws their heads up to the point of developing entitlement behavior of asking men for resources and then expecting men to always say yes no matter what. When a man has standards and enough self worth to say “no” to a woman she is shocked because she’s not use to being said “no” to when asking him for access to his wallet.

Men, stop buying women you don’t know a drink! When a woman asks you to buy her a drink say “no!”. Not rudely or politely; indifferently. “No” is a one word sentence. Women! “No” is a one word sentence. Recipients of a telemarketers sales pitch! “No” is a one word sentence! Men, you have brain worms if you think you’re getting closer to sex or even a date just because you give a woman access to your wallet. She is just using you for free stuff! She is going to have more respect for someone like me who says “no!”. If she is going to go out on a date with someone it’s more likely going to be the odd man of standards who doesn’t blindly pump her ego with pointless validation. You don’t stand out when you buy a woman you don’t know a drink. She has an endless sea of lazy men who are doing the same thing as you. All of you are peeing in the same dating pool; making it toxic for everyone with your endless pointless ego pumping validation toward women.

Online and offline you’re compliments focus on their looks. You don’t think they hear that ALL THE TIME from men they don’t even know? You don’t stand out! How does that not sink into your heads?

Also, women love sex just as much as men but they have the burden of worrying about being thought of as slutty or at fault if it turns out bad which it almost always does! So stop using forced sexual banter! Let that happen organically over the passing of time without any agenda! Go home and masturbate if you need to get off. Get that out of your system before you go out so you don’t make a jackass out of yourself, men.

I could tell you fantastic stories of experiences I’ve had simply saying “no” to a woman I don’t even know asking me to buy her a drink. I’ll share one because it represents the macro.

I was on one of my trips to a far away and exotic tropical locale. A physically attractive woman dressed up all sexy approached me with a nice compliment on my appearance. She admired my posture and how well put together I was with my fashion sense. I had an idea what was most likely going to come next but I gave her a fair chance with me without projecting past women onto this one. Unfortunately she did proceed to do what most other women do. Her compliments might have been genuine but they were also meant to disarm me when she followed up with, “They make really good drinks here I would just love it if you bought us a drink.” To which I said, “I’m not drinking but I’m sure the bartender would be thrilled to sell you a drink if you want to buy one.”. The look on her face was the same one I always get in return when I say No to a woman. She was stunned. A deer in the headlights. She didn’t know what to say. Clearly she was not use to being said “no” to. Clearly she NEVER has to buy her own drink because their is an endless supply of lazy dopey brain dead men lacking the self worth or the standards to say “no” to a woman.

I’m attracted to women who are attracted to men who have standards and self worth. This is my backstop philosophy driving my decision to say “no” to a woman in this particular circumstance. If a woman is offended over my standards then she is not for me anyway so what do I care.

The EASIEST THING IN THE WORLD FOR A WOMAN TO GET IS A MAN (WITH NO STANDARDS).

Every woman knows I am dead on right whether they want to admit it out loud or not.

One of my ex female friends severed our friendship over that observation I made because she knows it’s dead on true and she hasn’t dealt with that reality in a healthy way but instead a history of being treated terribly by the men she has chosen. It’s self sabotage if you’re a woman.

The EASIEST THING IN THE WORLD FOR A WOMAN TO GET IS A MAN (WITH NO STANDARDS).

Look at that statement logically and the end game it leads to when you apply it. Women, If you go with a guy who has no standards or self worth it’s a toxic unhealthy relationship before it even gets started. Same thing with you MEN! If you’re a man and you get upset when you buy a woman a drink who ultimately does not have sex with or date you you’re being an idiot. Stop pissing in the pool. You’re swimming in your own piss. Stop being a jackass. The rest of us don’t want to swim in your piss pool either so STOP! ALL MEN, STOP!

The way to improve dating culture is for men to start saying “no” to women in the situations I described.

In an overwhelming generalization women dominate the dating scene. They decide who goes on a date and who has sex. A fair argument can be made that men decide who gets into a real relationship but that’s another topic for another day.

The power dynamic is so insanely one sided between men and women that men are better positioned to begin this leveling and healing process for everyone simply by saying “no” to women. If enough men do this, then the unhealthy part of womens egos everywhere would be destroyed. This would force the mind to become fertile for needed healing and for personal growth and development which makes all of us more attractive on a deeper more meaningful level. Once individuals have beautiful healthy connections with themselves they could develop beautiful healthy organic unforced connections with other human beings.

I have a great loving connection with myself. I can connect with other humans all day long. When I’m connecting with another human who is also well connected with themselves then that connection goes to a whole other level and that is sadly extremely rare which says a lot about how truly sick our culture is on a depressingly wide scale. This does not only apply to potential lovers, but friends and relationships of all kinds.

