Reality is empiricism that presents itself through what is observable and measurable.

There is a fragmentation of the population who are small children who don’t comprehend such things because their brains are still developing.

There is another fragmentation of the population who are grown adults who don’t comprehend empiricism because they have psychological deficits. I give you, #maga. Unfortunately they are also deeply afflicted with Dunning Kruger effect which is going to prevent them from getting the therapy that most of them need. I say most of them because there are some who identify as Maga who know exactly what they are supporting and they are cool with it.

On the other hand, through my civil conversations with many who identify as maga, they honestly have no idea what they are supporting. It does give me a sliver of hope.

Tom
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Our Voices Have Been Overlooked Yet Again and What We Can Do To Stop It

If you want to understand how we never get what we want, look no further than Wisconsin’s Republican-controlled legislature. They’ve swept aside the actual will of the people—regardless of party—by gutting over 600 budget proposals from Governor Tony Evers. Legalizing marijuana, which has overwhelming support. Expanding Medicaid, which could cover tens of thousands. Funding child care so working families don’t get crushed by costs. Creating a new tax bracket for millionaires. All of it—wiped out in a single act of legislative vandalism. These aren’t fringe ideas. They’re backed by Democrats, Republicans, and independents across the state (AP News; Wisconsin Watch; Heartland Signal).

Yet the Wisconsin GOP torched them anyway, all to keep the money pipeline open for the state’s richest residents and corporate interests. They axed the “Child Care Counts” program, rejected Medicaid expansion, and shielded millionaires from even the slightest tax hike (Wisconsin Examiner). Even basic bipartisan reforms, like letting clerks process absentee ballots early to avoid election chaos, were killed for the crime of making government actually work for regular people (JSONline).

This isn’t governance—it’s a smash-and-grab heist for the wealthy, disguised as fiscal responsibility.

They even killed a bill that would have made tips for service workers tax free. Didn’t trump and maga republicans run on this? Trump and maga are liars. They were given what they ran on and they still killed it. They care more about opposing Democrats, even when democrats give them what they asked for, than they do about representing what the voters want.

So what’s the way out? Show up in the primaries, when you can actually choose who makes it onto the ballot in November. Don’t let them hand-pick your options. Vote for leaders who flat-out reject all corporate and billionaire money—because if we keep electing people who are bought and sold by the donor class, we’ll keep getting the same rigged, self-serving results. Democracy only works if we fight for it at every single step, starting with who we nominate. If you want a government that listens to people instead of lobbyists, it starts with your vote in the primary season. If you wait like most people do, til the general election, it’s too late.

Tom
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Obama and Trump have something in common.

GENOCIDE

Obama was the first president to support genocide. President trump followed suit, then Biden, and now trump again, however, trump is doubling down on making America explicitly complicit in Genocide. Obama really is the president who started the new terrible normalization in America, that is, the material support for genocide. Now it seems to be solidified as permanent business as usual. The United States is not a good people, collectively, today.

Even though Trump is exponentially worse than Obama or Biden I feel it’s important to make Obama supporters aware that Obama is also a war criminal worthy of rotting in prison till the end of his life. All Obama supporters are ardently against genocide. Unwittingly, all Obama supporters functionally support genocide.

After the horrors of World War II, the world gathered in Nuremberg to draw a red line: never again. The Genocide Convention defined it as acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnic, racial, or religious group.

For years, U.S. officials and much of the media have dodged this word when talking about Yemen. But what’s unfolded there since 2015—the bombing of hospitals, destruction of food supplies, systematic targeting of civilian infrastructure, and the weaponization of famine—fits uncomfortably well within the definitions set out after WWII. The Saudi-led coalition’s actions, made possible by American weapons, intelligence, and diplomatic cover, have resulted in hundreds of thousands of deaths and millions pushed to the brink of starvation.

Human rights organizations have documented how airstrikes repeatedly hit civilian targets. The United Nations has called the humanitarian catastrophe in Yemen the worst in the world. Legal experts, including some at prominent NGOs, argue there is a credible case for genocide. The intent is evidenced not only by the pattern of attacks, but by the deliberate destruction of food and water sources, knowing full well that civilians—especially children—would pay the ultimate price.

This isn’t just a tragedy; it’s policy. The Obama administration made the original call to support Saudi Arabia’s war effort, providing the arms and logistical support that made such devastation possible. Trump escalated the support, and Biden, despite campaign promises, has not fundamentally changed course. The U.S. government has used taxpayer money and American-made bombs to back a campaign that, by any honest reading of the Nuremberg precedents, should count as genocide.

Calling it by its true name isn’t about rhetorical flourish; it’s about moral clarity. When America’s public treasury is used to support actions that meet the criteria for genocide, it signals a collapse of the values we claim to stand for. Americans are mostly shielded from the images of starving children and ruined villages, but that does not absolve us of responsibility.

Genocide does not become less so because it is politically inconvenient to acknowledge. The facts are clear, the pattern is established, and the precedent is there. The only thing missing is the will to confront it honestly—and to demand that our leaders stop making genocide standard operating procedure in U.S. foreign policy.

Today there is an even larger scaled genocide happening in Gaza against the Palestinian people lead by Israel, funded by the United States taxpayers at the direction of current President Trump.

The military industrial complex that former president Eisenhower warned us about needs to be nationalized vs privatized so there are no more profit incentives for genocide, or war in general.

We the people need to show up in the primary season, before the general elections, and stop nominating ambitious politicians who take legal bribery from corporations such as the military industrial complex.

Tom
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A Night Out Turns Ugly: Why Men Must Stand Against Harassment

I witnessed something last night that left me furious – not just at the perpetrator, but at the bystanders who enable this behavior. It’s a story that perfectly illustrates why women can’t enjoy a simple night out without facing harassment, and why other men need to step up.

I was out with my girlfriend when I noticed something was wrong. A man in his seventies had approached her, touching her without consent while trying to convince her to go somewhere else for drinks. When she told him she was there with her boyfriend, his response was chilling: “I don’t give a fuck.” Even after she firmly told him to stop, he persisted.

As soon as I realized what was happening, I moved closer to check on her. That’s when we noticed the same man had already moved on to his next target – another woman who was visibly uncomfortable as he touched her without permission. My girlfriend immediately rushed over to intervene, asking the woman if she felt uncomfortable. She did.

I approached the man calmly but firmly. “You need to stop touching women without their consent,” I told him. “If you keep this up, someone’s going to seriously hurt you.” I kept my voice level and controlled – my goal wasn’t to escalate but to make it clear his behavior was unacceptable.

His response? Like a teenager full of misplaced bravado, this septuagenarian started hurling obscenities at me. I didn’t flinch. I didn’t take his bait for a physical confrontation. I stood my ground.

But what happened next was even more disturbing.

Another patron stepped in – not to help stop the harassment, but to defend the harasser. “Oh, that’s just how he is,” he said with a laugh, extending a friendly handshake to the older man. “He’s here all the time.” I watched in disgust as the harasser’s face lit up with a smug grin, his behavior now publicly validated by another man.

This moment infuriated me more than the initial harassment. Here was a perfect opportunity for another man to stand up, to say “This isn’t okay,” to help create change. Instead, he chose to be part of the problem.

To every man reading this: We have a responsibility. When we see harassment, we must act. When we witness inappropriate touching or aggressive behavior, we must intervene safely. When other men try to normalize this behavior, we must challenge them. Calling the police is always an option if safety is at risk.

After ensuring the second woman was safe, my girlfriend and I left. We knew these men wouldn’t be swayed by moral arguments, and further engagement would only lead to escalation. Sometimes walking away is the wisest choice, especially when you’ve already made your stand.

But I can’t stop thinking about that second man – the enabler. His actions ensure that harassers like the first man will never change, will never face consequences, will never see their behavior as wrong. And that’s why the cycle continues.

Men, we need to do better. Not just in confronting harassers, but in confronting those who excuse and enable harassment. Only then can we hope to make nights out safer for everyone.

Tom
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When mentally healthy grown adults rage about something it’s cohesive, focussed, and serves a purpose, even if we disagree.

When a 6-year-old child rages about something it’s incohesive, hard to follow, and childish because they do not know any better, they are only 6.

I think we all know who I’m talking about when I refer to the grown man-child melting down yesterday over Easter Sunday on truth social as if he were a 6-year-old child housed in a grown adults body.

The real question: When did we start accepting toddler-level emotional responses from people who should know better? Especially from those in positions of power? Share if you think it’s time we raised our standards for emotional intelligence in leadership. What’s your take on this?

My take: MAGA is mentally and emotionally unwell and should spend more time in therapy rather than on social media or running for various political offices. His supporters support him because of the way he sounds. It’s not about policy, it’s about their feelings. They relate to him because his supporters are also small children housed in adult bodies. One out of four adults in the United States is an utter emotionally ill-equipped child in desperate need of intensive therapy but instead they are indulging on social media and some of them are running for various political offices.

Tom
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Uber and Lyft Are Bleeding Their Drivers Dry Turning Tips from Gratuity into Survival Money

While Uber’s CEO pockets a staggering $39.4 million in compensation for 2025—a 63% increase from last year—the company’s drivers are being forced to choose between buying groceries and filling their gas tanks. This isn’t just corporate greed; it’s economic violence against working Americans.

On March 19, 2025, Uber delivered its latest assault on driver dignity: another pay cut, craftily disguised as a “compensation adjustment” in an email that reads like it was written by George Orwell’s Ministry of Truth. Lyft, not to be outdone in the race to the bottom, had already slashed their drivers’ earnings earlier. These cuts come after eight years of silent wage theft through inflation, which has already stripped 13.4% from drivers’ real earnings.

Let’s put this in perspective: While drivers are losing their homes and skipping meals, Uber’s CEO Dara Khosrowshahi’s compensation could pay the annual wages of over 1,000 full-time drivers. This is the same company that once banned drivers from accepting tips—a policy that only changed after they were dragged into court and forced to show a minimal degree of human decency.

The corporate vampirism doesn’t stop there. These Silicon Valley parasites, masquerading as “technology companies,” have perfected the art of exploitation. They’ve created a modern form of indentured servitude where drivers invest in vehicles, shoulder all the risks, and watch their earnings evaporate while executives celebrate record profits in their glass towers.

Their defense? “Fiduciary responsibility to shareholders.” It’s the corporate equivalent of “just following orders”—a convenient shield for morally bankrupt decisions that destroy lives. These companies aren’t just failing to keep up with inflation; they’re actively pushing their workers deeper into poverty while their executives buy second homes and third yachts.

Across America, drivers are fighting back. From San Francisco to New York, protests are erupting as workers demand basic dignity. But these companies won’t change unless forced to—their entire business model is built on exploiting the desperate and vulnerable. They’re not “disrupting” transportation; they’re disrupting lives, families, and communities.

The truth is, every time you open the Uber or Lyft app without tipping, you’re unwittingly participating in this exploitation. These companies have masterfully pushed their moral responsibilities onto customers, turning tips from gratuity into survival money. It’s a corporate shell game where drivers depend on passenger generosity to make up for corporate greed.

Want to know how twisted this system is? While drivers struggle to afford basic necessities, Uber and Lyft’s algorithms are designed to extract maximum labor for minimum pay. They’ve turned the American Dream into a nightmare of surge pricing and algorithmic manipulation, where drivers are treated worse than the machines these companies hope will eventually replace them.

This isn’t innovation—it’s nineteenth-century exploitation wearing twenty-first-century clothes. The only difference between today’s ride-share executives and yesterday’s robber barons is the dress code: hoodies and sneakers instead of top hats and tails.

To every rider reading this: Yes, these services are convenient. Yes, they’ve changed how we move through cities. But convenience built on exploitation is a moral debt we all end up paying. Tip your drivers generously—they’re not just providing a service; they’re surviving a system designed to crush them and the responsibility of making sure your driver does not starve to death has been pushed onto you by these morally bankrupt insanely greedy corporations.

And to Uber and Lyft: Your drivers aren’t asking for luxury; they’re asking for livable compensation. They’re asking to afford the same basic dignities your executives take for granted. Your algorithms may not understand human dignity, but your drivers are human beings with families, dreams, and bills to pay.

The choice is yours: Continue down this path of exploitation and watch as public outrage grows, or recognize that sustainable business means sustainable wages. Your drivers built your empires—it’s time they got their fair share of the kingdom.

Until then, every ride request is a small participation in this broken system, and every tip is an act of resistance against corporate greed. The question isn’t whether these companies can afford to pay drivers fairly—it’s whether we, as a society, can afford to let them continue not to.

Share this story to support drivers:

#GigWorkersUnite #39Million #TipYourDriver

Tom
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The Great American Delusion: Why We’d Rather Burn It All Down Than Vote in Primaries

Americans have a twisted relationship with democracy. We’ll torch city blocks and flip cars in the streets over political grievances, yet when primary elections roll around – the very moment we could actually seize control of who represents us – we sit on our asses and scroll TikTok.

The numbers are a national embarrassment. While general elections might see 60% turnout, primary participation often languishes at a pathetic 30%. We wait until November, then act shocked and outraged when we’re forced to choose between two candidates who make us want to vomit. By then, we’re just picking our poison. The real decisions have been made by a small fraction of voters, while corporate vultures and special interests have already carved up the carcass of our democracy.

The solution is so blindingly obvious it hurts: show up when it matters most. Primary elections are our chance to nominate candidates who actually give a damn about regular people, not just those who’ve stuffed their pockets with corporate cash. It’s like screaming about food poisoning at a restaurant after ignoring multiple invitations to help hire the chef.

But we haven’t figured this out yet, have we? Maybe we’re too busy crafting the perfect angry tweet. Or perhaps we think the primary process is just too complicated – though somehow we’ve mastered the byzantine rules of fantasy football and March Madness brackets. Whatever our excuse, our failure to show up for primaries is like watching someone slash our tires and responding by setting our own house on fire.

