Face-broke & time waster or do you see facebook as a platform of impact to reach the entire world?

Neat lil Acronym for you who like to Learn…

G.R.O.W. to get the most out of your learning experiences by keeping these ideas front and center in your mind.

Goal: What are you trying to improve or achieve?

Reality: Where are you now? What’s working? What’s holding you back?

Opportunities: What are your areas of strength and how can you play to those strengths more?

Way forward: How are you going to handle challenges? What are your next steps?

What I love MOST about this acronym are the questions involved. These questions are rooted in unleashing the power of your mind to be RICH AND CREATIVE in a search for answers rather than excuses. It also helps battle laziness. When you are lazy it’s easy to settle and find excuses. When you’re on the search for answers it forces your mind to become rich and creative and to battle against laziness.

If you’re poor, middle, rich, have NO time, lots of time, if you have Zero skills, lots of skills, if you have a bad past, a great past…. It’s time to G.R.O.W.

Feel free to share =)

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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Life is about having the FREEDOM to do whatever you’d like whenever you’d like

You get to decide your balances.

You decide who you LOVE and How.

Who you surround yourself with & who you distance yourself from.

Life SHOULD be about creating experiences NOT how bills will be paid.

I started advancing my personal Liberty and Freedom over a decade ago.

All that’s required to do it is an INNATE desire to learn something new.

It sounds so cliche and trite but it’s not.

Something MAGICAL happens when you INNATELY CRAVE learning something new.

You begin to fight back against your excuses and procrastinations because now it’s all about figuring stuff out.

Excuses shuts down your mind to possibilities—you don’t have to think. It is a poor and lazy mindset.

ACTION ORIENTED LEARNING opens up your mind, forcing you to think and search for answers. It is a rich and creative mindset.

Most important, an INNATE DESIRE to learn something new and figure stuff out releases the potential of your human spirit to battle with the lazy mindset.

Most people think rationalizing their excuses and procrastinations teaches them to battle greed, but really it teaches you to find excuses, which leads to laziness.

If Liberty and Freedom is your calling you have to be IN LOVE head-over-heals with Learning something new and you’re excuses won’t hold you back any longer.

Comment below with something you’ve found that helps you battle against excuses?

If you love health and fitness like I do and interested in advancing your own freedom and liberty to do whatever you’d like when you’d like feel free to ask me what Ive been doing for over a decade. If you see it as a good fit for you we will do it together.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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I’m a social Capitalist..

because I think and make Nuances =)

Checks and Balances.

Capitalism works best when its checked and balanced by socialism. Socialism works best when its checked and balanced by capitalism.

Hard line capitalists and socialists are equally wrong and equally as mentally lazy. They are one or the other so they no longer have to think and figure out where we should be more leaning one way over the other.

Intelligent and thoughtful debates are about where those nuances should exist and how and where they should be balanced.

I’m neither a capitalist or a socialist. I’m a social Capitalist =)

Depending on the issue I could be a socialist or I could be a capitalist.

I feel the same about big vs small government.

I don’t want to shut off my critical thinking faculties and claim one or the other.

What’s the issue? Then I can tell you if I believe big or small government is the best answer for a solution.

A staple of our constitution and other founding documents is a system of checks and balances. There is no such thing as an unlimited freedom. Each and EVERY amendment has checks and balances and our responsibility is to debate about where those checks and balances should be.

We do ourselves and others around us a dangerous dis service when we shut off our brain and throw everything under the same blanket.

Make America smart again.

Feel free to share these great critical thinking points never talked about by capitalists or socialists.

-Tom

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Boomerang Generation Problem Solver

The “Boomerang Generation” (according to wikipedia) is a term applied in Western culture to young adults graduating high school and college in the 21st century. They are so named for the percentage of whom choose to share a home with their parents after previously living on their own—thus boomeranging back to their parents’ residence.

This is a significant piece of my own story. I’ve talked about how I was reduced to needing my parents for my survival all over again as an adult like I did when I was a baby and all of the self loathing and intense depression that came with it.

Nobody has asked me to talk more about it until now =)

The gut reaction is “Tom not everyone has their parents to go back to maybe if I did I could be successful like you”.

10 times out of 10 times there is someone who had it worse than you who figured it out and teaches us who love to learn new things.  They teach us that where a person starts is NEVER the common denominator of where a person finishes.  The common denominators between people who’ve successfully become financially free and free to live their lives on their own terms I’ll talk to you about in the video down below.  This is more than important because before I figured out these common denominators it didn’t matter what my situation was I was not progressing in my life.  It wasn’t til after I figured out these common denominators I began solving my problems.  It’s the same common denominators that marks where you’re at right now as irrelevant to where you Finnish.

Some people start rich and finish poor.  Some people start poor and finish rich.  Many more people toggle back and fourth between rich and poor until finishing rich or poor.

So what is the common denominator between all who finish rich if they’ve come from all walks of lifes challenges?   I’ll talk to you abou that in the video.

The questions posted to me I’ll copy / paste and ill dedicate this whole blog post to the answers and how to solve that problem for other current boomerangs and anyone else interested for that matter in unshackling themselves from the dollar to live free.

The questions copied and pasted:

“Did you live out on your own when you started this process? Or did you still live with your parents? Do you think that made a difference if you still lived at home? And if you were out on your own, how did you pay all your bills for the time you were jobless? Until your business started generating income to live off of.”

Enjoy this video where I answer these questions and I will talk to you about the Common Denominators I mentioned above..

I’ll copy / paste the blog post that inspired the questions just because it’s a great blog post and always inspires someone to tell me they are inspired to take action on their dreams:

Once and a while someone who reads some of my blogs about how I bought my house in cash and get to travel BITCHED AT ME because “not everyone can be lucky like you, Tom”.