IF men would start to say “no” to women then women would no longer have the entitled mentality of never having to pay her own way and the domino affect of other unhealthy mindsets from there. Men would no longer be expected to feel ok about being treated like a human ATM machine. Men and women could focus on getting to know each other to see how it really feels deep down inside and be ok with recognizing mismatches without dehumanizing the other. Love and understanding could be the focus. Treating other humans as property of micro management could become a thing of the past. Unfair projections of past bad behavior on future connections could cease to exist. The frustrations of tip toeing around constant eggshells because god forbid someone decides to take offense will not be tolerated anymore! Gratitude, graciousness, PASSION, loveliness, deep romantic kissing with an amazing partner…sigh… That sounds better than the culture we have now.

Men, stop being wusses and start saying “no”. I don’t care what anyone says women want you to start saying “no”! Women find standards and self worth to be more attractive than constant ‘yes’ men. In the meantime you’re making it so easy for me to positively stand out but I would much rather feel a healthy culture. Out of my own self interest I’m tired of having to walk away from otherwise good women who have been traumatized and not at all ready for a healthy relationship. ALL OF US are sick and tired of being sick and tired. So MEN, stop being wusses and start saying “no”.

Here is something horrifying I want to share with you based on personal experiences. I have dated women before where she freaked out because she was not use to a man with standards and self worth. She was not use to being treated with love, passion, respect, not treated like human property, not placed on a pedestal, not a constant ‘yes’ man, encouraging of her dreams and ambitions etc. These particular women I’ve witnessed run from the potential of a healthy relationship only to go back to what she was familiar with. I’ve seen women leave good men to go back to the same ole some ole and get beaten, sometimes physically, as well as emotionally. Women, you’ve got to stop dating for the time being and heal yourselves so you’ll never allow yourselves to be treated like you are someones property ever again. You’ve got to stop looking for the endless pointless validation from men in the form of buying you stuff and praising you online every time you upload a sexy picture. Men, you’ve got to stop being wusses and start saying ‘no’. It’s time to clean up the piss from the pool.

If you have something you’d like to add, a story you’d like to share, a new commitment you’re making to yourself or a future partner, drop your words in the comments let’s learn from and support each other. Or if you just wanna tell me how great and healthy my skin looks that’s cool to who am I to say no to that!

Orgasmic pathways dot com is my website. Orgasmic pathways dot com. Choose your pathways. Bye for now. To be continued..

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A disagreement with a toxic partner will turn into an argument, that turns into a bigger problem.

A disagreement with a divine partner will turn into a conversation, that will lead to changed behavior or a solution.

It’s important you know the difference.

It’s a refreshing Rarity when I see a healthy relationship. The overwhelming majority of people are not attracted to healthy relationships, they are attracted to relationships that physically make them sick and emotionally drained.

-Tom

People are interesting if you don’t take it too personal

It’s fun to share some of these odd interactions and get feedback from you beautiful people.

We were having a nice conversation about nature, outdoor activities, renewable energy and self-sufficient living. Then suddenly out of nowhere, bam! You can read it in the screenshot I captured here.

I’m speculating she has a past of men who have treated her terribly and sadly she’s not responding to her past in a healthy way going forward at this point.

I give it a 50/50 chance that she even read my response explaining why she might have been under the impression I have multiple profiles while in reality I just have just one. She may have no idea I responded. Or maybe she did read my response and deleted me anyway out of a disbelief. I have no idea.

If you have your own speculations or ideas you would like to add please feel free to chime in. I don’t need consoling or anything like that. I’m not upset by this. Just very curious to learn more about people in general.

-Tom

I don’t date, I elevate..

I really love this framing of elevating rather than dating.

Would you keep date plans when there is a lack of enthusiasm?

I’ve cancelled dates before, never last minute, just simply for a lack of enthusiasm. If a woman is not as enthusiastic about dating me as I am her then I am out. I never ghost but I will politely communicate that I believe it’s a waste of time to go out on a date that is not met with enthusiasm.

-Tom

I am sexually attracted to most women but I’m not interested in them.

BIG difference.

There is much more to me than what every woman wants. There is much more to the woman of my dreams than what every other man wants.

Nourish, participate, and grow rather than neglect and die.

Desire, attention, attraction, are meaningless if you don’t see me, hear me, or value me.

Show Me Your endearing Enthusiasm not your disingenuous love bombs.

Show me your depth not your inability to express yourself.

Show me a natural energetic alignment not a lopsided mismatch.

I don’t want to chase you or be chased.

The lackluster superficial connections that most people are into is literally isolation against me.

To give up would be a betrayal to myself.

– Tom

https://tombirkenmeyer.com

To be in a Crowd or Group of people is to be Alone

This is me in a crowd of people.