The irony would be hilarious if it weren’t so tragic. We’ll rage on social media until our fingers bleed, march until our feet are raw, and scream ourselves hoarse about the system’s corruption. Yet when it comes to the single most effective way to break the machine – showing up for primary elections – we’re nowhere to be found.

Here’s the brutal truth: If you’re not voting in primaries, you’re not just part of the problem – you’re actively helping the very people you claim to hate. They’re counting on your apathy. They’re banking on your absence. And every primary election you skip is a gift-wrapped present to the corporate elite you love to rail against. The choice is yours: Keep performing your outrage for social media likes, or show up and actually do something about it. Primary season is coming. What’s it going to be?

#DemocracyInAction #PrimaryMatters #VoterPower #SystemicChange

Tom
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The Real Election Scam: Why Your November Vote Doesn’t Matter Anymore

Most Americans don’t realize that their most powerful moment as voters isn’t in November — it’s during primary season. Yet primary turnout remains stubbornly low, often hovering around 30% of eligible voters, while general elections see roughly double that participation.

This pattern creates a troubling reality: by the time most people start paying attention to elections, they’re left choosing between candidates who’ve already been filtered through a system dominated by party insiders and well-funded interests. The real decisions have already been made by a small, highly motivated slice of the electorate.

It’s a painful irony that people will take to the streets to protest policies they don’t like, but won’t show up for the elections that could prevent those policies in the first place. We’ve seen this cycle repeat throughout American history — public outrage after the fact, rather than engagement when it counts.

Even now in 2025, despite all our supposed political awareness, most voters still haven’t grasped that waiting for the general election means accepting choices that have been pre-screened and approved by the political establishment. The primary ballot box is where real change begins, where voters can shape their party’s direction rather than simply reacting to it.

The system isn’t broken because people don’t care — it’s broken because they care at the wrong time. When we skip the primaries, we surrender our most fundamental power as citizens: the ability to choose who represents us, not just decide between pre-selected options.

Want real change? It’s simpler than you think: Mark your state’s primary date on your calendar right now. Set a reminder. Show up. That’s it. That’s the revolution.

#PrimaryMatters #DemocracyReform #ShowUpToVote

Tom
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The MAGA Brain: When Adult Bodies House a Child’s Mental Processing you get a Permanent Toddler Tantrum (Brain Scans Don’t Lie)

Have you ever had that moment? You’re deep in conversation with someone, and while you might disagree on various points, something else entirely catches your attention. There’s this nagging feeling, an almost visceral sense that you’re dealing with a MAGA supporter, and suddenly everything clicks into place – including why the discussion feels so frustratingly circular.

Science tells us something fascinating about this phenomenon. Researchers studying political extremism have discovered striking patterns in brain imaging studies. The amygdala – our brain’s fear center – appears notably enlarged in individuals driven primarily by fear responses and showing reduced empathy. It’s like discovering that some adults are operating with emotional hardware that hasn’t been updated since elementary school.

This isn’t just a metaphor. When you find yourself in these increasingly common encounters, where facts seem to bounce off an invisible shield of denial, consider this: you might literally be dealing with an adult-sized child, neurologically speaking. Just as you wouldn’t argue complex political theory with a six-year-old on the playground, perhaps it’s time to recalibrate how we approach these interactions.

What if I told you that understanding this single insight could transform every difficult political conversation you’ll have from this point forward?

As for our collective commentary on MAGA supporters, yes, they very much are like little kids and the psychology absolutely syncs with our conclusion because at our core, if we’re not using our prefrontal cortex, we are operating from our primitive brains. And that’s what we’re seeing going on here.  That looks like tribalism.  That’s fueled by fear.  When people are driven by fear, it’s easy for authoritarian figures to come in, manipulate them, be charismatic, and pander to those fears. 

 For example, Trump saying the immigrants are taking your jobs, or they’re eating your cats and your dogs, and people respond to that because they feel like their fears are being addressed so they feel safe. The authoritarianism mindset of these people, it makes sense because they want somebody to control the things that they believe are causing them these fears. 

There’s also social dominance built into people naturally.  There’s hierarchical thinking.  For hundreds of years in this country the white male was top of that social dominance hierarchy and they fear that they’re going to be knocked off their pedestals because other people are given equal rights and that’s why they are so angry about minorities of any type getting the spotlights and being advocated for and advancing in society, whereas they never had to worry about that before because they had a monopoly on the social hierarchy and it was much more binary back then. 

It’s more on a continuum at this point.  The continuum is shifting in the favor of minorities and that’s very threatening to these types of people who don’t have critical thinking skills or education.

So that leads to prejudice, of course. And most of Trump’s supporters are coming from these areas that are called target zip codes. Target zip codes can be used to home in on any target market, however, trumps team uses target zip codes to hone in on people who have never left their little poor white towns. They haven’t talked to people who are different from themselves. They’ve been sheltered in this little bubble and they fear these things that are different from them because they haven’t had any experience outside of their little zip codes. So the intergroup contact is missing. They are mingling with people who are like themselves and then they have this sense of entitlement.  They feel like they’re being deprived of something because they’re so entitled. 

So again, we go back to the example of them thinking that they’re losing jobs to people from Mexico. They feel like they are entitled to those jobs by, by their birthright, by the color of their skin, by their sexual orientation, etc. They feel that they’re entitled to these things. So Trump panders to that and plays on their fears.

People who don’t use their prefrontal cortex properly, people who have not had inner group contact, they haven’t mingled with others, they haven’t had education, they haven’t been exposed to things outside of their little bubbles, they operate by fear because that’s all they know. They know that little basic world that they grew up in and anything else that they would be exposed to scares them. That’s even when they watch TV they freak out about how the gay agenda is being shoved in their face because as sexual minorities are actually being represented in the media, movies, and TV shows, they’re not used to that exposure. So even just watching that on TV, it threatens them. They’re afraid of that.

Trump is smart in this particular context.  I’m sorry to say that but he’s smart and only this one area. In every other area he is an unstable childlike cult leader.  As a cult leader, he knows exactly what features of people to play on. He knows his audience well. He is a master at manipulating individuals with the brain of a child occupying an adult body. He is charismatic to them. Charisma doesn’t have to look like somebody like JFK. Charisma is Hitler, charisma is Trump. Look at what those people are doing. They are invoking the basic brain, the reptile brain, the prime, the Id. They know exactly how to tap into that and exploit that, t pander to that. That’s the dark side of charisma.

So for these people who have lived these sheltered lives who are prejudiced and afraid of everything outside of their little bubble, yes, their cult leader knows what he’s doing.  He’s pandering to that and they feel safe. People who are afraid, they want to feel safe and they feel safe because he’s telling them, hey, I understand how you’re feeling, I get it. Here’s the problem that’s causing you these fears. So he’s pointing to something outside of them, which then starts the root of cognitive dissonance where they can think, yeah, it’s somebody outside of me that’s the problem. It’s not my cognition or lack thereof.

Sadly, they don’t know that they’re wrong. When the rare time comes that they do realize they’re wrong, that’s when the cognitive dissonance triggers because they can’t admit that they’re wrong. If they admit that they’re wrong, that means that they have to put extra thought into analyzing why they were wrong and then admitting they were wrong. They’re not going to admit that they’re wrong because they’re afraid. It goes back to fear. They’re not going to admit that they’re wrong because they’re afraid of the judgment.  They’re afraid of people making fun of them for espousing those beliefs. They have to fall back on cognitive dissonance and just keep going with the narrative even though something in them inside says, you know, I might be wrong, but I’m gonna stick with this because I don’t want egg on my face. Fear. It’s all fueled by fear. That’s the common denominator.

Children need a nurturing provider to look up to because they’re children, we call them parents. #MAGA needs an authoritarian king to think for them because they have the mental processes of a small child housed by an adult body. They call him king trump.

The parallel between MAGA adherents and underdeveloped minds isn’t just rhetoric – it’s a demonstrable psychological phenomenon. Like children who haven’t yet developed complex reasoning abilities, these adults operate purely on primitive emotional drivers: fear, pleasure-seeking, and pain avoidance. They desperately crave validation, attention, and the comfort of being told what to think. The crucial difference? Children have a legitimate developmental excuse. Adults choosing to remain in this stunted state do not.

The exploitation of these childlike minds follows a predictable pattern. Just as parents might invoke the boogeyman to keep children in line, their chosen authority figures weaponize imaginary threats – caravans of immigrants, deep state conspiracies, or the imminent collapse of society. The manipulation is identical to an elementary school teacher threatening to call parents or send a child to the principal. These grown adults, trapped in juvenile thinking patterns, snap to attention at the mere suggestion of consequences from their self-appointed authority figures.

What makes this phenomenon particularly disturbing is its scale. Millions of adults have willfully abandoned critical thinking in favor of blind obedience to authoritarianism. Some may be victims of early conditioning, their cognitive development forever arrested by childhood experiences. Others have simply chosen the path of least resistance – it’s easier to let someone else do your thinking than to wrestle with complex realities. This intellectual laziness, this willing regression to childhood-level cognition, represents a catastrophic failure of adult responsibility.

The tragedy extends beyond individual failings. While we expect most children to eventually develop into mentally capable adults, these individuals have chosen to remain perpetually stunted, their physical maturity masking a mind that never progressed beyond elementary school social dynamics. They wear their willful ignorance as a badge of honor, celebrating their submission to authority as if it were a virtue rather than a damning abdication of adult responsibility.

Think about education levels because there are studies that show that people who have gone through any type of higher education are less likely to be in this predicament. Not saying that college educated people are immune to that because there are a lot of stupid ones in that sector as well, but there are less of them. Tere are two factors that go into why those people are not as prolific in the maga movement. One is because when you go to college, you are close to all different kinds of people and viewpoints and you have to be exposed to those people unless you totally isolate yourself. And then there’s the education piece, right? When you go through higher education, you are forced to think for yourself. You have to be a critical thinker, and once you are a critical thinker, once you’re pushed into that mindset, you can’t retrace from that.

That makes you less susceptible to the tactics that cult leaders are employing bcause you see through that.  You can understand what they’re doing, why they’re doing it, and that’s not to say that higher educated people are better. It’s just that they are more exposed to people outside their bubble. They’re more exposed to different viewpoints. They’re more exposed to exercises in critical thinking. There are people in the population who haven’t finished high school who can still do that as well, but that’s gonna be more in the minority.

So again, it goes back to that social isolationism, the fear factor, when kids are isolated and they’re not exposed to things that help develop their critical thinking and then they have to conform to their authority, their parents, their teachers, to their King Trump, all the time. That’s part of being a child, unfortunately.

Another factor to consider is there are checks and balances happening in the brain in a healthy adults all the time that keeps us well balanced. Mentally unbalanced people don’t have those normal checks and balances happening in their brain. This is another problem that is also easily recognizable Within MAGA.  It’s probably something akin to understanding recognizing your emotions and how they’re causing you to act and react, and by recognizing that, you can then determine the validity of those emotions and let your logical brain take over and put that check. 

There’s very much checks and balances between our logical brain and our primitive brain, and recognizing what’s going on is so crucial. That’s part of mindfulness. I practice a lot of mindfulness.  That’s just recognizing what emotions are passing through, why they’re passing through, whether to give them any weight, and determine them to be valid before acting or reacting or making any kind of decisions.

Overall, we went through most of our evolution with just our primitive brains.  The prefrontal cortex is a rather new development in brain Physiology relative to our evolution as human beings.  We’re still very much ruled by our primitive brain and we see that throughout.  It’s frustrating, but it’s evolutionary biology at its finest. And those of us who can recognize what’s going on and recognize that we have two very distinct processing centers in our brain, we are going to be more equipped to engage with reality in a positive meaningful way. There’s much more to it than that. But in general, there are two very distinct processing centers in the brain.  When one of them is correct and when one of them is overreaching, recognizing this is crucial. MAGA sadly does not have the self-awareness, much like a child.

That’s part of mindfulness . That fear that just hit me as an instinct to the situation, or, that anger as an instinct reacting to the situation is off balance because… And we can fill in the blank as to why that’s off balance, let our logic take over and provide a check and balance system to employ. I wish more psychiatrists and psychologists would talk about this to people so that more of us understand what’s going on.

There are some other psychological theories that can be intertwined.  There’s one called the marshmallow test that was an experiment on kids.  They were given the choice of one marshmallow, you can eat this marshmallow, but once you eat this marshmallow there’s no more.  If you don’t eat the marshmallow, when we come back, we’ll give you a second marshmallow. It was an experiment in delayed gratification.  The children ultimately deployed delayed gratification.

Overall the actual kids had that discipline.

Think back to COVID and when people were asked to take preventative measures in order to help other people.  These MAGA people didn’t want to do that. You saw how they reacted. They couldn’t employ any self restraints or follow any of these scientifically valid reasons for telling people to do certain things to help other people. Delayed gratification is not in their skill sets.  Thinking about the collective and how their actions can impact other people is not in their skill set.  They are people of instant gratification. I need to be fulfilled now, now, now. And I don’t care about the other people.

When you are in a bubble all your life, you stick to your own group and your own little small town in your own close minded ideologies. Of course you’re not going to care about other people.  They are acting from a place of entitlement, selfishness and no regard for other people because they just haven’t had the experience or the exposure to give them empathy.

If you could change one thing about the world to make it better, what would you change? A lot of well-balanced adults will choose empathy. It’s not the only answer of a well-balanced adult but it is a common one. People who have empathy can see the beauty that they create in this world, the love and tenderness, the kindness and support for their fellow human beings, no matter who that fellow human being is, what they look like, or who they love.