Here is what always annoys me when someone makes the “luck” statement about me vs. them…

I started my process of being able to do these things when I had no job, no income, no unemployment benefits, no free time, no energy, no resources, no tools, straight Ds in Grade School Special Ed Classes, I rode the “short buts”, No skills, No good experience..

I did not have luck on my side.

Here’s the difference..

I stopped being lazy about my problems and started to figure stuff out.

It wasn’t having things that made the difference because I didn’t have things.

I don’t have the background or a lotto ticket.

I didnt have income, time, or skill so I figured out how to come up with income, time, and learn new skills.

I worked on these things not once and a while, but 7 days a week until I emerged a free human being WITHOUT a Job.

I wanted financial freedom because it’s the one thing that affects all other things.

Financial freedom is Time freedom.

I choose teachers over television.
I chose to invest rather than spend.
I chose veggies over cake most of the time.
I teach as I learn so you take action with me.
I drink my superfoods shake daily.

Now that I’m a free human being I choose to travel instead of have a job, be free of consumer debt, own my house so I have no mortgage and no rent, I fired my boss, I LOVE teaching stuff in my videos and blogs, I love creating my own random adventures and being a Free Spirit without shackles to the dollar.

This doesn’t have to be what healthy and FREEDOM looks like for you… but don’t lessen my hard work to make yourself feel better.

I can do things physically people half my age can’t do and I’m more free with my time than people twice my age and I plan to keep showing up to show YOU what’s possible to inspire You who wants to take action.

When you say, “I can’t _____ because xyz” what you’re really saying is “I lack the creativity and ingenuity to figure stuff out”.

Remember to look at how far you’ve come and build on that!

Learn some new skills from the right teachers and mentors and take action on what you learn.

Find out what most people are doing, how they think, how they make excuses, how they spend their time and money, how they say NO to opportunity and YES to being Wage Slaves, and DO THE EXACT OPPOSITE.

If you’re sincerely interested in what I did to create health and freedom feel free to facebook inbox me.

Share if you’d like.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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I like Oprah, but, I would not vote for her to be president and here is why

We have no idea what she stands for on policy specifics! We only know she is a nice lady who is for good things and against bad things. Where does she stand on Private money in politics? On medicare for all? On ending the wars? On a new new deal with a green tech revolution? On ending the drug war? On POLICIES that actually affect our lives? WE HAVE NO IDEA. Does she even know about things like the Deep state? Glass steagall? About our drone strike program that 90% of the time kills innocent people? Most americans don’t know these things but they effect Everything in various ways.

Our culture is mentally challenged when it comes to the currency we give toward celebrity status.

I think Oprah is a wonderful lady so I’m not putting her down. I’m saying I wish the average person in this country would become more interested in POLICY SPECIFICS and other things that actually affect us. From there we can have disagreements and agreements and we can move toward a more perfect union for real.

Oprah isn’t the only celebrity being floated for president. There are quite a few others and we have no idea where ANY of them stand on any policy specifics. Politicians aren’t screwing over the country we are doing that ourselves we really are. Let’s draw a line in the sand and become interested in policy specifics so we can DESERVE a congress that actually represents us =)

Feel free to chime in… Any personal attacks against anyone I will most likely delete so be MATURE passionate adults please.

We have just one party creating an illusion of two parties. Dems and Repubs have MOST of the same donors so they are working for most of the same people. We have a system of legalized bribery. They don’t represent us. YOU cannot compete with their Billion dollar donors so naturally they are not going to represent you. Get all the private money OUT so we can have a functioning Representative democracy. Where is oprah on this issue? And all other policy specifics? The one party we have is the MONEY party. The money party created the illusion of Dems vs republicans. I LOVE making money but it should not be in our politics. If you don’t create opportunity for yourself then you are screwed. That’s one big reason I’m harping on creating your own passive and residual money and getting out from underneath depending on a job to pay bills and eat. Having a job to depend on for money is the single most self sabotaging thing people do and ALMOST everyone does it. Few will draw a line in the sand and start LEARNING how to get out from underneath their pyramid scam nonsense.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Boobs and Brains

The question is, what turns you on the most? Discuss below after reading my entire rationale behind my answer.

The “Brains” part of the answer represents the macro picture of how she thinks, how she feels inside, how she expresses herself, and over all the non physical part of her being. What a POWERFUL connection it can be with another human being to have a beautiful connection of the non physical minds.

The “Boobs” part of the answer represents the macro picture of how she appears physically. I love the whole physical body but I’ve always been particularly infatuated with womens beautiful breasts so I chose “Boobs” in reference to her whole physical body. Boobs, in my opinion, are an ultimate physical sign of femininity and nurturing.

Some people dismiss the physical and only give mind to the non physical in an effort to claim a moral high ground. In my opinion this does not make any sense to ignore either the physical or non physical because in this experience of life on earth there is a relationship between the physical and the non physical. Between the soul and the body. Between metaphysical and empirical. This is true in everything not just in people. So knowing about these relationships between the physical and non physical I want to enjoy both individually and together at the same time. In the next life we shed the physical for only the non physical so it will be different. But as for now in this experience I EMBRACE my love for both BOOBS AND BRAINS and I feel GREAT about that.

To take it one step further.. There is something magical like when there is a certain kind of non physical chemistry, that is, she becomes more physically beautiful than I originally thought because the mind connection is so over powering it heightens the physical connection, too. This has only happened once in my life, so far.

Likewise the reverse has happened where the body becomes less attractive the more I learn about her mind.

I love both the mind and the body but for me personally the mind dominates the body even still.

feel free to share this. I think it’s an incredibly interesting topic open for discussion and different points of views.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Cover Yourself and Be Where you Need to be When you Need to be

When I was caring for my dad before he passed on to heaven, and still currently my aging mom, I enjoy telling people I don’t need to worry about my bills and food I am covered because of passive and residual income I created years ago. I can spend time with them, take them to appointments, be there for them as I need and want to me. I get to be where my heart needs to be instead of at a job. I get to do what I want when I want and I don’t have to run it past a gatekeeper at some job where someone else gets to say yes or no.