I’m by myself.

There is value for me in feeling most alone when I’m around other people.

My innate curious nature causes me to observe everything when I’m not oblivious to everything.

I see how people treat each other and themselves. I see how people act in crowds and groups versus independently or in one on ones. I see how drastic Behavior changes when people are in groups or crowds. I see the facades. I see the authenticities. I see the regurgitated cliches and carbon copies. I see the original and creatives. I see the cringe. I see the beautiful. I see the many walls of protection. I see the almost non existent little sands that were once walls.

This is perhaps my favorite picture anyone has ever candidly taken of me. When my friend brought this picture to my attention I immediately saw myself as I feel when I’m in crowds or groups of people.

But still I go back for more just to see what happens this time. And the next time. And the next time after that. Once in a while a meaningful dialogue will happen. Sometimes even a worthwhile connection with another human.

People think I’m a happy social butterfly; always going out doing things and regular venue changes. Oh but I’m not! It’s my innate sense of curiosity driving me to embark on explorations to see what happens.

I can connect with people all day long because I am deeply connected to myself. When I am connecting with another human who is also deeply connected to themselves we have the potential to a whole new level of connection. Outside of those very rare occurrences I am isolated but acutely aware.

Tom

https://tombirkenmeyer.com

A promise to myself to honor being single and now it’s time to move on and away from single life..

In my early twenties I made a promise to myself to honor being happily single. It didn’t require any effort. I was already intrinsically happy as a single man.

I have my own passions going on such as dance, music, nature-esque stuff, and eating chocolate bunnies (no sugar added 😉 ).

I perpetually deepen my connection within myself so I can not only be a more whole individual, but, attract a divine GODDESS. I am ready. Being single has been fun but I feel it’s time to move on with a goddess to co experience life with. I may actually get dolled up and go on a date to an authentic Thai place in lake geneva, who knows!

Tom

https://tombirkenmeyer.com

Is winning the lottery the most probable way of coming across lots of money?

I heard someone say that the lottery is a tax against people who are not good at math. Lol I love that!

Coming across large sums of money shouldn’t be a mystery.

Why do you spend money?

Turn the mirror around and you’ll probably discover you spend money on whatever you recieve enough value from to make it worth it.

You spend money on things that solve a problem, provide convenience, make things easier, gives you education, an experience that feels good, etc.

So the answer to the question of how to make more money is you have to provide solutions to people’s problems.

Wishing for more money is not a solvable problem.

Citing your own personal struggles is not a solvable problem and won’t make you more money by itself.

Solving problems, creating convenience, making things easier is a solvable problem you can learn to solve through education.

I love investing in my education because the knowledge I consume I can then turn around and Leverage to make money by helping others solve problems.

The two main problems I specialize in helping people solve are money and health.

I help hungry people who want a better way to make money & live a more healthy chemical free life.

I help people make their job optional.

I made my job optional in February of 2010.

I’ve been there, I know the way, I can help you.

If you feel pulled by this, feel free to reach me via private message.

If I can help, I’ll help.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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My car broke down 45 minutes from home and I feel Good =)

Three and a half hours to kill until my car is ready for about $1,300 🙂

Beautiful weather today for this to happen. I mean seriously, if you’re going to experience a car breakdown let it be in PERFECT weather like today.

I walked about a half mile down the road from the car repair shop to this Japanese restaurant called “spicy tuna” where I’m sitting down to this delicious vegan meal.

I’m creating content for my business group, writing this fun blog, catching up with a few friends, and then onward down the road creating an adventure out of this.

I come to this super old pub and grill type place where all the windows are open and people are cheerful so I duck in for a short drink and some cheery conversation. Everyone there was so nice and talkative but NOT annoying. They were pure joy.

Why am I not worried about the financial hit? Why do I feel so free to enjoy myself? Why is the hit on my finances not hindering me financially or in any other way?

Before I got started on my new journey of a better way to make money & live a more healthy chemical free life this would have devastated me.

More than 80% of the country cannot afford a single thousand dollar emergency and I use to be in that percentile.

When a sudden expense hits like that it really hinders what you’re able to do in life and that creates stress and eventually real health problems.

A system slanted against workers can exercise more control over you when you have less options and more problems.

I help hungry people who want a better way to make money & live a more healthy chemical free life.

I’m extremely grateful I don’t have to work to pay for this $1,300 because I’m already covered thanks to my journey with residual and passive income I started in august of 2007.

Before I got started, this expense would have ruined me. So I know both sides of this coin. I know how to get out of that situation. I can help.

In fact, that’s what my private facebook group is about.

It’s about helping you make better money and living a healthy chemical free life that a job does not offer.