These maga people who grow up in these little bubbles, who are not exposed to other people, they don’t get outside of their towns, they don’t travel,  they’re stuck in places where a religious ideology is forced down their throat, and they’re raised with a certain mindset, a closed mind. It’s crystallized once they’re adults.  Because of how they were raised, it’s very hard to break out of that. These people don’t have empathy because they have not been exposed to other people. They don’t know other people’s suffering and therefore they are blind to it.  They don’t have empathy and they’re OK supporting somebody or even advocating for actions that are anti empathetic, that harm other people because those people aren’t like themselves.

Again, it all goes back to fear. They advocate these things because those people are different from them. They fear these people because they are different from them. They don’t understand these people.  They don’t understand their plights, so they’re afraid if they haven’t had that exposure. It’s all so intertwined and there’s so many other variables that can be explored that feed into this.  Fear and lack of empathy are two of the critical factors at play here.  They have the same roots.

The irony with people that I’m talking about, in these closed minded communities who don’t know anything outside of their own little worlds, especially the religious sects, they talk about the seven deadly sins and they preach about how you shouldn’t do any of those things or be mindful of doing those things. All the while they’re the group that is perpetuating the seven deadly sins the most. They don’t even realize it because out of this fear in this lack of empathy, they are then being greedy, they’re practicing avarice. They’re jealous of other people getting rights. They’re lazy sloth. They refuse to think outside of their tiny little paradigms. I could go on and on about each of the seven deadly sins, but they epitomize that. You could go on and on about this as well because you’ve seen it over and over again especially with the self-proclaimed Evangelical Christians who behave perpetually exactly the opposite of what Jesus teaches.  We watch this cognitive disconnect within these people in such disbelief because it is unbelievable. And again, it’s so ironic because they’re the ones who preach the most about how thou shalt not


Another little layer here is the Dunning Kruger effect. That means that they’re just completely oblivious that they are misinformed about something. And with that, it’s kind of a double edged sword because people who lack the actual expertise to be spouting their mouths off in whatever area of quote un quote knowledge that they’re espousing, they also have this cognitive bias that precludes them from realizing that they lack the expertise. Knowledge and intelligence that are required to be good at a task are the same qualities that somebody needs to realize that they’re not good at a task. So that extends to political judgments.  You can’t talk to these people because they believe that they’re the ones who should be informing, guiding, leading, and reaching others. So there’s no reaching them. There’s just no reaching them at all. The bottom line with all of these factors is sadly you cannot reach them. The best thing you can do is pull more information out of them and get a glimpse into that psychology, that again, is crystallized. It is very rare for crystallized mindsets and thinking to be reversed. So all we can do is study them and inform our actions based on what we are observing. They’re all one big regressive biological observation.

However, unlike physical children, adult children are causing real harm throughout the world, not just in our own country.  They are the ones who have real power at this moment in time and they are using it resulting in much greater destruction and death than prior.  

The financial bribes are greater than before.  The loss of human life is ticking up greater than before.  The wealth inequality is growing more than before.  Poverty is beginning to tick upwards greater than before.  The erosion of the democratic process is speeding up.  Law and order is fleeting.  

The cognitive dissonance within the current power structures and maga are so much greater than before that everything is now a hypocrisy.  

Another layer to the Maga brain is Stockholm syndrome. These devoted followers continue supporting Trump despite clear evidence that his policies have consistently favored the ultra-wealthy who funded his campaigns and administration.

The cognitive dissonance is striking—they’ve formed a cult attachment to someone who has repeatedly acted against their economic interests, yet they interpret these betrayals as victories.

This psychological phenomenon combines elements of cult devotion, where followers reframe negative actions as positive, and the Dunning-Kruger effect, where individuals lack the analytical framework to recognize their own misconceptions. The result is a self-perpetuating cycle of devotion that intensifies rather than diminishes in the face of contradictory evidence.

Maga says they believe in patriotism, but they support authoritarian leaders.  They say protect the children while removing child labor laws that protect child exploitation.  They say end the wars while supporting the stealing of various lands that do not belong to us.  They say they are pro-life while supporting a literal ethnic cleansing and a genocide.  They say they are Christians while actively pursuing every ideal Jesus directly preached against.  They say they are against the corruption and the robber barons but they cult around Trump, who is taking endless bribes from the robber barons. The rest of us watch this extreme unprincipled psychotic behavior and we see a people who are beyond the pale of just a different opinion, but we see a cognitive pattern that is mentally unwell and unbalanced.  We see a people in Maga that says, “I’m against war now let’s wage new wars”.  “I’m pro-life now let’s support a genocide”.  “I’m pro freedom and democracy now let’s tell minorities how to live and undo election results”.  The examples of cognitive decline in Maga are endless because they are operating from a brain that stopped developing at a young age when they were still physically just children and there is a lot of science, including brain scans, that syncs with this conclusion.  

So what’s the solution?  We out number maga by about 4 to 1.  The reasonable ones have left maga by now.  The ones who still identify as part of maga, in my opinion, are not reachable because all that is left are the ones with the brain of a child and they have no interest in getting help or becoming better versions of themselves.  The only solution I can see is for the 75% of us to show up in the primary season to nominated candidates who passionately reject all corporate money and represent us instead of the billionaires who bribe them. 

Picture this: You’re standing in line on Election Day, staring at two names you don’t particularly like. Sound familiar? It’s not just you — it’s by design.

The truth about our democracy isn’t pretty. While we blame politicians for its failures, the real story starts with us — the people who inherited this remarkable system but forgot how to use it. We’ve created a vacuum, and corporate America hasn’t wasted a second filling it.

Here’s what most Americans don’t realize: The general election is just the final act in a play that’s already been cast. By the time November rolls around, corporations have already picked their performers. They’ve selected both leads — one wearing a red tie, one blue — but they’re reading from the same script. The real power lies in the primaries, where barely anyone shows up to audition new talent.

Think about it. When was the last time you voted in a primary? If you’re like most Americans, you might not even remember. That’s exactly what corporate interests are banking on.

The numbers tell a staggering story. Policies that 80% of Americans support — across party lines — can’t get passed because they conflict with corporate interests. Even more shocking? Ninety percent of Americans believe corporate campaign donations corrupt our political system. Yet here we are, watching the same play, cycle after cycle.

The media won’t tell you this. They can’t. They’re part of the same corporate ecosystem that profits from the status quo. Every “debate” you watch is theater if no one mentions who’s funding the actors. It’s like watching a sports match without knowing both teams are owned by the same person.

But here’s the part that should make you sit up straight: We outnumber the elites ten thousand to one. Ten thousand to one. Let that sink in.

We’re not just talking about abstract political theory. There’s already a drafted 28th Amendment that would criminalize private money in public elections. But you won’t hear about it in the news. Why? Because it would pass in a heartbeat if people knew about it.

Think about this absurdity: In any other profession — law, medicine, education — accepting bribes is a crime that could land you in prison. But in politics? It’s not just legal; it’s practically a job requirement. The better you are at accepting “campaign contributions” (let’s call them what they are: bribes), the higher you can climb.

The solution isn’t complicated, but it requires something from you — something more than just showing up in November. It requires showing up when it really counts: during primary season. This is where real change begins.

Imagine walking into a voting booth and feeling genuinely excited about your choices. Imagine candidates who refuse corporate money because they answer to you, not shareholders. This isn’t a fantasy — it’s what happens when we show up for primaries.

The corporations are betting you won’t read this far. They’re betting you’ll maybe feel angry and then forget about it by tomorrow. They’re betting that come primary season, you’ll be too busy, too tired, or too cynical to show up.

Prove them wrong.

Your primary vote is the most powerful political tool you have. It’s more powerful than any protest sign, social media post, or November ballot. It’s the one thing they can’t buy — if you use it.

The next primary season is coming. Mark it on your calendar. Set an alarm. Tell your friends. Because this isn’t just about politics — it’s about who controls our lives.

Remember: By the time the general election arrives, the real decisions have already been made. The choices have been pre-selected. The deals have been struck. Unless we show up in the primaries, we’re just picking between two corporate-approved options.

We have the numbers. We have the power. What we need now is the will to use it.

Are you ready to take back your democracy? It starts with a promise to yourself: “I will vote in the next primary election.” Share this message. Make it go viral. Force this conversation into the mainstream.

Because if we don’t show up for the primaries, we’re not just missing an election — we’re missing our chance to break corporate America’s grip on our democracy as well as our lives.

The choice is ours. But remember: They’re counting on our silence. They’re counting on our absence. They’re counting on business as usual.

Prove them wrong. Show up when it counts. Vote in your primary.

Perhaps it partially starts with commenting here and sharing this post and other posts like this one to levels of going crazy viral.

We can’t be ignored when it’s over ten thousand of us to every one of them, and 4 of us per every 1 of MAGA, unless we allow us to be ignored. Which we have, so far. Let’s draw a line in the proverbial sand and change that. Perhaps with a simple share and comment on posts like this we can force our collective voice into the mainstream. Social media has driven conversations that the media has had to reckon with before. We can do it again.

Let’s not give them our silence or our surrender to their chosen status quo.

Show up when it counts. Vote in your primary.  This is how we beat both the ELITES and most of all MAGA, in one shot.  MAGA needs to become irrelevant otherwise America will become unrecoverable at some point.   

The greatest threat to the great idea of Equality and Justice for everyone is either MAGA, or it’s the rest of us who neglect showing up in the primary to defeat maga and render them permanently irrelevant. 

Tom
https://linktr.ee/metalpalace

The Great American Con: How Musk and Trump Are Destroying Democracy While Their Base Finally Wakes Up

To the MAGA Faithful: Your Moment of Truth Has Arrived

Something remarkable is happening. The same passionate supporters who once worshipped at the altar of Elon Musk and Donald Trump are finally seeing through the illusion. The cult of personality is cracking, and reality is breaking through the carefully constructed facade of these self-proclaimed “disruptors.” For those of you who genuinely believe in fighting corruption, this revelation couldn’t come at a more critical time.

Let’s be brutally honest. You who call yourselves patriots, who claim to hate corruption – this is your moment of truth. Donald Trump isn’t just another corrupt politician; he’s the most brazenly dishonest president in American history. And Elon Musk? He’s Trump with a rocket company – a fraudster who’s perpetrating the largest corporate coup in American history right under your noses.

The smoking gun is impossible to ignore. Just days after securing a deal with Visa to transform X (formerly Twitter) into a payment processor, Musk orchestrated the destruction of the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau – the very agency that would have regulated his new financial venture. This isn’t coincidence; it’s corruption in broad daylight. The CFPB has returned $20 billion to Americans scammed by big banks, and was about to remove $49 billion in medical debt from credit reports. But Musk killed it to protect his schemes, leaving countless working-class Americans – including many MAGA supporters – vulnerable to financial predators.

The scale of their corruption is staggering. Musk’s corporate empire – Tesla, SpaceX, Neuralink, X – faces investigations from virtually every major federal agency. The Department of Justice, Department of Labor, Transportation Department, Department of the Interior, Department of Agriculture, and National Labor Relations Board are all scrutinizing his operations for worker exploitation, discrimination, and illegal practices. His response? The same as Trump’s – destroy anyone who dares investigate them.

To those MAGA supporters who proudly wave “Drain the Swamp” flags: Look at what’s actually happening. When USAID investigated Starlink’s activities in Ukraine – gutted. When the National Labor Relations Board challenged Musk’s union-busting – stripped of power. When the Federal Aviation Administration questioned SpaceX’s illegal rocket launches – neutered. The Department of Labor was investigating horrific workplace discrimination, including rampant use of racial slurs, but Trump’s executive order conveniently dismantled the investigating office. This is your “anti-corruption” champion?

The hypocrisy is nauseating. While Musk dismantles agencies protecting American citizens, he’s gorging himself on $15 billion in taxpayer money. With an ally installed as Air Force Secretary – someone who previously rigged contract processes in SpaceX’s favor – he’s positioning himself for even more government handouts. This is the “swamp” you claimed to hate.

Musk’s own fan base is turning against him, and for good reason. They’re realizing what you need to understand: these men don’t give a damn about you. They’re working exclusively for the robber barons, oligarchs, billionaires, and kleptocrats. They see you not as patriots, but as useful idiots to be manipulated while they dismantle American democracy for profit.

To those who genuinely believe in anti-corruption and holding the powerful accountable: This is your test. Will you continue to be played? Or will you have the courage to admit you’ve been conned? Trump and Musk represent the ultimate betrayal of the working-class Americans they claim to champion. They are the very definition of the “swamp” you claimed to want to drain.

The truth is stark and undeniable: This is the most corrupt administration in modern American history, and it’s not even close. Musk isn’t just playing with rockets anymore – he’s orchestrating a corporate takeover of American democracy, with Trump as his willing accomplice. They are the elites manipulating the system, laughing behind closed doors at how easily they’ve convinced you to vote against your own interests.

This isn’t about left versus right anymore. This is about protecting the fundamental principles of American democracy against those who would sell it to the highest bidder. Your movement claimed to be about taking power from corrupt institutions. But Trump and Musk ARE the corrupt institutions.

Wake up. The con is over. Reality always wins. The question is: Will you have the courage to face it?

Tom
https://linktr.ee/metalpalace

The “Pay It ALL Back Act”: Making Criminals Actually Pay for Their Crimes

Ever had your car broken into? Or come home to find your place ransacked? And what happens next is almost as painful as the crime itself: hours with insurance, hefty deductibles, and watching your premiums skyrocket — all because someone else decided to help themselves to your stuff.

Here’s a wild idea that’s so obvious, it’s crazy we haven’t done it yet. We are not even talking about it yet!