This kind of FREEDOM is what I wish for you. I want you to emerge at a place in the future where you can be where you need to be when you need to be without having to run a dayum thing by a gatekeeper who has the power over your income and your life to say yes or no.

Passive and residual income is the ultimate form of leveraged income. It’s also the ultimate insurance, the ultimate safety and security, and the ultimate spring board if their are other interesting projects you’ve always dreamed of doing regardless if it pays something or pays nothing at all. Maybe the projects you’ve dreamed of for years costs you money! Maybe it’s charity work. It’s whatever you want it to be. Passive and residual money (leveraged income) is your BEST springboard to make your dreams come true.

Leveraged income is passive and residual income, that is, it’s money that pays you with or without your personal involvement so you can have your time back to do whatever you want with and when you have your time back you have your LIFE back. The opposite of this type of income is ordinary earned income. Ordinary earned income is income you get from your job and MOST self employed people also only have ordinary earned income. The result of this type of income is a severe lack of freedom of time because this type of income requires your personal involvement. Anything that requires your personal involvement requires your time. The moment you clock out you stop getting paid until you clock back in again. If you lose your job, even at no fault of your own, your income turns off for good unless you find another job then it starts all over again with only getting paid when you’re on the clock. For most self employed, they don’t really own a business as much as their business owns them. They can never leave it, take a trip, go on vacation, because if they do they stop getting paid. If they have a person cover for them while they are away this is a low form of leverage because it may not be the same while they are gone and could be more costly for them depending on what happens while they are taking their well deserved break.

I’m going to equip YOU WHO ARE INTERESTED to be able to do that. From here it’s up to you to see it through, follow through, never give up, be a daily self starter CONSISTENTLY including the days you don’t feel like it, and it’s up to you to hold yourself personally responsible for everything including for how you respond to people who break promises and how you respond to any difficult “wrench” life throws at you because all of these undesirables are part of LIFE. It’s not if but when, how often, and how intense the setbacks in their various forms will be.

Life has a funny way of weeding people out who are more like clowns about their goals and dreams, waiting for life to suddenly become easy before they are willing to become successful. They will never become successful. Life will never stop and become easy just so someone can be successful. I’m not pointing fingers. I personally use to have that philosophy of waiting for things to become easy. I swapped that dumb philosophy out for a better one and only then I was able to put myself on a better path that eventually set me free some two and a half years later. Two and a half years may seem like a long time but I was able to do it in my spare time. So will you no matter how much or how little time you have right now so you can have more free time later. Two and a half years to retire richer instead of poorer is the speed of light compared to working over 40 years to retire poorer than richer. I call this the 2 – 5 year plan. Most people fall within that window. Some do it sooner than 2 years and some take longer than 5 years. Even if it takes a person ten years it’s still worth it by far and away. The better you get at learning leveraged income the more quickly you can emerge at a point in the future where you can have the option of walking away from your job or any ordinary earned income all together and that is the goal! Thats the goal that affects all other goals and dreams.

How many more of the things you’d rather be doing would you be able to do if you could clone yourself not once, or twice, but as many times as you wanted to clone yourself? What would you be able to do? How would life look? How would that feel? Who’d benefit with you with that kind of freedom?

The difficulty for everyone, including myself when I first started, is we are addicted to a paycheck. We put in time we expect a paycheck. We’ve been conditioned to expect an automatic paycheck our entire lives through our schools, media, politicians, 98% of our environment is one big brain washing machine designed to keep us chained and shackled to the dollar. Most people cannot handle another way and will quit if they don’t see an immediate paycheck for their efforts. It’s all part of our social programming because our society wants obedient unquestionable workers.

Free thinking people will break that terrible social conditioning. That’s who I like working with. Free thinking people open to a better way than being chained and shackled obediently to the dollar.

Through consistently and sharpening your skills and personal philosophy you will start getting paid leveraged income. It will start small. You will do all kinds of things you won’t get paid for. As you SEE THIS THROUGH you can begin getting paid large amounts of money for what you started, nutured, and grew in the past.

Imagine starting something new with an intrinsic fire in your belly to LEARN SOMETHING NEW and it generates passive residual leveraged income for the rest of your life. You never have to be chained and shackled to the dollar ever again. Can you imagine how that could change your life? Can you imagine how you’d spend the TIME FREEDOM that would open up for you because all your bills and all your expenses of all kinds are covered now?

If you’re at all interested feel free to pm me.

If you want to learn something new and something better than you’ve learned in the past feel free to fb inbox me.

Share this if you’d like.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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You Save a Little at the Cost of Everything – This Self Sabotaging Behavior Needs to Stop

Dear most people,

What are you saving a little bit of money on that costed someone else their job?

Automation is replacing peoples jobs.

Who is behind this?

It’s not really the companies doing this.

It’s you.

What services and products produced by automation do you willfully spend your money on?

How self sabotaging and dumb are we if we still believe saving a little bit doesn’t cost us everything?

Most of all.. How obnoxious and Self-Absorbed do we have to be to continue our race to the bottom?

Jobs have been coming back to America for several years now.

They aren’t going to people they are going to computers because you stupidly demand it by where you willfully spend your money.

The number 1 marketing tool companies have is willful consumer ignorance.

You won’t hear that from them because it’s too brazen for them to refer to you as willfully ignorant consumers.

An endless supply of willfully ignorant consumers drives corruption and income inequality.

Companies are only responding to what you’ve demanded from them by how you spend your money.

By how you spend your money you demand less good paying jobs, more children sweat shops, more factory farming, more chronic disease, more chronic debt, you even demand that professional criminals have more at the expense of you having less.