If you are interested in reading an article I wrote about online business with all the specifics to see if it speaks to you let me know I will send you my article link.

If you agree with what you read I’m happy to include you in my private facebook coaching group where each day you will find a small digestible training you CONSUME and accompanied with an action step for you to CREATE.

This is what’s going to help you create forward momentum.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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What’s your MANTRA?

“I’m getting BETTER and BETTER”.

People are influenced by people who are getting better and better.

..and with each new thing you learn, or small victory you score, is something new you can teach or share.

But, this mantra of getting better and better isn’t an empty mantra! If you’re consuming training and then creating action each day then the mantra has life because it’s true!

I’m getting BETTER and BETTER as I CONSUME and CREATE so I have value I can share with my Audience on the DAILY.

This is conceptually how I built an online business on facebook for free and no longer need a job.

If you’re somebody that wants to utilize facebook without paying for anything extra, to build your audience, engage with your audience, and organically influence your audience..

..If you wanna come along that’s what we are doing.

I’m very upfront.

I don’t have big tech skills.

I don’t spend ANY money on advertising.

This is how I’m doing it for myself and my team.

Do you wanna see what I’m doing?

I have a private group on facebook.

Each day their is small digestible training you CONSUME and accompanied in each training is an action step for you to CREATE because this is what’s going to help you.

That’s where we come up with Consume AND Create.

Consume and create is the driver behind perpetual FORWARD momentum for your personal life and business life.

Consume and Create is what’s going to help you get Better and Better.

If you feel pulled by this feel free to reach out to me by private message.

If I can help, I’ll help.

#consumeandcreate

-Tom

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Triggered or Distracted?

People are “triggered” at other people who are triggered and neither side is aware they are participating in the same “circle jerk” of triggers.

Jack is triggered.

Jill is triggered because jack is triggered.

Now jack and jill are both super duper triggered that the other is triggered over the other being so triggered…and… Circle Jerk =)

The big question I have is this..

Who will “get off” first so we can move passed our current cultural phase of a trigger happy people clinging to safe spaces from each others micro aggressions???

Jack and Jill need to return to fetching pails of water…

OH wait that didn’t turn out so good either…

I’ll take jack breaking his crown, falling down, and jill tumbling after over being perpetually triggered any day =)

Maybe.. Just maybe…

We live in a trigger happy devolving culture because it’s made for a WONDERFULLY SUCCESSFUL Distraction.

Who would distract us? And from what???

You need to keep up your OBEDIENCE training.

Don’t get cute and start questioning why you are controlled and manipulated through money dependency to pay bills and eat!

Don’t start developing into a free thinking person on the FEVERISH SEARCH to become independently HEALTHY and WEALTHY!

They NEED you to defend your current source of income as Intelligent, safe, stable, and all of the other unforgivable egregious lies they’ve been selling you.

If you evolve into an independent free thinking human being it effs up their plans to keep you obedient because if you BREAK your obedience to what they’ve built for you to live inside of then you become difficult or IMPOSSIBLE to further control and manipulate through the dependency of money to pay your bills.

They lose their power to make you a sick hospital patient, a victim of soulless private health insurance companies, and a PhRMA customer if you dare break your chains they’ve given you to shackle yourself with.

As it turns out we are very easily distracted.

The distractions change but one thing that is consistent is we keep their status quo “business as usual” system in place so they can have more while You have less.

Todays distraction is… Let’s Trigger everyone!

I bet not even they who self protect their own interests imagined we’d run with the distraction they’ve given us and expand it into safe spaces, micro-aggressions, and doubling down on our own self destructive behaviors.

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-Tom

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When someone quits because “Life” got too hard it’s really not true.

No one quits because life got hard. That’s just the lie we sometimes sell ourselves to protect our ego from getting hurt…

Successful people are successful because they Never Gave Up. If “Life got too hard” was the real reason people quit then there would be Zero successful people because life gets Hard for EVERYONE.

The successful ones Never gave up and they constantly learn from their experiences.. That’s it.

The unsuccessful quit and didn’t learn anything.

This means there is no such thing as Failing because now Failing is just Feedback.

You either succeed or you Quit. That’s really all there is.

To Fail is to WIN because you never gave up. To quit is self protection and it never really works. Failing your way to the top of your personal mountain is to WIN.

Tom

-Tom

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Bad advice says, “Follow your passion!!” however well intended..

Success fuels passion more than passion fuels success.

To live a life full of meaning and value you don’t follow your passion, your passion follows you.

Passion is not a plan.

It’s a feeling and feelings change.

You don’t create your life first and then live it.

You create your life by LIVING it.

Bankers are trained to not loan to people who are following their passion.

Don’t wait.

Spend your energy solving your favorite problems.