Imagine a world where criminals don’t just “do their time” — they actually pay for their crimes. Literally. Every single penny of damage they cause, every stolen item, every broken window, every scratched car. All of it.

Let me introduce you to the Pay It ALL Back Act: a potential proposed law by yours truly that would create a nationwide restitution system funded entirely by convicted thieves and vandals. No more insurance claims. No more deductibles. No more watching your rates go up because someone else messed with your property.

Here’s how it works: Every person convicted of theft or property damage pays an additional tax that goes straight into a victim compensation pool. This isn’t some small-time fine — we’re talking full restitution for every single victim, every single time, every single penny. Think of it as cosmic karma with a payment plan.

You’re probably thinking, “This sounds too good to be true.” But why should it be? Why are we, the law-abiding citizens, paying higher insurance premiums because of someone else’s crimes? Why should our deductibles punish us when we’re the victims?

This isn’t just about justice — it’s about changing the game. When criminals know they’ll be paying for everything they steal or damage, maybe they’ll think twice before breaking into that car or vandalizing that store.

Share this if you’re tired of victims paying the price for other people’s crimes. Tag your elected representatives. Make some noise. Because it’s time we stopped letting criminals off easy while victims pick up the tab.

It’s time for the Pay It ALL Back Act. Because if you can’t do the time — and pay the dime — don’t do the crime.

#PayItALLBack #CriminalJusticeReform #VictimsRights #MakeThemPay

Tom
https://linktr.ee/metalpalace

STOP ELECTING IDIOTS: The One School Reform That Would Actually Fix America

Here’s a hard truth: We wouldn’t have elected Trump, Obama, Bush, Clinton, or any recent president if Americans actually knew how to think critically and spot manipulation.

Want proof? Look at how easily we’re swayed by soundbites and social media posts. Look at how we fall for the same empty promises every four years. Look at how we keep electing leaders who serve billionaire donors instead of the American people.

There’s a simple solution, but it requires playing the long game:

Make Critical Thinking, Political Science 101, Philosophy 101, and Empathy mandatory subjects in every elementary school in America. Not as electives. Not as afterthoughts. As core subjects, right alongside reading and math.

Imagine a generation that learns logical fallacies before multiplication tables. A generation that understands how power really works before they even hit middle school. A generation that can spot propaganda from a mile away because they’ve studied philosophy and human nature since first grade.

And most critically – a generation that learns empathy as a skill, not just a buzzword.

You know what happens then? We stop electing reality TV stars who claim they alone can fix everything. We stop falling for politicians who divide us for votes. We stop letting media companies feed us outrage for profit.

Instead, we get a nation of citizens who can:

  • Detect lies in political speeches instantly
  • Understand how bills actually become laws
  • Question authority intelligently
  • Feel genuine concern for their fellow Americans

The solution to our democracy’s biggest problems isn’t complicated – it’s sitting in elementary school classrooms across America. We just need to teach our kids how to think, not what to think.

The billionaires buying our politicians are betting on our ignorance and so far, they have been disgustingly correct in betting on our ignorance. Let’s make sure the next generation isn’t ignorant, or for sale.

Share if you believe intelligent education is the vaccine against manipulation.✹

CriticalThinking #Education #Democracy #FutureOfAmerica

Tom
https://linktr.ee/metalpalace

California Farmers Screwed by Stupidity and Optics for Mentally Unwell Cultists

Trump’s Latest Disaster: How He Flooded California to “Fight” Fire

Remember those devastating LA wildfires recently? While firefighters battled 100-mph infernos, Trump had a brilliant solution: “Just turn on the water.”

So what did he do when he got back in office? Ordered the release of billions of gallons from reservoirs 100 miles away from LA. That’s right – he flooded California’s Central Valley to fight fires in Los Angeles. It’s like trying to put out a fire in Miami by opening a fire hydrant in Atlanta.

The water? Completely wasted. Couldn’t even reach LA if it tried. There’s no infrastructure to move it there. California farmers watched in horror as their summer water supply vanished into a dry lake bed. They had to beg the Army Corps to stop before their entire season was destroyed.

But Trump got his optical victory lap. He even tweeted a photo of his successful operation – using a picture of a lake in Vermont. And guess what? His cultist supporters believed him.

While California’s farmland was being flooded for a publicity stunt, the real issue – why we’re having wildfires during rainy season – got ignored. Classic Trump: Create a crisis to “solve” a crisis, then brag about it on social media where only cognitively impaired maga could be conned per usual.

This isn’t politics. It’s dangerous theater performed by a man who’d flood a state and possibly destroy a season of crops to avoid admitting he was wrong.

And that Vermont lake photo? Chef’s kiss. Nothing says “I fixed California” quite like using stock photos from New England. Who fell for his tweet with a photo on the other side of the country from the disaster? His significantly cognitive impaired maga cultists. We are dealing with the brains of 5-year-old children in physical bodies that look like adults.

The 75% of the country who is not part of maga needs to show up next primary season and nominate someone who passionately rejects all corporate money. If we wait til the general election to vote then it’s too late because by then we will have another two pre-approved and pre-selected corporate backed candidates. Our only power is to vote in the primary season. That’s the only way we win against the dangerous cognitive impaired maga cult.

Tom
https://linktr.ee/metalpalace

The Gaza Crisis: America’s Betrayal of Its Own Values

The United States, a nation that once fought against ethnic cleansing around the world, is now actively supporting it in Gaza. And it’s happening for the oldest reason in the book – money and power.

This isn’t speculation. Standing beside Netanyahu, Trump laid out a plan that would make any human rights lawyer shudder: the permanent “resettlement” of Palestinians away from their homeland. Strip away the real estate developer language about “beautiful areas” and “nice homes,” and you’re left with the raw truth – ethnic cleansing dressed up as humanitarian aid.

The hypocrisy is stunning. America, which condemned ethnic cleansing in Bosnia, Kosovo, and Rwanda, is now casually discussing the forced displacement of over two million Palestinians. Imagine if someone suggested that the victims of any other disaster – whether in Texas, California, or anywhere else in America – should just abandon their homes forever because “it’s all rubble anyway.”

Follow the money and everything becomes clear. While the U.S. cuts aid to nearly every other nation in the Middle East, the pipeline to Israel remains wide open – over $300 billion and counting. Campaign contributions tell an even darker story: hundreds of millions flowing to politicians on both sides of the aisle, effectively purchasing U.S. foreign policy. Trump received $337 million from pro-Israel donors alone. Biden’s campaign benefited from millions in AIPAC money. Biden and Trump are both bought and paid for.

What makes this betrayal even more grotesque is how it’s being marketed. They’re not calling it ethnic cleansing, of course. They’re calling it “resettlement” and “relocation” – as if forcing people from their ancestral homes at gunpoint is somehow an act of charity. “They wouldn’t want to return,” Trump says, speaking for people whose voices he’s never bothered to hear.

Meanwhile, Gaza lies in ruins. Not from natural disaster or accident, but from systematic destruction. Schools where children once learned, hospitals where doctors once saved lives, universities where dreams were built – all reduced to rubble. Over 47,000 Palestinians dead (so far), most of them civilians, many of them children (sniped in the head). The reincarnation of Hitler in thick irony is a Jewish prime minister in partnership with an orange American President.

The same United States that lectures other nations about human rights violations is now actively supporting the mass expulsion of an entire population. The same politicians who speak solemnly about “never again” are enabling history to repeat itself, all while counting their campaign contributions. Did the check clear?

This isn’t just a failure of American foreign policy – it’s a failure of American values. It’s a betrayal of everything we claim to stand for. When did we become a nation that supports ethnic cleansing? When did we decide that campaign contributions (bribes) matter more than human lives?

The world is watching as America abandons its principles for profit. And history – if we still have the courage to write it honestly – will remember this moment not as a triumph of diplomacy, but as a testament to how easily moral principles crumble when faced with political pressure and financial incentives.

Our grandchildren will ask us what we did when we saw ethnic cleansing happening in plain sight. What will we tell them? That we stayed silent because the campaign contributions were too good to refuse?

Tom
https://linktr.ee/metalpalace

CORRUPTION IN PLAIN SIGHT On His Stage

With the three wealthiest robber barons in the country on stage with him and in his new cabinet, literally buying policies to their favor, his supporters believe he is against corruption.

Let that sink in.

The ones who bribed him the most got the top positions in his new Administration and his mentally ill followers believe he is going to represent our interests.

Read that again.

“Just bribe me with 25 more million dollars and I’ll do whatever you want,” he says to his bribers, and his followers still believe he isn’t bought and paid for like his predecessors before him.

Perhaps the most glaring example of hypocrisy in this mentally ill community is he took an oath to protect and defend the Constitution all the while setting up a fake elector scheme in an attempt to steal the 2020 election. His mentally ill cultists believe he is a patriot.

Next time, vote in the primary season so we have someone we can vote for instead of against. If you wait to vote until the general election it’s too late – you’ll be voting for two more pre-selected corporate approved people by the same robber barons who stand on that stage with the current cucked and bribed President we have now.

???? The system isn’t broken – it’s working exactly as the billionaires designed it, the same ones standing on stage with the maga cult leader ????

Drop a ???? below if you’re done with billionaires buying our democracy.
SHARE this if you’re ready to fight back in the next primaries.

Tom
https://linktr.ee/metalpalace

Rest in Peace, John Sykes.

Learning about his passing from cancer hit me hard. John was one of my all-time favorite guitarists, and his influence on my own playing is immeasurable. As a guitarist, I rarely find inspiration in other guitar players, but John was an exception. His vibrato had a unique ability to make a single note sing so beautifully, and his ear for melodic phrasing and strategic shredding set him apart as one of the most tasteful and talented guitarists I know.

Most of my musical inspiration comes from opera singers and violinists, and the guitarists I truly admire are those who emulate that kind of vibrato and phrasing. John Sykes did this masterfully. His talent for improvisation and freestyling was equally awe-inspiring. John, you will be deeply missed. Thank you for the endless inspiration.

Tom
https://linktr.ee/metalpalace

My moms celebration of Life and Memorial service

I think I did a pretty nice display for my mom’s celebration of life Memorial August 1st. It was one year to the day of her passing from covid-19. This was the first time I had seen any family since before she passed away. To go one year without anything as if nothing had happened after my mom passed away, that was really something strange to process. I sure do miss both my mom and my dad.

Kenosha Riots

As someone who LIVES in #Kenosha witnessing the violence the world is focused on right now, I need to share with you the BIGGEST mistake outlets are making in covering this and how it’s causing more perpetual violence instead of less..

There is a polar opposite difference between peaceful protestors whom we love, and violent agitators who take us 10 steps backwards on our mission.

When an individual is violent toward innocent people and their property they make it less possible for justice and systemic change.

The media and political figures are missing this point and it’s too important to over look. We want meaningful productive protest for justice and systemic change. The violent agitators are NOT part of the protests.

Having been a Kenosha resident for 30 years, and counting, and being present in the moment, I’m seeing the damage caused to innocent people and their property first hand by people who have nothing to do with black lives matter or any legitimate protests.

It’s BEYOND IMPORTANT everyone in our country recognize the difference between protestors for change, and violent agitators harming innocent people.

Push back against ANY and ALL outlets and narratives that use phrases like, “Violent Protestors” or “Protests turning violent” because if enough people buy into this gross narrative of equating protestors to violent agitators then we will never evolve and the violent ones will win.

Please share this. We need to get this CORRECT messaging out there and END the violence.

#kenoshastrong
#BlackLivesMatterMovement
#blacklivesmatter
#blm
#lovekenosha

Facebook blocked me from grieving the loss of my sweet mom on their platform with all of you for the past three days :(

Everyone has showered me with love and support except for one person. What would you do, if anything? Comment below after reading the rest please I need your feedback I’m not sure what to do.

Posting open letters to my amazing mom to my Facebook so we can all love and support each other was a meaningful part of my therapy for the loss of my mom.

One individual, we have lots of the same friends here in Kenosha, harshly layed into me for being a self centered narcissist going out in public trying to get people sick with the virus.

I commented back saying, no it’s all cool I am healed and I was cleared to remove myself from isolation by a professional health care worker!

Instead of being grateful I didn’t pass away and welcoming me back out into the world she double downed with, you’re lying you’re trying to get people killed you still have the virus etc just laying into me very heavy.

At this point I said, you’re starting to act like a lun a tic impervious to new information. I don’t know who this new mean person is you’ve become but if you can reclaim the sweet person I knew a few years ago that would be awesome.

She reported that particular comment to Facebook for bullying and harassing her. Last Sunday morning I go to share something on my Facebook and I get the pop up from Facebook that says I’m blocked from commenting and posting for three days for bullying and harassing, next violation will get me blocked for 7 days.

I clicked to see which comment this was for because I couldn’t believe I had done anything resembling bullying and harassing, it had to be a mistake.

I’m guessing a computer reviewed my comment and flagged me for the “acting like a lu n atic” part. I clicked to dispute it in disagreement with their decision. A split second later they reviewed it, obviously done by a computer again instead of a human being, and they stood by their decision to block me for three days for bullying and harassing.

So for the past three days a sick, callous, cold hearted individual person was given power by Facebook to cause harm to another individual who just lost his mother to covid and survived the same virus himself.

The one viciously and falsely attacking the other who just lost his mother and survived a deadly virus is ok she was not doing the bullying or harassing. It’s the one receiving the vicious attacks who did the bullying and attacking. The one who just lost his sweet mom and survived the same virus is the one who needs to be blocked from Facebook for 3 days because he is the one bullying and attacking.

That’s what Facebook has become. Facebook is now a platform for sick vile individuals to cause harm to the already grieving.

It’s one thing if someone is just sick and vile, but to be given power to cause harm to another who is suffering the biggest emotional loss of his lifetime, well that is a whole other thing.