Dear most people: Isn’t it time to be less self absorbed, have more regard for others, make amends for all of the people you’ve ripped off including your own family, and become a better person from here?

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Smart People do Stupid Things Also..

..like depending on a job to pay bills and eat =) How Dumb and Risky..

This doesn’t say you’re stupid if you’re needy for job money to eat and live. It says otherwise smart people do very dumb obedient things such as shackling themselves to the dollar with no plans to unshackle themselves from the dollar. Depending on a job to eat and pay bills is the single dumbest thing people do and it’s so normalized that 98% of our population does it 🙂

People on the full spectrum of intelligence do this. Smart, dumb, and everyone in between couples their time to a paycheck with no plan to decouple. It’s by Far and Away the riskiest, most unintelligent, and common nonsensical thing people do everyday. People sell their time along with their mind, their body, and their soul for a paycheck; allowing themselves to be controlled and manipulated by the dependency of money to pay their bills and eat.

If you’re currently a well-conditioned, well-behaved employee, your most likely reaction to the above will be defensiveness. It’s all part of the conditioning. But consider that if the above didn’t have a grain of truth to it, you wouldn’t have an emotional reaction at all. This is only a reminder of what you already know. You can deny your cage all you want, but the cage is still there. Perhaps this all happened so gradually that you never noticed it until now… like a lobster enjoying a nice warm bath.

If any of this makes you mad, that’s a step in the right direction. Anger is a higher level of consciousness than apathy, so it’s a lot better than being numb all the time. Any emotion — even confusion — is better than apathy. If you work through your feelings instead of repressing them, you’ll soon emerge on the doorstep of courage. And when that happens, you’ll have the will to actually do something about your situation and start living like the powerful human being you were meant to be instead of the domesticated pet you’ve been trained to be.

Don’t confuse this for an anti job message because it is not. Don’t confuse this for an anti hard work and dedication message because that most certainly it is not.

Love of hard work and dedication is a wonderfully positive moral character trait and is different than a job which is a preconceived notion commonly confused with work.

A JOB gives you an illusion of safety. Hard work is the actions that you partake in to continue your physical, emotional, spiritual and mental development. A JOB is external, hard work is an internal character trait.

Depending on a job for a paycheck, and ANY self-employment experience where your time is still coupled to your paycheck, are the shackles worth freeing yourself from so you can spend your time however you wish at your own permission rather than at the permission of a gatekeeper who dangles your ability to pay your bills and eat in front of you.

If you value freedom and being a free spirit then the only value a job could hold for you is the satisfaction of the work that you do, however, the neediness in a job to eat and pay bills is still the single DUMBEST thing people do. A job is cool when it’s optional. When you NEED that job to eat and pay bills it’s a human domestication program to keep you in line because without it you’d starve and not be able to afford your bills.

Job money robs you of your time and shackles you to control and manipulation through money dependency to pay bills and eat.

Passive and Residual money buys you your time back and unshackles you from dependency so you can spend your time however you want.

It’s funny that when people reach a certain age, such as after graduating college, they assume it’s time to go out and get a job.

But like many things the masses do, just because everyone does it doesn’t mean it’s a good idea. In fact, if you’re reasonably intelligent, getting a job is one of the worst things you can do to support yourself. There are far better ways to make a living than selling yourself into indentured servitude.

Here are some reasons you should do everything in your power to avoid getting a job:

1. Income for dummies.

Getting a job and trading your time for money may seem like a good idea. There’s only one problem with it. It’s stupid! It’s the stupidest way you can possibly generate income! This is truly income for dummies.

Why is getting a job so dumb?

Because you only get paid when you’re working. Don’t you see a problem with that, or have you been so thoroughly brainwashed into thinking it’s reasonable and intelligent to only earn income when you’re working? Have you never considered that it might be better to be paid even when you’re not working? Who taught you that you could only earn income while working? Some other brainwashed employee perhaps?

Don’t you think your life would be much easier if you got paid while you were eating, sleeping, and playing with the kids too? Why not get paid 24/7? Get paid whether you work or not. Don’t your plants grow even when you aren’t tending to them? Why not your bank account?

Who cares how many hours you work?

Only a handful of people on this entire planet care how much time you spend at the office. Most of us won’t even notice whether you work 6 hours a week or 60. But if you have something of value to provide that matters to us, a number of us will be happy to pull out our wallets and pay you for it. We don’t care about your time — we only care enough to pay for the value we receive. Do you really care how long it took me to write this article? Would you pay me twice as much if it took me 6 hours vs. only 3?

Non-dummies often start out on the traditional income for dummies path. So don’t feel bad if you’re just now realizing you’ve been suckered. Non-dummies eventually realize that trading time for money is indeed extremely dumb and that there must be a better way. And of course there is a better way. The key is to de-couple your value from your time.

Smart people build systems that generate income 24/7, especially passive income. Once it’s in motion, it runs continuously whether you tend to it or not. From that moment on, the bulk of your time can be invested in increasing your income (by refining your system or spawning new ones) instead of merely maintaining your income.

Once you get going, you won’t have to work so many hours to support yourself. Wouldn’t it be nice to be out having dinner with your spouse, knowing that while you’re eating, you’re earning money? If you want to keep working long hours because you enjoy it, go right ahead. If you want to sit around doing nothing, feel free. As long as your system continues delivering value to others, you’ll keep getting paid whether you’re working or not.

Nobody is born knowing how to start a business or generate investment income, but you can easily learn it. How long it takes you to figure it out is irrelevant because the time is going to pass anyway. You might as well emerge at some future point as the owner of income-generating systems as opposed to a lifelong wage slave. This isn’t all or nothing. If your system only generates a few hundred dollars a month, that’s a significant step in the right direction.