Be useful and generous.

Passion is where your energy is there to meet anothers needs.

Passion lives in what you have to contribute.

The opposite of passion is waiting and procrastination.

If you’re passionate then prove it by taking action and allowing passion to follow you.

-Tom

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86,400 Opportunities Per Day

86,400 seconds in a day.

It takes literally one second to decide your going to eat better, exercise better, live better, make better money, etc.

The economy is slanted against you so each second of every day represents an opportunity for you to create opportunity for yourself to become financially free and independent.

Each second represents an opportunity for you to make a different decision then the one you made before.

That one second decision represents a new beginning in a space time continuum that is always moving forward with or without your involvement.

Time is only going to expose you or promote you without any Prejudice or bias.

Since time is going to pass by anyway you might as well start now so you can emerge at a future point an independent financially free human being.

A year or two from now you can be glad you did or regretful you didn’t.

-Tom

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Throw Your Box Away

You weren’t designed to live within the parameters of what other people decided for you.

You weren’t designed to work for a paycheck in the amount that was decided for you.

You weren’t designed to eat the food that’s been genetically modified for you as a business model to cause you to need prescription drugs and then another round of prescription drugs to deal with the side effects of the first round of prescription drugs.

You weren’t designed to lack the free time your heart desires.

You weren’t designed to be manipulated by a media to spend your time and money on stuff you don’t really want or need.

The most constrained box of them all is the one you’ve allowed your self to live inside of purely by self limiting beliefs that has enabled everyone around you to shape your life inside of what they feel comfortable with for you.

It’s time for you to throw your box away.

Truly happy people are not afraid to Dream Big Dreams and do whatever it takes to make them come true.

Your box is dumb.

It does not look good on you.

You only get one singular Dash between your birth and death date.

Your real Beauty is more visible when you’re free from your box.

Feel free to share this.

-Tom

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Strike Out More Often Than Not and Become Successful

Baseball players can strike out 7 out of 10 times and make millions of dollars per year.

You can strike out just once at your job and possibly be fired.

If you’re perfect at your job you might be able to afford living just over broke (until they figure out how to automate your job away).

As an entrepreneur I strike out at least 99 times out of 100 because I’m honestly not very good at it. Even with those terrible ratios It’s enough that I don’t need a job anymore, I bought my house in one payment so I don’t have mortgage or rent, I travel, I can do what I want with my time without having to ask permission from a gatekeeper.

How’s it possible I did all that if I strike out 99 out of 100 times all while if you strike out at your job just once you could lose your job?

My focus is on residual and passive income from a good home business model.

Between your birth date and your death date is just ONE SINGULAR DASH that represents the unknown duration of your life.

Live free to do what you want in that singular dash.

Residual and passive money uncouples your time from your income so life no longer has to be about money and lack of time.

-Tom

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Happy Labor Day! Now let’s exploit you..

Today is the day we celebrate laborers by rendering them too poor to live 🙂

Laborers create all the wealth that Millionaires and Billionaires have accumulated and in return those same Millionaires and Billionaires say thank you by rendering you too poor to live without government help LOL s

Sometimes I’m asked why I’m a proponent for increasing the minimum wage to a living wage as a business owner.

Are you kidding me?

The more disposable income my customers have the more they can buy my plant-based orgasmic chocolate superfood shakes.

Not only is it moral and ethical for Laborers to make enough to afford to live but it’s also good for business owners if their consumer base has more money to buy more of their stuff!

It’s not a complicated concept 🙂

I used to be disrespected the same way when I was a laborer with a job.

I got out of that pyramid scam racket of having a job.

I got in a home business model with a residual and passive money Compensation Plan.

That’s the key ingredient!

Your bills are residual so why not have residual income?

The great thing about the home business model I got into is that it reaches down to the very bottom rung of the economic ladder.

I had no money and no time but I was eager to learn something new.

Most people don’t want to learn something new and want to stay within the confines of what is already comfortable to them so they are trapped by their own toxic driving philosophies.

If you’re eager to learn something new, I’m happy to show you what I got into that Set Me Free from having to participate any longer in this economic racket we are in.

Just ask and I will give you a link you can comb through on your own time.

In the meantime, happy Labor Day 🙂

I talked to a super beautiful young lady today who works 13 hours a day at a rate of only $9 an hour. She can barely afford to take care of her cat. If she goes one minute over 40 hours a week she gets in trouble by her gatekeeper because then they have to pay her overtime. She’s not lazy. She’s hard-working. She labors to make others rich and those rich people exploit her for it. In fairness to her employer they did give her a reward for being employee of the month. If only that reward goodbye her groceries? I swear they have those stupid Rewards and other items they sell as “perks and benefits” to keep you distracted from the fact you are being exploited inside of a pyramid scam known as your job.