If Facebook would simply review my comment with a human being they would see their automated reviews are severely broken.

As far as the cold individual who did this to me with the assistance of Facebook, do I share this with our mutual friends? I’m meeting with my lawyer next week on unrelated matters. Do I talk to my lawyer about a possible lawsuit for using her extreme callousness to cause harm?

I’m interested in your feedback friends. What would you do?

Final thought and this is super important. The person who caused this harm in the extreme cold way in which she did will see this post and derive pleasure from it. I don’t care. Unfortunately, I think it would keep a lot of others from sharing and being vulnerable. But you know what? I care more deeply about sharing all the love and support with all of you than I do about this one cold individual getting more pleasure than she already has.

A friend of mine shared with me very recently, “surround yourself with people who care more about you than societal expectations. Who really feel/hear you and protect your space from lions while you do what YOU need to do for YOU to be reborn in peace.” – Alicia Garnet Chestnut

Friends, once and a while someone cold, vicious, and receives pleasure at harming others who are already graving, is going to be given power to cause more harm. Most of the time they are completely harmless and have no power. But, in an instance where one of them is given power to cause harm, I just want you to know, I’m here for you and I love you.

-Tom

 

Thank You for your LOVE and Support During my Moms Passing

I just wanted to say in Video THANK YOU for the love and supporting the past few weeks right up to and beyond my moms passing. I hope you take the time to to watch, to hear me, and to receive my love and support for YOU

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I’m reading ALL of your comments. The outpouring of love and support in quality and quantity makes a difference so as you’re wondering if you’re being drowned out by so many other comments, no, you are not drowned out I SEE YOU and I LOVE YOU  
 
I hope you take the time to to watch, to hear me, and to receive my love and support for YOU      
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Tom

This is my sweet Mom

on my shoulder in the black outfit who ascended into heaven about 48 hours ago. My birth mom is the woman in the forefront.

Don’t just read one line and “like”. Read all of this and “love”, comment, share yourself, it’s important we are more involved with each other <3 <3 <3

Let me tell you some things about these two remarkable women in my life. What a story I have for you <3 <3 <3 I will get to the story of how my birth mom and my mom and dad met for the first time further down below after I mention a few more amazingly cool things. It’s a wonderful story and one of the happiest moments of my life, my mom and dads lives, and my birth moms life and I hope it touches some of you, too.

BRACE YOURSELF.. As I typed this I kept typing and typing so many random thoughts popping into my head after the story of everyone meeting for the first time. I didn’t even have to stop and think. It just flowed. So much emotion. So much purpose for us all to see a long post like this and be even more inspired than we already are to love and support one another with full on vulnerability and realness absent of all “tough guy” vibrato.

Look how happy my sweet mom is that we are together. The expression on her face.. Wow.. Yesterday and the day before I was going through pictures to find for her Obituary photo and when I came across this one the search was immediately over. Cropped her out of the photo and this is it. I’m going to use this whole photo with myself and my birth mom at the memorial and celebration of life service sometime after covid-19 dies down so that’s probably going to be a while from now.

The picture was taken at the time of my dads funeral, about 2 years and 10 months ago. My Colorado mom made the trip from Loveland Colorado to be here. I can’t wait to see her again whenever it is we have the memorial and celebration of life service after the health pandemic is over.

My mom was born to be my mom, even though she did not give birth to me, I am her son and she is my mom. She is the only one I call, “Mom”. My birth mom I either call LouAnne or my Colorado mom. When I’m talking to my biological sisters about my Colorado mom I refer to her as “Mom”. To everyone else I call her her LouAnne or my Colorado Mom.

My mom encouraged me to find my biological parents my whole life. When I was 35 I finally did. Between my moms encouragement to keep trying after failed attempts, and my dads amazing brain finding a minor technicality that gave my adoption case worker a legitimate legal avenue of reaching out to my biological mom directly via a phone call, it finally happened. I talked to my bio mom for the first time ever at age 35 and from there came in contact with my bio dad, aunts, uncles, cousins, two siblings I never knew I had, even one more living grandparent I got to know for a few years until she passed away just a few years ago. My bio mom and dad did not end up together after they had me and adopted me out. Both sides of my birth family are wonderful people. I lucked out because a lot of re-connections end up going very badly and therapy is needed. This has just been wonderful all around and I know I am lucky.

On to the story..

I’ve already met my bio family at this point of my parents and my bio mom meeting for the first time. I had already gone out to loveland to meet everyone and spend time with them. I remember my mom driving me to the airport to send me off to see my birth mom who would scoop me up at the Denver airport. One mom to another mom… Wow that was so cool <3

Fast forward to the day of myself picking up my Colorado mom from the Milwaukee airport to bring her to my parents house. Oh god that was one of the most blissful and most happiest moments of my life I will forever play on constant re-run in my mind!

I’m at my parents house. Just as I leave to pick up Colorado mom I say something like, here I go! I will be back soon with my Colorado mom. Man that was so cool to say! They were excited to meet her finally after all these years and a few conversations over the phone. Look at it from my parents point of view. They were about to meet, in person, the woman who birthed their son and adopted him out. If not for my Colorado mom my parents would not have had me as their son <3 They were about to meet this woman! That filled my heart with so much happiness to see my mom and my dad about to have this experience.

So, I take off to the airport. Very anxious I am. No delays in her flight that I can remember and Milwaukee Mitchel airport is super easy so I was able to pick her right up and whisk her away straight to my parents house which was only a 35 minute drive! She stayed with me at my house which was only 2 minutes away from my parents house but we just wanted to get to my parents house asap and then unpack at my house later!

Pulling into the driveway of my parents house. Oh my god I’ve got butterflies in my stomach, I’m on cloud 9, I can’t believe this is finally happening, I can’t wait to see the look on everyones faces and the hugs and whatever else happens!

I open the side door into the house that goes to the kitchen, my birth mom right behind me, my parents are already sitting at the kitchen table, chairs turned toward the side door… My birth mom following behind me.. As soon as she is visible to my parents I say, Mom and Dad this is LouAnne, my birth mom.

In the spirit of transparency as I’m typing this I am having one of many random moments of crying. Reliving this moment in my mind is triggering a good cry right now <3 <3

Immediately my birth mom drops whatever she had in her hands and their are warm hugs all around. Ohhhhh the look on my sweet moms face to see the woman who is responsible for me being her son was priceless. My sweet mom was so happy. I know for sure this was one of the happiest moments of her life and I hope she replayed it in her mind anytime she was feeling sad.

Everyone was so happy. My dad was happy. My birth mom was happy. I was certainly happy. The expressions on everyones faces and the love felt between everyone truly is what life is about and makes all the extremely difficult times worth while. That is something I have to remember no matter how many times I have to remind myself. As much as I am hurting right now, as much as my heart has been broken right now, it’s these memories that makes the heart ache worth while. I have to remember that and I hope all of you reading this remembers that as well. I have never been more heart broken in all my life. Not for any girl I had a romantic interest in, not for anyone else. The loss of my mom to the next life, and my second and last parent, is the most emotionally challenging experience of my life. It’s memories this one here and the support of great people in my life is what I need to help me.

You’ve probably figured out by now the picture of the four of us is the day my mom and dad and birth mom met for the first time. I love this picture and I will carry it around in my heart forever. Both of these pictures I will carry with me forever because of the memories they invoke that mean so much to me. There was so much laughter. You can even see some of the laughter captured in this more candid picture of the four of us. There was so much hugging. So much story telling. So much love. This was deeply therapeutic for everyone all around. It was days like these that were the best days of my life.

Oh mom I miss you so much. My heart hurts beyond belief that I will never get to see you again, hear your voice again, or hear you talk back to me while I still talk to you out loud with my voice. I have to admit It feels lonely now doing so much talking but never hearing your voice talk back to me again. Now I’m pretty much uncontrollably crying as I am typing this right now. Mom I so desperately want to hear you say, “Honey, ….” knowing I will never get to hear those sweet words to me with your sweet voice ever again. I have to keep stopping to blow my nose and wipe tears from my eyes. I knew typing this up would do this but it’s ok. All of my crying and heart ache is really a deeply powerful testament to the love we feel for each other. I have to look at it that way because it’s true and it might be even mildly comforting to recognize that truth.

I hope sharing this un polished and raw experience with the world helps other people out who might be grieving. There is a lot of emotional suffering out there and we all need to be there for each other. I think that is one of our most important tasks as humans; simply to be there for each other. A lot of times we tend to polish things up when we should be 100% transparent and forthright. A wonderful thing happens when you have courage to be 100% transparent and forthright when you are emotionally struggling the most. Others recognize it more than the polished version which helps them with their grieving processes because their is now true empathy between us. You are going to receive less polished condolences and various offerings of support because you’ve opened the door for more full-on realness which is the best therapy for all involved. There is going to be less judgement. From most people their will be no judgement at all even if they have a habit of judging they will not judge you because of the doorway that’s been opened to 100% realness and vulnerability for deep compassion for one another. I’m not saying there is never a time to be polished and proper, I’m saying in certain times like this, it’s better to be unpolished so all of the aforementioned human therapies can happen for all people. For the occasional person that might judge you, it makes it easy to identify that individual and excommunicate while wishing them the best.

My mom had a HUGE heart. A heart of gold. She loving to do things for other people and give to other people. It drove my dad nuts at times because it usually involved spending money..LoL Or, it involved my moms unhealthy weight gain and diabetes which also drove my dad nuts because he loved her and wanted to see her improve her health as did I.

One of her favorite things when she was still healthy enough to be more mobile around the house was to bake various sweets for people. Often times she would eat some of what she baked and it contributed to destroying her health up to her dying day. I know it feels good in the moment to eat sweet fatty food but is the price to pay a worth while one? I guess that is for every individual to decide for themselves. I’m sure there are a large plurality of people who decide it was not worth it after it is too late and that is the catch 22 of that deal. How do you know for sure it will be worth while to live an unhealthy life style until after you experience enough of the consequences. I think the primary reason it happens with so many people is because it happens so slowly over the course of many years. I’ve always thought it to be like a lobster settling in for a nice warm bath. He doesn’t get out because the heat is turned up sooooo slowly and feels so good at first until the horrible consequences kick in.

In my opinion, and I tried so hard and so desperately to get my mom to subscribe to this, it’s better to go for a worthwhile life than an easy life. Learning how to make healthy food taste amazing, and regularly fitness, is worth while for how your mind and body rewards you on a daily basis as you grow older feeling and looking more youthful. One of my life goals is to help people transition over to that philosophy of living so we can all live and love one other for more years and with better energy and capabilities. The best gift you can give to your loved ones, I’ve been saying this for years, is to simply be here living and living well.

My heart didn’t just start hurting when I realized my mom was not going to survive covid-19. My heart started hurting a couple of decades ago when I noticed my mom starting to pay the consequences for not being faithful to her health and wellness. Slowly over many years her health and wellness would be chipped away. The proverbial lobster settling in for a nice warm bath. It happened so slowly it never shocked her senses into turning a new leaf. For the last maybe ten years of her life I searched my brain DAILY for new ways of appealing to my mom to turn over that new leaf. Over the course of time I did have some success but it wasn’t enough to turn the corner for long term health. There was a couple instances where she did make enough changes that she lost about a hundred pounds, brought her A1C level below 6.0 from about 8 if I remember correctly and that was a HUGE thing to have an A1C below 6.0!! Her blood panels came around but that was also with the help of medications. For a little bit at one point she was doing so good. I praised her so much and encouraged her to keep going. But it did not last. The last two years of her life she really took a nose dive, starting with her new amplified toxic way of thinking, and self sabotaged for the rest of her life. It just continued spiraling down from there. One health scare after another for 2 years until her passing. I think the worst moment was when she finally had her knee replacement surgery but she did not follow through with her rehabilitation exercises and ultimately never walked without an upright walker ever again. She never regained the strength in her knew stable knee, thereby never getting around to having the other knee replaced.

Mom, it all started with your mind and your body followed. Toward the end your heart became weak so you were refereed to a cardiologist. The first warning was when you were being screened for knew replacement surgery to make sure you were healthy enough for it. You just basically had to lose 50 more pounds because everything else was great. You got the weight down which was awesome! I was shocked to be honest when you were told you met the criteria for surgery with your weight loss and you didn’t have any expression of excitement or accomplishment over it. The Physicians assistant who gave you the great news and myself were so excited and you didn’t really express any emotion at all. I remember that was one of the first signs that your mind mentally had taken a bad turn and just became more toxic from there 🙁 There was however just one more possible issue to deal with before clearing you for surgery and that was your heart. You had lived in extreme sedentary for so long the surgeon was concerned about your heart so you were sent to a cardiologist to make sure your heart was ok. You barely passed. The surgery went perfectly. You recovered perfectly. You just didn’t do your rehab follow through which makes me so sad mom 🙁 I will always wonder for the rest of my life why you didn’t follow through, why your mind took a turn for the worst about 5 or 6 months after dad passed for the last two years of your life, and why you agreed to this surgery after you were clearly informed of the consequences of not following through with your rehab. For the rest of my life I will wonder. I asked her quite a few times why, but you never had an answer. The few times you did answer you just said you didn’t know. Sometimes you said, “what is wrong with me?” So you knew something was going on with your mind. I encouraged you to develop a relationship with a really good therapist who could help you. I tried that once with a really nice lady but you weren’t motivated to keep going back or following through with treatments. I don’t know for sure what happened but it’s kind of like you lost motivation to live any longer even though you had so much love and support. Maybe it’s the dozens of medications your doctor had you on that took over your mind and chipped away at the real you. The past two years of your life I feel like you were not yourself most of the time. The rare moments you were yourself I would turn everything else off to soak that up because I was well aware you could go at anytime and I did not know how many more of those precious moments I would have with you as your true self.