2. Limited experience.

You might think it’s important to get a job to gain experience. But that’s like saying you should play golf to get experience playing golf. You gain experience from living, regardless of whether you have a job or not. A job only gives you experience at that job, but you gain ”experience” doing just about anything, so that’s no real benefit at all. Sit around doing nothing for a couple years, and you can call yourself an experienced meditator, philosopher, or politician.

The problem with getting experience from a job is that you usually just repeat the same limited experience over and over. You learn a lot in the beginning and then stagnate. This forces you to miss other experiences that would be much more valuable. And if your limited skill set ever becomes obsolete, then your experience won’t be worth squat. In fact, ask yourself what the experience you’re gaining right now will be worth in 20-30 years. Will your job even exist then?

Consider this. Which experience would you rather gain? The knowledge of how to do a specific job really well — one that you can only monetize by trading your time for money – or the knowledge of how to enjoy financial abundance for the rest of your life without ever needing a job again? Now I don’t know about you, but I’d rather have the latter experience. That seems a lot more useful in the real world, wouldn’t you say?

3. Lifelong domestication.

Getting a job is like enrolling in a human domestication program. You learn how to be a good pet.

Look around you. Really look. What do you see? Are these the surroundings of a free human being? Or are you living in a cage for unconscious animals? Have you fallen in love with the color beige?

How’s your obedience training coming along? Does your master reward your good behavior? Do you get disciplined if you fail to obey your master’s commands?

Is there any spark of free will left inside you? Or has your conditioning made you a pet for life?

Humans are not meant to be raised in cages. You poor thing…

4. Too many mouths to feed.

Employee income is the most heavily taxed there is. In the USA you can expect that about half your salary will go to taxes. The tax system is designed to disguise how much you’re really giving up because some of those taxes are paid by your employer, and some are deducted from your paycheck. But you can bet that from your employer’s perspective, all of those taxes are

considered part of your pay, as well as any other compensation you receive such as benefits. Even the rent for the office space you consume is considered, so you must generate that much more value to cover it. You might feel supported by your corporate environment, but keep in mind that you’re the one paying for it.

Another chunk of your income goes to owners and investors. That’s a lot of mouths to feed.

It isn’t hard to understand why employees pay the most in taxes relative to their income. After all, who has more control over the tax system? Business owners and investors or employees?

You only get paid a fraction of the real value you generate. Your real salary may be more than triple what you’re paid, but most of that money you’ll never see. It goes straight into other people’s pockets.

What a generous person you are!

5. Way too risky.

Many employees believe getting a job is the safest and most secure way to support themselves.

Morons.

Social conditioning is amazing. It’s so good it can even make people believe the exact opposite of the truth.

Does putting yourself in a position where someone else can turn off all your income just by saying two words (“You’re fired”) sound like a safe and secure situation to you? Does having only one income stream honestly sound more secure than having 10?

The idea that a job is the most secure way to generate income is just silly. You can’t have security if you don’t have control, and employees have the least control of anyone. If you’re an employee, then your real job title should be professional gambler.

6. Having an evil bovine master.

When you run into an idiot in the entrepreneurial world, you can turn around and head the other way. When you run into an idiot in the corporate world, you have to turn around and say, “Sorry, boss.”

Did you know that the word boss comes from the Dutch word baas, which historically means master? Another meaning of the word boss is “a cow or bovine.” And in many video games, the boss is the evil dude that you have to kill at the end of a level.

So if your boss is really your evil bovine master, then what does that make you? Nothing but a turd in the herd.

Who’s your daddy?

7. Begging for money.

When you want to increase your income, do you have to sit up and beg your master for more money? Does it feel good to be thrown some extra Scooby Snacks now and then?

Or are you free to decide how much you get paid without needing anyone’s permission but your own?

If you have a business and one customer says “no” to you, you simply say “next.”

8. An inbred social life.

Many people treat their jobs as their primary social outlet. They hang out with the same people working in the same field. Such incestuous relations are social dead ends. An exciting day includes deep conversations about the company’s switch from Sparkletts to Arrowhead, the delay of Microsoft’s latest operating system, and the unexpected delivery of more Bic pens. Consider what it would be like to go outside and talk to strangers. Ooooh… scary! Better stay inside where it’s safe.

If one of your co-slaves gets sold to another master, do you lose a friend? If you work in a male-dominated field, does that mean you never get to talk to women above the rank of receptionist? Why not decide for yourself whom to socialize with instead of letting your master decide for you? Believe it or not, there are locations on this planet where free people congregate. Just be wary of those jobless folk — they’re a crazy bunch!

9. Loss of freedom.

It takes a lot of effort to tame a human being into an employee. The first thing you have to do is break the human’s independent will. A good way to do this is to give them a weighty policy manual filled with nonsensical rules and regulations. This leads the new employee to become more obedient, fearing that s/he could be disciplined at any minute for something incomprehensible. Thus, the employee will likely conclude it’s safest to simply obey the master’s commands without question. Stir in some office politics for good measure, and we’ve got a freshly minted mind slave.

As part of their obedience training, employees must be taught how to dress, talk, move, and so on. We can’t very well have employees thinking for themselves, now can we? That would ruin everything.

God forbid you should put a plant on your desk when it’s against the company policy. Oh no, it’s the end of the world! Cindy has a plant on her desk! Summon the enforcers! Send Cindy back for another round of sterility training!

Free human beings think such rules and regulations are silly of course. The only policy they need is: “Be smart. Be nice. Do what you love. Have fun.”

10. Becoming a coward.

Have you noticed that employed people have an almost endless capacity to whine about problems at their companies? But they don’t really want solutions – they just want to vent and make excuses why it’s all someone else’s fault. It’s as if getting a job somehow drains all the free will out of people and turns them into spineless cowards. If you can’t call your boss a jerk now and then without fear of getting fired, you’re no longer free. You’ve become your master’s property.