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-Tom

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Health is Wealth

Your health is your wealth, but, it’s nice to be financially independent too.

We live in a culture that has normalized saying yes to one thing while saying no to another.

It’s either this or either that you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

That is a poor and lazy mindset.

Here is why I do not subscribe to the philosophy of either or.

Let’s use the example of health and wealth.

If you’re going to choose one but not the other then you don’t have to grow yourself and expand your brain as much to look for answers and find solutions to achieve one vs both.

If you promise yourself you are going to become Healthy and Wealthy then you’re forced to grow yourself and unleash the creativity of your brain to search for answers and find Solutions.

Yes and yes is a rich and creative process.

Yes and no is not creative.

It’s a poor and lazy mindset.

Promise yourself you’re going to go through whatever personal growth journey is necessary so you can have health, wealth, freedom and Independence, fill in the blank with whatever turns you on.

Commit yourself to doing whatever it takes to figuring out how to have your cake and eat it too.

As great as the destination will be of achieving your goals, it will actually pale in comparison to how you will feel about who you became to be the person who is capable of achieving those goals.

That’s where the real value is in trashing this yes and no Philosophy for a yes and yes philosophical driver in your life.

You can do it.

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12 Year Golden Anniversary on the 12th of August 2019!

TODAY IS MY GOLDEN ANNIVERSARY of getting the fuck out of the Rat Race and getting healthy the natural way.

It was 12 years ago today; August 12th 2007 I started a better journey of Natural Health and residual income.

A start-up cost of $240 and no income to pay for it because because my job was offshored to India.

I got super creative to come up with the funds to get started anyway with no means to pay off the $240.

90 days later I got into the best physical Shape of My Life.

2 and 1/2 years later of learning how to do this from scratch in my precious minutes of spare time I retired myself from the job racket.

Would you like to do this with me?

If you feel pulled by this because you like Natural Health and you want Financial Freedom I only have one requirement for you..

You must be willing to learn something new outside of the box of what you’re already familiar with.

-Tom

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It’s Not about Money It’s about TIME Freedom

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

It has nothing to do with money and everything to do with opening yourself up to spend your time where your heart is aligned.

Passive and residual income.

98% of the country doesn’t have it and is doing nothing to created it.

It doesn’t matter if you love or hate your job. The income quality from your job, or your self-employment, has your time tethered to being able to afford your cost of living.

Passive and residual income untethers your time from affording your cost of living, your cost of luxury expenses, your cost of charity you give to, your cost of anything and everything.

When your time is untethered from your income you are now able to invest more time where your hard wants to be because I actually everything is now covered.

Finally you can live like a human being rather than a hamster on a wheel or a rat in a race you never get ahead of.

That is the whole value of passive and residual money!

It actually has nothing to do with the money but everything to do with being able to invest your time where are your heart is aligned 🙂

Job money, and self-employment money, forces your whole life to be revolved around the paycheck that you work for.

Passive and residual money opens you up to the freedom to it put your time where your heart is aligned.

What changed for me personally?

In 2007 I dated a girl who started creating her own passive and residual income with her new home business dealing in Natural Health.

She invited me to which I said no thank you. LOL

3 months later I said yes sign me up I need this because I’m broke and my health is going to hell in a handbasket fast.

I learned from scratch because I knew nothing about any of this.

Two and a half years later of doing this in my precious minutes of spare time my job became optional so I retired myself from the job racket in 2010.

The natural progression is to pay it forward with an invitation for you who is reading this.

If you feel pulled, private message me for my article I wrote about creating passive and residual money with natural and organic health.

In my opinion it makes sense to couple this type of income with natural health because if you don’t have your health then it’s really hard to enjoy any new wealth.

Your health IS your real wealth!

So let’s create your passive and residual income dealing with natural health.

Private message me for the link to my article.

If you like what you read and you still feel genuinely pulled, we will get started.

My only requirement I put on you is to have a genuine desire to learn something new outside of the box that you’re use to.

Feel free to share this.

Thank you!

Carolyn Clapper thank you for inspiring this post 🙂

When time and money are no longer limiting you what’s the first thing you would love to do? As for me it was an 8-day Caribbean cruise with a balcony stateroom and that’s exactly what I did 🙂

Imagine not having to save money or paid days off from work anymore because you have a consistent flow of passive and residual money coming in each and every week. What would you do?

-Tom

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What changed for me?

The lady I was dating back in 2007 got into a home health and fitness business with residual income.

The promise of an opportunity to become financially free attached to my personal fitness kicked my ass into high gear.

My first workout I was out of breath just 30 seconds in (not minutes) and a single flight of stairs would take the wind out of me.