Mom you had always struggled with depression and anxiety but the last two years of your life it was all magnified at extreme levels. It’s like you were a tortured soul. I’ll never understand it but I know it broke my heart every day because I just wanted my mom back and on those rare moments you were your old self I really soaked all that up and I’m glad that I did.

Mom, I hate to say this, I said this to you while you were still living, your stress, anxiety, and over all toxic thinking got so bad it became palpable and you broke my tolerance for it. I actually started to give myself a 50/50 change of a heart attack if I hung out with you for too long so for the last couple years of your life you didnt see me too much except for those moments you were your true self. At one point, I will never forget, you said to me, “Tom don’t let me take you down with me.” That was heavy to hear. I said, don’t worry mom I won’t but I don’t want you to go down either I want you to get better I love you you’ve got support here but I do promise I won’t let you take me down with you.

That was quite a conversation to have. My mom knew something was going on in her mind. It’s amazing how something intangible like the mind affects something tangible like the rest of the body. But what started it? I think the most likely culprit are her many medications including anti depressants which messes with the chemistry of the mind. But with those you can’t just come off cold turkey or two quickly or it could kill you. This gets into the territory of how harsh I am in criticizing the paradigm of which the medical community operates in a curriculum created by the Pharmacological industry. However, because of my moms extreme unhealthy life style, these drugs saved her life for many years while simultaneously taking her life away 🙁

I don’t know if my mom would have beat covid-19 at 75 years of age otherwise, but, you have to factor in everything that goes into that. Her lack of tolerance for the virus, and her already very compromised immune system and weak heart and lungs played a huge role in being ill-equipped to deal with a virus that attacked her upper respiratory system. She was already seeing a heart specialist. In fact, Im supposed to take her to Saint Lukes in Milwaukee this August 12th for a special scan they can do up there to get a better look at her heart, figure out why her heart is so weak, and then go from there. That appointment is obviously not happening anymore because her heart is no longer beating. She is gone 🙁

Living a life style that builds STRONG natural defenses on a daily bases is what stacks the odds overwhelmingly in ones favor. That has to be worth while. Remember, go for a life that is worth it rather than a life that is easy. In my opinion we need to redefine what is “easy”. Suffering, losing your mind, being pumped up on different prescription drugs for life etc is NOT easy. Being able to walk and run, play, have feel good bowel movements daily, to feel youthful IS easy. Learning how to make healthy food taste really good is easy. Working out regularly becomes so easy if you do it regularly enough, you get to a point where you actually feel pumped up and even aroused once you get into the warmup of your workout. Then a really weird but cool paradox happens… The HARDER you workout the EASIER it becomes because as you get fitter it’s the stuff that challenges you physically that you innately need! If you’re not challenged you’re bored so whats easy is hard and what’s hard is easy! I’m sure there is a better way to explain that so hopefully everyone reading this knows what I’m talking about.

Mom, I loved you unconditionally throughout everything. Even when I got sad, heart broken, frustrated, or pissed off. I desperately tried to help you with your mind and how you feel because I knew that was the crux of everything else. I am not a yeller I hate that people yell and scream at each other. But, I wanted you to snap out of the toxic thinking more than I hated yelling. So, reluctantly I yelled at you a few times which always made me feel terrible. And here come the tears again as I type this 🙁 I know you understood why but I still felt horrible and still do. But, if I didn’t try different things to try and get through to you then I would have wondered. So I am glad I tried yelling after years of not yelling and only speaking softly to you. I was desperately because after all you are my mom and I knew it was not going to end well for you unless I could find a way to get through to you. Sadly I never found that way and it is final now. Every day I thought to myself that I still have you so there is still time, still hope, so I kept trying knowing that once you’re gone I would have no more opportunities to try. I can at least safely not have any regret regarding that but it still hurts that I was not successful. You are my mom. I just wanted you in my life longer and to be feeling well and like your true self. I wanted you to get your mind back and become mobile again which the knee surgery would have made happen if not for your devolving mindset.

Mom, I know you felt loved knowing I did everything I could think of, including things that made me feel bad like yelling, to help you get better. I also think you probably felt pretty terrible not giving me the success in your wellness that I so desperately fought for and never got. I would have done anything for you. I know you know that. I also know that when you were so toxic mentally you understood that I could not take it anymore and had to leave on many occasions but always came back the same day. I would say typically, “Mom I can’t take this I have to get out of here” and I would turn my ride share apps on which made me feel better but still so heart broken. But, I sure did soak up those moments you were your old self. I’m glad I got those as recently as the day I called 911 for the last time.

Actually, I got that moment of your true self one last time the day before my 43rd birthday. You called me from your hospital phone, the day after being admitted, to say, “well Happy Birthday!” I was like, “Thanks mom but this is the day before my birthday my birthday is tomorrow but I thank you anyway lol”. You said, “Oh I was thinking it was already Sunday but it’s Saturday! LoL”. I said, ” no worries mom this just means you get to wish me happy birthday again tomorrow 🙂 ”

Man, that was a wonderfully phone call. She sounded in good spirits. Her old self. I figured she would be ok and in a rehabilitation center soon to bring back the strength of her legs so she could come back home which I was so anxious for to be able to bring her back home again. I had no idea at the time that would be the last conversation with mom where she was feeling good but now a days I replay it in my head over and over again.

The following day she called me again and this was the beginning of the end. She told me she tested positive for Covid-19. This was on the day of my birthday. I also started developing symptoms the day before, on the 18th, which I told my mom about on the phone on the 18th, the day before my 43rd birthday, the same conversation that turned out to be the last feel good conversation with my mom I would ever have. My symptoms flared up FAST out of nowhere beginning late night of the 17th of July now that I remember, just as I called 911 for the ambulance to take my mom to the ER. I didn’t think anything about it other than wow I am legit sick for the first time in 13 years. So on the 18th of July, the day before my birthday and final feel good phone call with my mom, I told her suddenly I came down with something but I was already starting to feel better so don’t worry. On the 19th of July, my birthday, my mom tells me she is covid-19 positive. Then we both mutually decide I need to get tested but we are all sure, including the doctors and nurses, that I have it too since we live together and I was helping to take care of my mom. Naturally I became scared for my mom with the covid news.

My mom had been following covid news daily always worried about it and fearful one of us would catch it. Since my mom had a tendency to hyper focus and stress about things it’s almost as if she manifested it or maybe even willed it to happen somehow. I really don’t know. I also have no way of knowing if I got it first and gave it to my mom which can be a mortifying thought, or if she got it first and gave it to me, or if we both got it independently of each other. We will never know. I did practice social distancing and sanitation guidelines since march 17 when it became realized on a wide scale that this was serious. My primary motive was for others around me that I did not want to transmit too because I figured it would be no big deal if I got it but I’d be mortified if I passed it on to someone else so I took the CDC guidelines seriously from the beginning. If I did get it first and pass it to my mom it wasn’t out of carelessness. But we will never know. My mom over the phone said she was worried she’s the one who gave it to me. I told my mom I really had no idea who had it first or maybe we both got it independently. I re assured her I practiced all the guidelines just as I had been reassuring her all along I haven’t had physical contact with anyone since the middle of March which was actually my most recent travel to Las Vegas and back. By the time I got back home from vegas all the initial big closures were in the process of going into affect so even right from there that early on I did not give my mom a hug or make physical contact like I always would coming off a trip. I didn’t hug my mom again until the eve of her passing while she was still conscious and I was gowned up, masked up, goggled up, hopefully not looking to alien for her. But I am so grateful she was able to see me and feel my touch, hear my voice, see my eyes, as she slipped from consciousness to unconsciousness.

I love my mom. I will never stop saying it out loud with my voice. My mom loved the sound of my voice. She loved my presence. I just wish she would have taken all that energy she put into her stress and anxiety, and instead put it into doing the long hard consistent work toward healing, recovery, and wellness. I would have done ANYTHING to help her do that. I would have given up my ride sharing and my network marketing online goals which for me is a HUGE deal because I’m extremely goal driven in support of my purposes. But nothing would have been more of a priority than spending more time and energy with my mom if she had been more interested in self care than self destruction those past couple of years 🙁

Sadly, most of my time spent helping my mom for those last two of her years was lots of doctor appointments, lots of random trips to the ER, and more regular trips to the store after she lost a lot of her mobility and became a bigger risk for falling.

Another random memory… Remember when I said for some moments she did really good and made some wonderful healthy changes? One of them was right after my dad passed on and I moved back home as she became more immobile, I started making healthy plant based lunches every day that I would stop my ride sharing for. For a little while she would have these healthy home made lunches with me. I just LOVED that. I thought it had turned into a regular habit but it did not last too long. I was settling into the wonderfulness of a nice healthy lunch every day with my mom and then suddenly out of nowhere she was no longer interested and went right back to the terrible unhealthy foods. Comfort foods? Probably. My mom was doing real good for the first five or six months after my dad passed on. I don’t think my dads passing was a factor in her mindset for her last two years. I still go back to all the meds she was on by her various Doctors. I would have loved to have kept that daily ritual going of a health lunch with my mom. It was also a great bonding experience that I miss so much.

Another thing my mom liked that was super healthy was this super foods shake I got her and my whole family on starting in November of 2009. My dad, my brother, my mom, of course myself. It’s the flagship product of the home business company I joined in August of 2007. I sell these super foods shakes. If you’d like to look at it let me know I will send you my company replicated website link with info and an order button if you decide to try it out. Comes with an automatic thirty day full refund promise. All four of us in my immediate family enjoyed this super foods shake. The last two years of my moms life I would make hers for her. Typically two at a time. One for now, and another I’d put in the fridge already made for later when I’d be out ride sharing or whatever I was doing. Toward the end she even stopped drinking the super foods shake unless I happened to be home the same time she was not in bed. Even the ones I’d put in the fridge for her she stopped drinking, most of the time.

This was another developing problem toward the end, it was the amount of time she spent in bed. Her heart and lungs never got anymore exercise which developed into the problems I eluded to earlier in this huge article. My daily experience became this… I would ride share, come home several times during the day between rides hoping to see my mom but she’d be in bed. I saw her very rarely and when I did it was always a 50/50 shot at her being in an intolerable toxic mood or resembling her old self. If she was up and her old self I loved turning my ride sharing apps off and hanging out with her, asking her if she would like me to make her something etc.. But it happened so rarely and just broke my heart each day. My favorite way to come home to her would be I would simply walk through the side door and into the kitchen where her chair in the living room facing the T.V. would be visible to me, to see her sitting in her chair comfortably watching T.V., and saying, “Hey Mom”, and her saying, “Hi Honey”, and wherever the conversation would go from their. I might ask her if she wanted anything, Can I make you something, how her day is going, watcha watching, do you need anything from the store etc.. When she initiated conversation with me it would typically start with how are you doing with your goals, did you meet your goals, I wanna talk to you about something, I have a question for you, do you still talk to …, I want you to make sure you …..

My moms big beautiful heart and spirit of giving is going to live on in me forever. My mom will live on in me and in Heaven with my Dad. I have many facets to my personality. I’m still going to be fiercely passionate, I’m still probably going to harshly criticize sociopathic lunatics who are more emboldened than ever in the present moment, I’m still going to guilt free LOVE making money so I can buy more passive money and have more FREEDOM in life, and I’m always going to CREATE and have free resources I can give, give, and give away to people who need it forever and ever. Even long after my own passing these resources will remain on line and available. I have thousands of videos, articles, and other pieces of content I’ve personally created all to do with NATURAL chemical free health, Organic BETTER wealth, mindset, philosophy, and anything else that can help people live a better life.

I started with free stuff to be able to graduate toward investing in myself and building up from there. So I first hand understand both the value of free and the value of investing money into myself in ways that are not free. You start where you are and build from there.

Positive minded people are always welcome to my group Change Makers

If you want to make better money too, or live a healthier life, or do both, or just soak up the free stuff, or invest in yourself, you are welcome to join my group.

I know I’ve typed up a lot but there are so many random thoughts that go through my brain at a time like this that what I’ve typed is just a drop in the bucket. It’s hard to remember it all long enough to type it all out and I type about 80 wpm! So many feelings and emotions, memories and reflections, that I can’t possibly get it all down but I wish I could.

Love,

Tom

To my sweet mom

in an open letter to which there will be more to follow after this one.

Mom, I did my best to make sure you slipped away releasing anything that might have been worrying you or making you feel sad. I was able to spend the last fifteen hours of your life with you and one hour after you slipped away.

For 7 straight hours I talked to you not knowing if you could hear me but hoping you could. Before you transitioned into unconsciousness you had your last conscious experience you would ever have.

You reached your hand out to hold mine. And with my other hand I rubbed your head, moved into eyesight, and said I Love You as your eyes closed and you drifted off to sleep.

For the next 15 hours of unconsciousness I stayed with you to your last breath. I can’t believe I talked non stop to you for 7 hours but I really did. I went from topic to topic fluently mostly about good memories, family, feeling loved, anything that would make you feel blissful and deeply loved.

I have no idea if you could hear me once you drifted into unconsciousness, or if you could, for how long could you hear me? At the very least maybe subconsciously you could hear me and I helped you dream some really sweet calming kind of dreams that made you feel very loved.

All night into the morning to your last breath I lulled you with my voice, I had you feel the touch of my hands on your head and shoulders, and I stayed in eye sight just in case you opened them briefly for one last time.

Remember Kermit the Frogs Rainbow Connection song you use to love watching me sing one foot in front of the TV screen when I was only four? That’s our song mom. At one point during the night I loaded Rainbow Connection up on you tube and sang along for you in your ear. I hope you could hear that. At the very least I hope you had the most wonderful dreams from it that made you feel loved.