When you work around cowards all day long, don’t you think it’s going to rub off on you? Of course it will. It’s only a matter of time before you sacrifice the noblest parts of your humanity on the altar of fear: first courage… then honesty… then honor and integrity… and finally your independent will. You sold your humanity for nothing but an illusion. And now your greatest fear is discovering the truth of what you’ve become.

I don’t care how badly you’ve been beaten down. It is never too late to regain your courage. Never!

Still want a job?

If you’re currently a well-conditioned, well-behaved employee, your most likely reaction to the above will be defensiveness. It’s all part of the conditioning. But consider that if the above didn’t have a grain of truth to it, you wouldn’t have an emotional reaction at all. This is only a reminder of what you already know. You can deny your cage all you want, but the cage is still there. Perhaps this all happened so gradually that you never noticed it until now… like a lobster enjoying a nice warm bath.

If any of this makes you mad, that’s a step in the right direction. Anger is a higher level of consciousness than apathy, so it’s a lot better than being numb all the time. Any emotion — even confusion — is better than apathy. If you work through your feelings instead of repressing them, you’ll soon emerge on the doorstep of courage. And when that happens, you’ll have the will to actually do something about your situation and start living like the powerful human being you were meant to be instead of the domesticated pet you’ve been trained to be.

Happily jobless

What’s the alternative to getting a job? The alternative is to remain happily jobless for life and to generate income through other means. Realize that you earn income by providing value — not time – so find a way to provide your best value to others, and charge a fair price for it. One of the simplest and most accessible ways is to start your own business. Whatever work you’d otherwise do via employment, find a way to provide that same value directly to those who will benefit most from it. It takes a bit more time to get going, but your freedom is easily worth the initial investment of time and energy. Then you can buy your own Scooby Snacks for a change.

And of course everything you learn along the way, you can share with others to generate even more value. So even your mistakes can be monetized.

One of the greatest fears you’ll confront is that you may not have any real value to offer others. Maybe being an employee and getting paid by the hour is the best you can do. Maybe you just aren’t worth that much. That line of thinking is all just part of your conditioning. It’s absolute nonsense. As you begin to dump such brainwashing, you’ll soon recognize that you have the ability to provide enormous value to others and that people will gladly pay you for it. There’s only one thing that prevents you from seeing this truth — fear.

All you really need is the courage to be yourself. Your real value is rooted in who you are, not what you do. The only thing you need actually do is express your real self to the world. You’ve been told all sort of lies as to why you can’t do that. But you’ll never know true happiness and fulfillment until you summon the courage to do it anyway.

The next time someone says to you, “Get a job,” I suggest you reply as Curly did: ”No, please… not that! Anything but that!” Then poke him right in the eyes.

You already know deep down that getting a job isn’t what you want. So don’t let anyone try to tell you otherwise. Learn to trust your inner wisdom, even if the whole world says you’re wrong and foolish for doing so. Years from now you’ll look back and realize it was one of the best decisions you ever made.

The ten reasons I got from Steve Pavlina I hope you enjoyed it.

While I wouldn’t recommend starting an online business for anyone who does not hunger for learning, for everyone else who does hunger for learning it’s the best way to generate income without a job. It has certainly worked disgustingly well for me.

If you’re interested in learning more about this option please private message me.

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-Tom

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How to avoid the one thing that is worse than failure.

There is one thing that is worse than failure and one way to prevent this one thing that is worse than failure.

The one thing worse than failure is quitting.

Quitting makes failure permanent where you didn’t learn a darn thing from it.

How do you avoid quitting?

NEVER under any circumstances give up, ever.

Here is how it works.. and this is what I practice all the time.. I’ll try something that I want to do that’s important to me and I’ll fail. Then I’ll try again with whatever lesson I learned from the previous effort without wasting any time and I’ll fail again. Repeat that over and over again and I’ll keep going.

Most people can only take so much of that and they don’t learn a god blessed thing from it so they quit.

We have a bunch of quitters and non starters in our world.

very few people see stuff through.

There are even some people that want to avoid failure at all costs which actually costs them everything so the logic behind that is really stupid but it’s the logic some people engage in regularly and they wonder why they never really get anywhere.

Failure is priceless for the person who learns how to monetize failure and uses all failures as stepping stones so now failure is just feedback.

The only way it’s permanent is if you quit. To avoid being a quitter just never give up. Failures and successes are just a serious of perpetual feedback loops.

Now we can look at failure as a good thing!

A wise person will say, “I need to get started yesterday, second best time is today because yesterday is done. Procrastination is the corner stone of all poverties so I need to get started FAST and I need to fail as fast as I can and as big as I can because that’s going to be my ultimate teacher.”

Reading books and so on is great and that can certainly speed up the process and even become the short cut just by leveraging other peoples intellectual acuity of having been there done that now they want to teach you who are hungry to learn.

The ultimate teacher even beyond that is going to be when you fail. The real life experience because that’s going to be your ultimate feedback loop.

Then you loop over and over again until at last you’ve achieved victory and you did it by failing your way to the top!

What a concept!

Fail your way to the top!

You always know when a person is going to see something through all the way because they are never saying things like I don’t have any time even if its totally true. They have the approach of I have to figure this out! I have no time? No money? No skills? No whatever? Just stuff I have to figure out.

Likewise you always know a non starter or a Quitter when you hear someone use those same facts of their own scenario as justification as to why they can’t start, or why they have to quit if they did start. These people are not looking at their problems as just stuff they have to figure out so they are the non starters and the quitters.

Fail at figuring it out until you succeed!

Some people use their kids as a crutch to be a non starter or quitter.

I’ve talked to parents who decided to bring their kids with them on the journey and show them how life really works so that they get inspired to decide that their dreams are worth putting in the hard work and the temporary failures to make their dreams come true.