After a few months I ran 103 flights of stairs at the Sears Tower in Chicago with no breaks =)

A couple years later of doing this in my precious MINUTES of spare time every day I became financially free and the job became an optional thing in my life because of residual money. Hooray!!!!

My then girlfriend invited me, so now I’m paying the invitation forward to you.

Requirements?

Yes, just two.

Just be EAGER to learn something new that can help you become healthier physically and financially and take ACTION (otherwise you’re just an intellectual masterbater who never creates anything).

If you feel pulled, DM / PM me so I can send you an article I wrote about it and if it turns you on you’ll be able to get started with us.

-Tom

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Blueberries and Vegan Chocolate..

..is the best pairing on planet Earth for post workout recovery.

Reduces inflammation from lactic acid build-up.

Reduces inflammation in the body in general regardless if you worked out or not

Strengthens natural immunity.

Fountain of Youth for your skin, hair, and nails!

Replenishes rapid loss of vitamins and minerals from hard workout.

Repairs and builds muscle.

Purifies the blood which is delivered to all your 1 trillion cells.

Supports healthy ATP production which is the PowerHouse of all your cells.

Speeds up recovery so you can get faster results in your health and fitness.

It’s in 100% Disobedience to drug companies and for-profit health insurance companies.

Enhances your personal Independence and critical thinking skills.

Supports you being a better provider, producer, parent, friend, person in general to yourself and others around you.

Makes you a more positive force in the world for change and when necessary a revolution!

I personally was never motivated to workout and change my lifestyle until August of 2007.

What changed for me?

The lady I was dating back in 2007 got into a home health and fitness business with residual income.

The promise of an opportunity to become financially free attached to my personal fitness kicked my ass into high gear.

My first workout I was out of breath just 30 seconds in (not minutes) and a single flight of stairs would take the wind out of me.

After a few months I ran 103 flights of stairs at the Sears Tower in Chicago with no breaks =)

A couple years later of doing this in my precious MINUTES of spare time every day I became financially free and the job became an optional thing in my life because of residual money. Hooray!!!!

My then girlfriend invited me, so now I’m paying the invitation forward to you.

Requirements?

Yes, just two.

Just be EAGER to learn something new that can help you become healthier physically and financially and take ACTION (otherwise you’re just an intellectual masterbater who never creates anything).

If you feel pulled, DM / PM me so I can send you an article I wrote about it and if it turns you on you’ll be able to get started with us.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Natural Health and Organic Wealth Riches – An Invitation for you

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 It has nothing to do with money and everything to do with opening yourself up to spend your time where your heart is aligned. Passive and residual income. 98% of the country doesn't have it and is doing nothing to created it. It doesn't matter if you love or hate your job. The income quality from your job, or your self-employment, has your time tethered to being able to afford your cost of living. Passive and residual income untethers your time from affording your cost of living, your cost of luxury expenses, your cost of charity you give to, your cost of anything and everything. When your time is untethered from your income you are now able to invest more time where your hard wants to be because I actually everything is now covered. Finally you can live like a human being rather than a hamster on a wheel or a rat in a race you never get ahead of. That is the whole value of passive and residual money! It actually has nothing to do with the money but everything to do with being able to invest your time where are your heart is aligned :-) Job money, and self-employment money, forces your whole life to be revolved around the paycheck that you work for. Passive and residual money opens you up to the freedom to it put your time where your heart is aligned. What changed for me personally? In 2007 I dated a girl who started creating her own passive and residual income with her new home business dealing in Natural Health. She invited me to which I said no thank you. LOL 3 months later I said yes sign me up I need this because I'm broke and my health is going to hell in a handbasket fast. I learned from scratch because I knew nothing about any of this. Two and a half years later of doing this in my precious minutes of spare time my job became optional so I retired myself from the job racket in 2010. The natural progression is to pay it forward with an invitation for you who is reading this. If you feel pulled, private message me for my article I wrote about creating passive and residual money with natural and organic health. In my opinion it makes sense to couple this type of income with natural health because if you don't have your health then it's really hard to enjoy any new wealth. Your health IS your real wealth! So let's create your passive and residual income dealing with natural health. Private message me for the link to my article. If you like what you read and you still feel genuinely pulled, we will get started. My only requirement I put on you is to have a genuine desire to learn something new outside of the box that you're use to. Feel free to share this. Thank you! Tom P.s. When time and money are no longer limiting you what's the first thing you would love to do? As for me it was an 8-day Caribbean cruise with a balcony stateroom and that's exactly what I did :-) Imagine not having to save money or paid days off from work anymore because you have a consistent flow of passive and residual money coming in each and every week. What would you do?

Not If but WHEN you get hit hard with a sudden expense

Are you ready to deplete your savings (if you have any savings)?