My goal in doing all of this was to help you release anything that might be worrying you so you could be comfortable and slip away in peace, feeling loved ALWAYS.

Mom it means the world to me that your last conscious experience was feeling our hands holding, feeling my other hand rubbing your hand, and seeing my face and my eyes just as you began closing yours. You got to take me with you as you drifted away one last time. You didn’t have to make this transition alone or with a stranger. Earlier in the day you got to see both of your sons and hear our voices for an hour until the other had to go due to hospital covid policy.

Mom I will be ok but in the meantime this is really a struggle for me. After dads passing I had you and I loved having you for emotional support. Now you’ve passed and I am out of parents for emotional support. You and dad were BORN to be my mom and dad. You were born to be my little brothers mom and dad. All of the support out there is wonderful and I need it, but, nobody can fill the void of two great parents.

When I was a kid I literally felt bad for every other kid in the entire world because they do not have the parents I have. That sounds silly but that’s how natural and awesome it felt to have you and dad as my parents. You were both born to be my mom and dad.

I am hurting because I’ll never get to see you again, have a conversation, get advice from, or to be there for each other like a strong family does. I’ll never get to walk into the house, see you on your chair watching little house on the prairie, and say, “Hey mom how are you doing?” I’ll never get to ask you questions again. You’ll never get to ask me questions again. We will never get to have a dialogue again. I won’t be able to help you reach for something or go out to eat. The list goes on and on.

Mom I haven’t been able to talk without crying all day today. My sadness has to be a testament to the love and that’s how I have to look at it <3 Tom

My sweet mom passed away this morning from covid-19

🙁 I was able to spend the last 15 hours of her life with her up to her last breath and one hour after that. She didn’t have to die alone and without family like so many other covid patients do so we received a wonderful priceless gift from the ICU Nurses.

I’m more heart broken over this than any other girl in my life. I’m out of parents now. It’s like a new beginning where I start off very disoriented. My mom didn’t make it, but she did make it to heaven today to be with my Dad, her mom and dad, and everyone else who passed before her.

Mom I love you so much, I miss you terribly, I’m crying uncontrollably as I type this and I will cry randomly for a while. Nobody can fill this void you were simply born to be my mom and my little brothers mom <3 <3 <3 <3

This is sooooooo hard but there is a lot of empathy and support out there because it’s a common occurrence in our lives.

THANK YOU to everyone who checked in on me and my mom over the last few weeks you mean the WORLD to me.

Today I make funeral arrangements with my brother.

Stay healthy and happy <3

Tom


July 18th 20:36
am legit sick for the first time in 13 years as of yesterday. My only symptom is bad head congestion and 102 degree temperature. Share your best remedy?

I guess no matter how healthy you live your body has to learn something new at least once every 13 years lol

I’ll write more later. Happy 43rd birthday to me for July 19th 1977.


July 19th 21:02

My mom tested positive for covid in the hospital 🙁

I’m getting tested tomorrow. I just lost my dad 2 1/2 years ago. I hope my mom pulls through. This sucks. 🙁


July 22nd 13:53

My mom was just transferred to ICU this morning with a BiPap 🙁 Drs give my mom 50/50 shot at surviving Covid. If you pray, please offer them..

Today they are beginning blood plasm treatment from someone who beat covid. The Dr explained to me they’ve learned a lot about how to treat covid patients since this started and continue to learn.

I am scared. Before this I was clinging on to the fact she was not in ICU or on a ventilator. She’s still not on a ventilator but she is in ICU now on a BiPap and the ventilator is next if the blood plasma treatment does not work.


August 7th

My sweet moms Obituary is now published. Feel free to share. My mom knew and worked with a lot of people over the years of her life. The more this is shared the more people who knew her at any given phase of her life will learn of her passing <3 <3

My mom loved her family and friends so much. I’ve always only ever heard how fun my mom is to be around. Whether it’s the poker table, at work, a social gathering, everyone loved my mom <3

https://www.bruchfuneralhome.net/obituary/joyce-birkenmeyer


August 8th

It was one week ago today at this hour I watched my mom take her last breath with my hand on her head and my voice telling her I love her. My mom was loved as she crossed over. I miss you mom I can’t wait to see you and dad again.


August 14th

Early this morning I had the biggest emotional break down I’ve had since the day my mom passed on, August 1st.
I was doing so good for the past week and a half.

Just random moments I’d get chocked up thinking about stuff.

Today I did good to because that kind of a cry renews the soul it feels like.

I don’t know why I even call it a break down. I just had a really good cry that forced me to stop everything else I was doing to get it out of my system.

The memory that triggered it was a few years ago after my dad passed on, my moms husband of over forty years, my mom found reason to smile during that sad time because she was with me.

I was the reason she felt comfort during that time.

I’m beyond moved and touched that I could have been that source of comfort and support for my mom right after she lost her husband and my awesome dad.

It brought me to tears so heavy I was forced to stop everything else I was doing this morning and cry for a spell to get it out.
I miss you mom. I love you so much.

Steve Jobs Best Legacy is not APPLE

TOTALLY AND UTTERLY TRUE

Steve Jobs dies a billionaire, with a fortune of $7 billion, at the age of 56 from pancreatic cancer, and here are some of his last words… ???

“In other eyes, my life is the essence of success, but aside from work, I have a little joy. And in the end, wealth is just a fact of life to which I am accustomed.”

“At this moment, lying on the bed, sick and remembering all my life, I realize that all my recognition and wealth that I have is meaningless in the face of imminent death. You can hire someone to drive a car for you, make money for you – but you can not rent someone to carry the disease for you. One can find material things, but there is one thing that can not be found when it is lost – “LIFE”. ❀

Treat yourself well, and cherish others. As we get older we are smarter, and we slowly realize that the watch is worth $30 or $300 – both of which show the same time. Whether we carry a purse worth $30 or $300 – the amount of money in the wallets are the same. Whether we drive a car worth $150,000, or a car worth $30,000 – the road and distance are the same, we reach the same destination. If we drink a bottle worth $300 or wine worth $10 – the “stroller” will be the same. If the house we live in is 300 square meters, or 3000 square meters – the loneliness is the same.”

“Your true inner happiness does not come from the material things of this world. ? Whether you’re flying first class, or economy class – if the plane crashes, you crash with it.”

So, I hope you understand that when you have friends or someone to talk to – this is true happiness.

? Five Undeniable Facts

1ïžâƒŁ Do not educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be happy. – So when they grow up they will know the
value of things, not the price.

2ïžâƒŁ Eat your food as medicine, otherwise you will need to eat your medicine as food.

3ïžâƒŁ Whoever loves you will never leave you, even if he or she has 100 reasons to give up. He or she will always find one reason to hold on.

4ïžâƒŁ There is a big difference between being human and human being.

5ïžâƒŁ If you want to go fast – go alone! But if you want to go far – go together.

And in conclusion… ?

?‍⚕ The six best doctors in the world ?‍⚕

1ïžâƒŁ Sunlight
2ïžâƒŁ Rest
3ïžâƒŁ Exercise
4ïžâƒŁ Diet
5ïžâƒŁ Self-confidence
6ïžâƒŁ Friends

Keep them in all stages of life and enjoy a healthy life. ?

Whichever stage in life we are at right now, with time, we will face the day when the curtain comes down.

Treasure Love for your family, love for your spouse, love for your friends…

Treat yourself well. Cherish others. ?

? Something worth sharing

I found the above on a facebook post so I don’t know if this is 100% accurate but either way these are beautiful sentiments that ring true to me so I wanted to share.

-Tom

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Doctors are not real scientists

Doctors are technology dispensaries for pharmaceutical companies.

If doctors were real scientists then medical treatment would be utilized less frequently.

The problem with that is it means less profits for their pharmaceutical bosses.

Pharmaceutical companies set the curriculum and Supply the tools and resources for their human technology dispensaries.

This Unforgivable conflict of interest happens from our insane system of legalized bribery in our politics. It’s the private financing of our elections.

Among other big corporations, the pharmaceutical companies form their own political action committees to legally purchase politicians to Curry favor with.

Medical doctors are not the problem they actually mean well and sincerely want to help.

Once in a while a doctor will go Rogue, in a good way, and learn outside of the box that pharmaceutical corporations built for them to live and die inside of.

When a doctor goes Rogue in this fashion typically they are ostracized and too frequently they are assassinated.

The root of the problem is the private financing of our elections.

The solution is to start paying attention to who takes this money and who doesn’t and start voting only for politicians who are not on the take!

Once we accomplish this then we are free from these conflicts of interests to start solving problems in a meaningful way.

Not just problems with our medical community and Health Care System but all of the big problems that face our country and the world.

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-Tom

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For profit health insurance is as dark and immoral as our history with slavery

#medicareforall

Actually I think our current system of healthcare is even more immoral, possibly, than our shameful past of human slavery.

More people have suffered, been mistreated, and died under our current Healthcare System than in the days of slavery by Far and Away!

I was just thinking about this concept as I was creating another article.

You’re trapped inside of a network of doctors and hospitals that is decided upon by your health insurance evil bovine master.

If you leave your master you could suffer, go bankrupt, and die.

If you stay with your master and pay your monthly dues you could still suffer, go bankrupt, and die from being under-insured.

Among the most common bankruptcies in America is medical bankruptcy and that is from people who have health insurance in their master Slave relationship.

Depending on the winds of privately financed politics you could be enslaved by a pre existing condition.

You might be enslaved by your already enslaving job with employer based health insurance. If you hate your job and need the health insurance tough shit, peon!

You’re evil bovine health insurance Master has departments in their multi billion dollar facilities dedicated to the sole purpose of finding ways to legally deny you coverage should you make a claim for a procedure that is between life and death.

Why?

Because FU that’s why.

Just continue voting for politicians on the take of legal bribery to keep Medicare for all from becoming law.

I have a better idea.

Let’s end our Behavior as useful idiots for establishment figures who profit from making us sick poor and dumb.

Let’s only vote for politicians who are not on the take of corporate Pac money or lobbyists.

Let’s eat natural food and make residual money.

President Pinocchio used to be in favor of a Universal Health Care coverage that covered everybody until he started taking legal bribe money from private insurance companies.

Here are a few names of politicians openly rejecting corporate pac and lobbyist money running for president in 2020.

Tulsi gabbard, Andrew Yang, and my favorite because he is the thought leader on this, Bernie Sanders.

#endslavery
#medicareforall
#bernie2020

Tom

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P.p.s Medicare for all 70% popular. The remaining 30% honest to God I’ve never heard criticize it for what it actually is so I believe based on that objective observation that if the remaining 30% learns what medicare-for-all is they would be in favor of it. The reason medicare-for-all has grown from being unpopular to overwhelmingly popular is because the more people learn about what it actually is they become in favor of it.

P.p.p.s I’m happily deleting comments that are not rooted in objectivity. Partisan hacks need not voice their ill legitimate inferior opinions here 🙂

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My dads cremains committed to the sea

Care package arrived to my moms house from the navy November 26th 2018.  Read the letter for the details of my dads burial at sea then take in the pictures.  The letter is so beautiful written.  The pictures turned out really well.  The weather looks beautiful.  But of course, it’s somewhere between Hawaii and Southern California.

I love you dad.  Today is May 13th, 2019. Exactly one year and seven months since you passed on. I’m just now posting your burial at sea to share with the world almost seven months after receiving your care package.  I think about you daily and I miss you so much.  I can’t wait to see you again dad but not before living a good life that you worked faithfully to be able to give to me.  – Tom

 

Happy Mothers Day to all the moms who didn’t make it this year. You’re all missed VERY much.

Happy Mothers Day to the mompreneurs taking control of the care and nourishment of their families rather than leaving it to the vulnerabilities of employment at some job.

Happy mothers Day to moms of fur animals who don’t have human children.

Happy Mothers Day to all the moms who love their families.

Happy Mothers Day to my Mom and my Biological Mom.

Love,

Tom

Trump Supports Genocide.

Trump supporters need to break their Cult of Personality.

Trump made a weapons deal that arms Saudi Arabia.

Saudi Arabia uses our arms to bombs school buses of children in Yemen and uses our logistical support to form a blockade while there is a cholera outbreak which has created an environment where 14 million people are about to die for being the wrong kind of Muslim.

Yesterday Congress introduced a bill that would end our involvement in this genocide.

The monster who campaigned on a promise of non intervention and pro and human rights vetoed a bill that would end our participation in a literal genocide.

President Pinocchio and all who continues to support him to this day have the blood of a genocide on their hands that will never come clean.

In my judgment the United States will be judged more harshly for its complicit support of genocide than our past of human slavery.

Trump’s support of a genocide has been going on for a couple of years now but this resolution to end the participation was just this week and vetoed the same day it was presented to Our Sick vile f u c k of a president.

Send our sick vile president to jail.

If there is any justice in the world he needs to go to jail immediately for war crimes and crimes in general Against Humanity.

If we held president Pinocchio to the same standards we held the Germans to during the Nuremberg trials then present Pinocchio would be hanged to death yesterday.

I’m anti capital punishment so don’t kill him just send him to jail for life.

Make America anti-genocide again.

Make Trump supporters ReDiscover their Humanity again.

Tom

P.s. When you pay your taxes your money is being used to buy bombs that blow up buses full of school children and kills about a hundred people per day. Trump is among the worlds most vile terrorists posing as civility dressed in a suit and tie.

Are a Fragmentation of Pro Lifers Death Cultists?

The average pro-life person never met a war they don’t like and they favor the death penalty.

They are only pro-life in one area.

They should call themselves anti-abortionists so there is no confusion.