Some kids sadly grow up in a house of non starters and quitters and are more likely to repeat the cycle with their kids down through the generations. Some kids break the cycle and start a new BETTER pattern with their kids. Some kids are used as a crutch. Some kids are inspired by a reason.

I’m not a parent but I talk to them and I observe with intrinsic interest.

The parents who see things through NEVER use their kids as a crutch it would break their heard to put their kid through that because a child knows when they’re being used as the reason why mom or dad is a quitter and that is repeated by their kids more often than not purely by example.

The parents I talk to who see stuff through enjoy being honest with the kids and showing them that their dreams are worth the hard work and temporary set backs and failures to make their dreams come true and then that much better pattern more often than not gets duplicated in their own childs lives.

One pattern dictates success and the other pattern dictates quitting.

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Click the love bottom because when there is a like button next to the lvoe button then the like button becomes kind of anemic and impotent. Add your wisdom to this post in reply! If you’ve got something you want to share I’d love to read about it.

-Tom

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Wanna ask some really great questions with me?

Some questions are really dumb because they don’t really help you find any solutions or solve any problems while other questions are the most intelligent questions because they unleash the power of your creative processes in your brain to figure stuff out.

I’m going to give you two big examples of these types of scenarios and maybe it might help you solve some of your problems and make some breakthroughs.

A very different way of framing questions that can help us come up with better answers than in the past..

The first example I’m going to give you is health! Draw parallels to whatever is true for you and whatever is going on in your life.

A lot of people want to lose weight, or, release weight from fat as I like to say.

A common bad question people ask is, “why am I so fat?” You might answer with because I’m a pig, I’m a slob, I’m lazy, I sit on my butt all day long, I eat like poo all the time etc.. you’re going to come up with all these reasons which you know might be true to an extent but they don’t help you solve any problems. In fact, it might make you feel worse about yourself and then you’re probably going to be less likely to do anything about it.

Here’s a middle of the road example, or a worse question or even a more dangerous question that somebody could ask themselves. “What do I need to do to lose some weight?” So why do I say that question could possibly lead to a dangerous answer and outcome or it could be helpful it could go either way? Because the answer to that question in and of itself could be a starvation diet where you destroy your health.

Anybody can lose weight and be an unhealthier skinnier flabbier version of their former self with sore joints and so forth.

An intelligent question that somebody could ask themselves internally and out and about as you’re looking for answers, “What can I do to increase my health, build up my immune system and my natural healers, my natural defenses so that the release of fat is a natural byproduct of getting healthier. So that the release of weight from fat is a symptom of getting healthier!” hmmm well now you’re going to unleash the creative processes of your human brain to go down that beautiful path and figure that out so you’re not doing something dangerous to yourself or other people around you.

You’re going to get healthy and release weight from fat the right way, by getting healthy.

The other example I’m going to give you is about money.

A lot of people are dirt poor. A lot more aren’t dirt poor but one emergency away from being completely destroyed. The overwhelming majority of people are sick and tired of their time being strapped to their paycheck.

The bad unintelligent question otherwise smart people ask is, “Why don’t I have enough money? Why am I still living paycheck to paycheck after working so hard for so long? Why can’t I provide more for my family?” Those questions could lead to answers that don’t really hep you find answers and maybe make you feel worse about yourself making you less likely to do anything about it because they answer you answer with could be, “because I’m stupid, I stink with money, I don’t know what to do or what I’m doing, because I’m lazy etc”.

You could also answer those types of bad questions with excuses like, “because the economy is bad, politicians are liars and slant the system against me, my boss is a jerk and doesn’t pay me what im worth, somebody broke a promise, its not my fault etc” so now it’s everything other than your responsibility because these are excuses and a lot of people do that. Im not pointing any fingers I have to watch myself from doing that, too!

Whatever the case, you’re not going to come up with any solutions with bad questions and answers like that so don’t frame questions that way.

Here is a step above that, or below, it could go either way. You could ask yourself, “What can I do to make better money? How can I make more money?” In and of itself if you just take that question at face value this is going to be a reflection of your moral character.

The answer could be, “I’ll rip people off. I could rob a bank. I could steal. I could lie. I could cheat. I could deceive. I could bait and switch. I could Trojan horse. ” You could get more money by hurting people and yourself.

Here is a highly intelligent way to frame this question, “What can I do to make more money as a direct result of adding value to other peoples lives so that other people are benefiting and that’s going to result in me making more money?” And to step it up with even more intelligence frame it this way, “What can I do to make residual and passive money so that I can decouple my time from my paycheck and become a free human being but in a way that is a direct result of providing some kind of benefit, some value, some helpl for people solving problems helping people do this in some way shape or form?”

Can you imagine what the world would look like? How much better it would be and just flat out not just different but superior it would be than what we have today?

If everyone were asking that question and framing it that way as to how they’re gonna make their money, if everyone did that there would be no more lying, no more deception, no more cheating, no more stealing, no more bait and switch, no more Trojan horses, no more sleazy scummy salespeople and corruption etc. All corruption in politics and in big business would be gone if every one of you thought that way.

I’m not naive enough to think that’s ever going to happen but certainly if I can make a post like this and maybe plant a few seeds, have people thinking about it, and people sharing this and maybe this message goes viral, people start looking at it that way instead of how can I make more money but now people are going to ask what can I do to add a benefit to the world, the planet, to other creatures and have that result in making more residual and passive money so I can become a free human being.. OMG that’s a game changer!

I can’t think of a more intelligent and considered way to frame that question of how can I fix my financial situation.

Imagine if you gave up all negative energy you hold toward money.

Now you have a positive energy toward money because now it’s linked inexplicably so to benefiting the planet, the environment, to other people and other creatures that we share this planet with.