Will you have to build your savings account back up?

Whenever I get hit with a sudden necessary expense I like to write about the contrast of what it’s like to have these sudden expenses now in contrast to what it was like prior to 2009.

My car suddenly has a lot of things it needs all at once including new tires, new brakes, new transmission, new alignment and a few other things.

My bill will be about $3,200.

Prior to 2009 this would have devastated me.

I didn’t have a savings account or a job (I still don’t have a job but I’ll get to that in a second).

Today my expenses are paid for on Auto Pilot.

I don’t have to re-build a savings account or show up at some job selling my time for more money to get caught up on bills or debt.

A couple years ago I was hit with a sudden expense that was upwards of $20,000 and was paid for on Auto Pilot without having to rebuild a savings account or extra work to pay down debt or catch up with bills.

August of 2007 was the pivot for me because of a decision I made that changed the direction of the rest of my life to be free’d from money rather than a slave to money.

The lady I was dating at the time invited me into her home business that dealed in Natural Health and Residual Wealth.

I said “no” for three months until I stopped being stupid and eventually said “yes” =)

I was a former D student in Special ED classes from my school days and zero clue what I was doing.

I was eager to learn something new and BETTER than what I thought I knew up to that point.

I got my butt to work learning and building my new business of Natural Health and Residual Wealth in my spare time of about twenty minutes per day because that’s all the time I had and it was enough to get the ball rolling.

The twenty minutes per day part is important because you personally are probably very busy and would LOVE to emerge at some future point a free human being no longer pushed around by this demand placed on you to keep up with bills and those sudden expenses that are quite sizeable.

I’m inviting you.

Consider changing your focus to become a free human being through Natural Health and Residual Wealth.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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You went to school and they taught you how to use your talents to be poor.

In my world every dollar saved is $2 earned and it repeats every month automatically based on that one effort.

In your world a dollar saved is just $1 saved and it never repeats because you’re only paid one time for each effort.

You’re ripping yourself and your family off because you never learned about residual or passive money.

It’s designed this way on purpose because they need a nation of obedient workers who won’t question their role as an employee or self-employed business owner.

They don’t want you to learn about natural health or residual and passive money.

If you learned about residual money and natural health you would mess up their plans to control and manipulate you.

You would force their hands out of your life and out of your pocket book.

Best of all if you learned about natural health and residual money you would decouple your time from your income so that you’d be free to spend your very finite you have left on this Earth however the fuck you want 🙂

Doesn’t that sound like more fun than being another turd in a herd of controlled and manipulated obedient workers?

You can do it.

#raiseyourstandard

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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Give yourself permission to QUIT =)

Not all forms of quitting are bad! Sometimes quitting can save your life. Here are some examples…

quit being an obedient wage slave at your job..

quit saying no to natural health..

quit saying no to opportunity..

quit neglecting your personal growth & development..

quit dying inside of what you already know and are comfortable with..

quit complaining without any aim for solutions..

quit being poor with the resources you already have..

quit putting your co-dependency in some job or company to take care of you..

quit regularly eating toxic foods..

quit spending time and energy with toxic people..

quit using facebook to be facebroke..

quit making excuses..

quit selling your time for a paycheck..

quit being an obedient worker to a system that can take away your income at any time for any reason..

quit being controlled and manipulated by money dependency..

quit anything that isn’t making you better, more free, and happier..

Quit denying your dreams..

Quit hating yummy vegan chocolate =)

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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How to get healthy and financially free simultaneously?

The BEST way to learn, retain, make money, grow, expand, help other people, and become financially free is to attend learning experiences and then share what you learn as you learn each and every time in YouTube videos and blog article entries.

In a nutshell that’s how I became financially free and healthy from natural therapies not drugs.

I began sharing what I learn, as I learn, back in the year 2009. Between 2009 and today I’ve got almost 3,000 videos and several hundred article entries I’ve written.

I wrote One article in particular about specifically what I do for Natural Health and my lifestyle of Financial Freedom. Feel free: http://tombirkenmeyer.com/get-profitable/beachbody-coach-consideration/beachbody-coach-consideration/

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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There are two ways to be busy!

You can be busy by the demands of your bills to pay or you can be busy by choice at your own leisure.

If you don’t have time to be busy by choice at your own leisure then you’re past due to start learning about residual and passive income so you can decouple your time from your money and live in Freedom to be busy or not busy by your own leisure.

Between your birthdate and death date is One Singular dash that you get to LIVE.

You can live underneath the thumb of others who can tell you what to do with your time or you can decouple your time from your money with residual and a passive income and be a free human being (retired hamster) 🙂

Use this websites search engine to do key word searches for “passive” and “residual money/income.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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