I only know a small handful of real principled pro-lifers. They are vegan. They are anti-abortion. They are anti-war. They are anti-death penalty. I don’t agree with their lack of nuances but they have integrity in their principal of being pro-life.

Do you see the hypocrisy in a plurality of self proclaimed “pro life” individuals, too?

– Tom

Robert Reich: Socialism of the Rich, Capitalism for the Rest

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“we renew our resolve that America will never be a socialist country”

someone should alert Trump that America is now a hotbed of socialism but it’s socialism for the rich.

everyone else is treated to harsh capitalism.

in the conservative mind socialism means getting something for doing nothing.

this pretty much describes General Motors receipt of 600 million dollars in federal contracts plus 500 million in tax breaks.

since Trump took office some of this corporate welfare has gone into the pockets of GM executives.

chairman and CEO Mary Barra raked in almost 22 million dollars in total compensation in 2017 alone but GM employees are subject to harsh capitalism.

GM is planning to layoff more than 14,000 workers and close three assembly plants and two component factories in North America by the end of 2019.

the nation’s largest banks saved 21 billion dollars last year thanks to Trump’s tax cuts some of which went into massive bonuses for bank executives.

on the other hand thousands of lower-level bank employees got a big dose of harsh capitalism.

they lost their jobs.

banks that are too big to fail courtesy of the 2008 bank bailout enjoy a hidden subsidy of some 83 billion dollars a year because they have the backing of the federal government.

this hidden subsidy gives Wall Street’s giant banks a huge advantage in 2017.

Wall Street’s bonus pool was thirty one point four billion dollars.

so take away the hidden subsidy and that bonus pool disappears along with most profits.

Trump and his appointees at the Federal Reserve are easing bank requirements put in place after the bailout but they will make sure the biggest banks remain too big to fail.

when he was in business Trump perfected the art of using bankruptcy to shield himself from the consequences of bad decisions.

socialism for the rich at its worst while leaving employees twisting in the wind. now all for America executives who run their companies into the ground are getting gold-plated exit packages while their workers give pink slips.

under socialism for the rich you can screw up big time and still reap big rewards.

Equifax is richard smith retired in 2017 with an 18 million dollar pension in the wake of a security breach that exposed the personal information of 145 million customers to hackers.

Wells Fargo’s carry toll stet departed with a hundred twenty five million dollar exit package after being in charge of the unit that opened more than two million unauthorized customer accounts.

whatever happened to the idea of a meritocracy?

an economic system that allows everyone to get ahead through hard work and economic gains go only to those who deserve them.

around 60 percent of America’s wealth is now inherited.

many of today’s super-rich have never done a day’s work in their lives.

Trump’s response has been to expand this divide by cutting the estate tax to apply only to estates valued at over twenty-two million dollars per couple.

Mitch McConnell is now proposing that the estate tax be repealed altogether.

to the conservative mind the specter of socialism conjures up a society in which no one is held accountable and no one has to work for what they receive.

yet that’s exactly the society Trump and the Republicans are promoting for the rich.

meanwhile most Americans are subject to an increasingly harsh and arbitrary capitalism.

they need stronger safety nets and they deserve a bigger piece of the economic pie.

if you want to call this socialism fine.

I call it fair.

what do you think do you think the current system is fair?”

– Robert Reich: Socialism of the Rich, Capitalism for the Rest

Robert Reich summed up beautifully in a short video what I’ve been saying for several years now about the projection and cognitive dissonance espoused by a plurality of individuals.

-Tom

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Show me a politician who says the green New Deal bans cows and air travel and I’ll show you a politician who gets legally bribed by the fossil fuel industry.

Show me a constituent who believes the green New Deal bans air travel and cows and I will show you a sucker who could give Obama and Clinton suckers lessons on how to be bigger suckers.

Thankfully the green New Deal has majority support with Republicans Democrats and independent voters. The only majority left that we have to get on board is the majority of Congress but unfortunately they take money from the fossil fuel industry preventing them from representing their constituents.

Unfortunately the most bought and paid for legally bribed politician in the entire country is President Pinocchio right after he ran an entire campaign promising that he would never take money from the establishment.

We have more than a trillion dollars per year to give welfare to a fragmentation of billionaires and to help a country commit a literal genocide but we don’t have money to deal with climate change.

Remember when FDR said the New Deal was too ambitious and we should never do it? Neither do I because the New Deal became law and we saw our country flourish and give birth to the largest middle-class the world ever saw 🙂

The very few politicians we have in Congress who are not bribed by the fossil fuel industry have a great idea in mind! They want a bold New Vision like the new deal but call it the green New Deal to deal with our new modern most catastrophic challenges. Instead of spending trillions per year on welfare for the richest people in the goddamn country and instead of helping another country commit a literal genocide we could use that money right here at home on a massive infrastructure and jobs program to get us off all fossil fuels within 12 years.

Next election cycle is only two years away and there is a plethora of candidates to vote for who openly rejects all corporate Pac and lobbyist money.

Make America for the people again.

#berniesanders2020

Tom

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Something that bugs the sh** out of me to no end..

ex President Obama is largely admired while current president Pinocchio is largely hated even though they both work for the same donors who legally bribe them.

It’s the superficial cognitive dissonance in our culture that really baffles me.

Trump has Mean Tweets while Barack is a polished nice guy so the majority of the country hates Trump but loves Obama.

I wish our society would look Beyond The Superficial surface and realize they are both similar scumbags Who Sold us out working for the same donors who legally bribed them.

I take some comfort at least in knowing Bernie Sanders is by far away the single most popular politician in the country and he is running for president taking a zero donor or bribe money from corporate Pacs or lobbyists 🙂

#berniesanders2020

P.s. support Obama, trump, Bush, Clinton it really doesn’t matter. Republican or Democrat. You’ve all been had.

Tom

Is there anything worse than being rejected by a girl you like?

Taking a deep breath before continuing because I have more than plenty of haters who are going to find joy in reading this…

I suffer from the proverbial “nice guy” syndrome. Honest to God every year I have a goal to be more dickish towards girls but I want to be able to live with myself so I continue being the uninteresting undesirable nice guy that I am.

If I have something to be grateful about it’s the fact that this only happens once every few years. That’s pretty extremely rare so it’s not like I’m wearing my heart on my sleeve.

I’m extremely happy being single but when I do meet someone that has me thinking twice about being single and then get rejected by that girl, that is the only time it stings and feels miserable to be single.

There is nothing wrong at all with the girl who rejected me or her reasons for rejecting me. She didn’t lie, cheat, steal, manipulate, or mislead me in any way. This is just part of life especially mine. In fact, she is quite the exceptional girl despite her rejecting me. After all, I have exceptional taste so she is magnificently exceptional. She’s just not interested in me so that is my challenge to get over her and move on.

Side note:

I have a lot of love and sexual energy to give to someone and whatever girl gets to be on the receiving end of my love and organic chemical-free boner is going to be one FORTUNATE sexy bitch.

Tom

What does the “Establishment” mean to you?

I Define it as a three-prong circle-jerk between a fragmentation of billionaires who legally bribe politicians, the politicians who are legally bribed, and corporate owned media who protects the status quo of our insane system of legalized bribery.

So then which politician is on the take of legalized bribery more than any other politician in the country?

President Pinocchio is right after he ran a whole campaign on anti-corruption and “drain the swamp”.

Who is going to drain the swamp for real of legalized bribes with a 28th Amendment to our constitution finally banning all private money from politics once and for all?

#BernieSanders2020

Feel free to share 🙂 I’m going to do what I can to help him get elected.

Tom

Every cancer diagnosis adds half a million dollars to our GDP

Profits are up while wages next to inflation are down and cancer perpetuates business as usual.

Sick vile fucks brag about GDP being up while workers are paid less for producing more and cancer remains status quo.

This is a broken system killing its own people.

Vote for political candidates who are anti Pac and lobbyist money.

Feel free to share this. The seeds need to be sewn in everyone to vote for anti corporate pac and anti lobbyist politicians.

#presidentpinocchio is the number one purveyor of this conflict of interest. Right after he promised us he would never take PAC, lobbyist, and establishment money in general he is now on the take of over 100 million dollars and Counting of those same sources he he promised us he would never take money from.

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What country has a high marginal tax rate EVER worked in?

Answer: The United States =)

Marginal tax rates in the 50s were as high as 94%! The richest men in America at that time had to expand their business to avoid ever having to pay 94% in taxes.

As business expanded it birthed the largest Economy and richest working middle class the world ever saw.

Fast forward to today and top marginal rates are less than half of what they were, the incentive is to save instead of expand business, and instead of a thriving working middle class we have a working poor class.

When a media or political figure says “high tax rates don’t work” they are LYING at the behest of their donors who legally bribe them to lie to you.

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Tom =)

The payoff to being sick

The truth is, some people don’t want to heal because they are getting a pay off being sick – Dr. Bernie Siegel

Jennifer Sierzant Naturopath wrote the following based on the Dr. Bernie Siegel quote and I think she is spot on. Drop your comments below I’d love to hear your input too.

“This is one of the hardest truth some sick people cannot comprehend. The second you tell somebody who’s sick that just maybe they don’t want to get better, they lose their minds!

I’ve worked in private practice for close to 9 years now and I can’t count how many patients I’ve seen who just refuse to alter the lifestyles to work on healing. I’ve had people with the most severe chronic diseases who refuse to quit smoking, refuse to change their diet, refuse to leave horrible life situations and who just downright refuse to believe that they’re doing anything to contribute to their diseases. One client told me his MD told him smoking was healthy. This is how deep his denial was.

They come to me or to medical doctors hoping for the magic pill. The magic pill excludes them from their responsibility that just maybe they are the co-creators to their disease.

Then you get those opposed to this way of thinking that say “well what about people with cancer. They didn’t ask for cancer”. Well in some cases, people who smoke or drink excessively or just abuse their bodies, yes they have manifested cancer in their body. And some of these people refuse to quit smoking, refuse to change their diet or refuse to change the environment. So does that mean they don’t want to heal? Sure they want to heal they just don’t want to do the work to get there.

Like Dr. Bernie Siegel says “you can have the cure for cancer in your hand and some people won’t show up to get the treatment. Why because they’re getting a pay off to being sick. What’s the pay off? It could be attention, it could be that they don’t have to participate in the world, it could be they don’t want to go back to a job, it could be they don’t want their partners to leave them, there’s all kinds of reasons why people get a payoff from being sick”

I’ve had Crohn’s disease clients who have been ravaged by the disease who can barely function but when I discuss about changing their diet they become violently adamant against it. They declare “my diet has nothing to do with healing” Those people just cannot be helped. You can’t heal a person who refuses to shift.

You know why mainstream medicine is so popular and why pharmaceutical companies are so wealthy? Because everybody wants the magic pill and rarely do people want wants to work for their health. This is why natural healing is often debunked. Believe me you don’t need science to understand the common sense of, if you eat clean, if you think clean and if you live clean you’re going to be healthier.

This is the least popular truth among those with chronic disease. I know because it used to be mine also.” – Jennifer Sierzant Naturopath

-Tom

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follow your heart

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How to deal with the Tragedy of when a loved one passes on.

This is my personal take I don’t say this to be wrong or right.

I experienced this for the first time a little over a year ago when my dad passed on.

Others have passed on but never someone I was this close to.

I did not set a deadline for mourning. I went through the process (still going through it over a year later). I was open and unfettered about it. I openly cried where ever I was at. No one was going to tell me I was wrong and no one did which I thought was really cool.

However, in my personal opinion, it was super important to me to show up in my life bigger and better than ever before in impacting other lives around me as a result of accomplishing my own goals.

The number one question to ask and be driven by in my opinion is, “How to best honor my dad?” My dad worked hard so our family can have this foundation to achieve our own dreams. My dad is looking down from Heaven and he wants to see me joyous and living a GREAT life. Not just a good life. A GREAT life.

In my opinion the mistake a lot of people make when dealing with a tragedy is they stop showing up in life in many different parts of it.

If you’re mourning the passing of someone close to you maybe try asking yourself what your loved one would like to see as they look down upon you from Heaven? How can you honor them best? I bet the answer each and every time is to show up bigger and better in your life and be joyous.

I miss my dad very much each and every day. I’m still mourning over a year later. I can mourn my dad and be joyous and show up for my own dreams and goals simultaneously.

I also think its more important than words can say to openly talk about it with all the rough edges in a positive aim.

As for me personally I wrote these elaborate blogs where I poured my guts out into them and posted them all over my facebook timeline and my tom birkenmeyer dot com website where they are archived now forever.

I even created some videos and got teary eyed in a couple of them.

This helped me and it helped others because when you talk freely and openly we can exercise the power of human empathy with each other which goes toward lots of wonderful natural emotional healing for everyone.

How cool is that?!

If you’re going through a tragedy right now of a loved one passing on, or another kind of tragedy, I hope reading this helps you to find purpose that helps you honor whom you need to honor and at the same time in doing so it rejuvenates some true joy back into your life bigger and better than ever before.

For me personally showing up bigger and better in my life meant building my natural health and fitness business. Impacting more people to get healthy Physically, Emotionally, Financially, and in any other way the individual wants to grow personally.

It meant doing more ride sharing and NOT taking a break from any of these things.

I literally stopped only for the day of my dads funeral. Other than that I did not take a break from all these activities. I kept showing up and it was all part of my own personal therapy and healing.

The work I do in showing up every day results in people Getting Healthier physically and Financially which helps them live better and feel better.

Showing up in ways that positively impacts people makes a person feel good. It’s good for you and everyone around you.

My dad was proud of me and how I chose to show up in life and my chosen work. So in the wake of his passing I kept showing up and dedicated myself to showing up bigger and better than before.

What are some ways you can show up in your daily life to honor those you love and rejuvenate yourself and others around you?

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Tom