Now it’s a positive energy about money you hold so now you can go out there and do it!

Imagine if you proclaimed out loud and proud, “I’m going to tell the world I want to make as much money as possible throughout the course of my life as much as possible as a direct result of solving problems, adding a benefit, adding value, helping X Y & Z because that’s how money should be created! I’m going to bring as many people with me in health and in wealth and overall betterment so that we all benefit together not at the expense of other people or at the expense of the environment or at the expense of other creatures that we share the planet with! I’m going to make lots of money! I’m gonna get downright rich in every way possible. Not at the expense of my personal life or the expense of other people or other peoples freedoms. That’s how I’m going to get rich and make as much money as I can by bring as many people with me because who ever said it’s lonely at the top is a dangerous fool!”

Goodbye corruption in politics and big business and everywhere else for that matter. If enough people take on that attitude and are very out loud about it we can crush this sentiment that exists where a lot of people have a very negative energy about money.

We wonder why it’s mostly the criminals of the world who have control of most of the money supply.

It’s because there’s too many otherwise good people that have a negative energy attachment towards it.

Let’s change that!

That’s the umbrella that is over every other issue. That’s the umbrella issue that affects all other issues so that’s what we need to do.

If this post makes sense to you, I’m sure it does because you’re all intelligent people, please share this. Like it. Love it. Comment on it.Actually, when there is a love buttom next to a like button and you click like that’s pretty anemic and impotent so smash the love button, comment, share.

-Tom

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An MD says diet doesn’t really have anything to do with inflammation and arthritis.

Me: What’s the cause of so much arthritis and cartilage deterioration?

Md: The cause is how she walks, weight gain, how she gets around etc.

Me: diet, dairy..

Md: diet doesn’t really have anything to do with inflammation and arthritis.

Me: I’ve met at least 200 people over the years who’ve healed themselves of arthritis and inflammation by eating more plants and cutting out Dairy.

Md: well, from eating more plants and less Dairy they would have experienced weight loss which would have led to their recovery from inflammation and arthritis.

Me: they put out the fires within 48 Hours some of them within the first day so I know it wasn’t weight loss it seems like it was eating more plants and cutting Dairy out. When people go to the medical community they are not told about what eating more plants and no Dairy can do for them and it makes me so sad.

Md: unfortunately most people will not follow dietary changes they just want whatever is convenient simple and fast and nine out of 10 people would not follow the diet advice anyway.

Me: so why not let them know about it anyway and afford them the option of choice so they can decide one way or the other. People should just know and then it’s up to them what they want to do with the information and I wish the medical community would respectfully do that.

This is a real conversation recently between myself and a medical doctor about if diet really does affect inflammation and arthritis. I couldn’t let this go but I was respectful and polite about it and this doctor really sincerely does want to help. It would be so wonderful if everyone had conversations like this with their doctors. It could significantly increase the quality of care and the outcomes of the medical profession.

Please share this. Everyone should know this.

-Tom

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Parents: You don’t believe your kids want to be used as crutches for you to quit your dreams do you?

I.e.”I don’t have time to take care of myself and take care of my dreams and promises I have to spend that time focusing on my kids etc”

I’m not a parent but I talk to them. I talk to a LOT of people because I want to understand beyond the scope of ONLY the shoes I happen to fill. My friend Lisa, who is a mom, is very wise. I wanted to share a parents perspective in case you happen to be struggling with this in raising your own kids. Just maybe this can help you and your family..

Asema Lisa – “I don’t have a 6 pack, although I would LOVE to. What I do have is a very unmotivated 15 year old. He drives me absolutely nuts because he seems to have no drive to do anything. As soon as something he wants turns into something he has to work for, he quits it. I’ve been racking my brain and have tried everything from rewards, to threats, to pleading for him to work for something. I mention all this because after training 3 days a week with my group and doing the Diva Dash this weekend, my son has taken an interest in something. He wants to do a 5k obstacle course with me, and he’s willing to WORK for it. I think the quality time issue here is null and void, because he is now asking to spend more quality time with me because he has seen my hard work and perseverance pay off. I have taught him more by taking care of myself than by focusing solely on him.”

A very big THANK YOU to Lisa for giving me permission to publish this Beautiful Valuable Wisdom in my Blog. We hope it helps!

-Tom

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Republican or Democrat you’re all full of poo

War… It’s the one thing that makes our political Donors happier than anything else because it makes trillions of dollars.

I may delete this entire thread after posting it. WE shall see =)

We have a president who promised to “drain the swamp” and “I can’t be bought” who ended up taking Donor money just like the rest, and does their bidding, just as the rest. Our president, just like congress, takes legalized bribery and is completely bought and paid for.

We have a president and a congress on both the left and right who does not represent you or me.

Republican or democrat you’re all full of poo.

They do not represent you or I but you still vote for them.

They represent their donors not you so stop voting for them it’s obnoxiously self sabotaging.

YOU have to pay for socialism to the rich and powerful donors.

Our president is full of socialism but only for their donors not for you. YOU have to suffer losses, and if you gain you have to pay taxes… Otherwise how will they fund socialism for their donors??? You are saddled with that burden.

Our president railed against double standards. There is an economic double standard against you because you did not contribute a million dollors to the political class!

Our president railed against wealth redistribution while sponsoring legislation that redistributes wealth at a higher dollar than ALL presidents past.

Why?

Because he is bought and paid for like all the rest.

We need to get all private money Out of politics. We cannot have honorable agreements or disagreements with any of them so long as they are on the take they have a conflict of interest that would be illegal anywhere else except for in politics.

We cannot have a representative government so long as their is private money in politics.

If you’re on the left, or the right, it does matter to get the private money OUT of politics.

-Tom

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Snobbery is Good; Sometimes

There is one particular form of snobbery that could actually save your life and inspire others to save their life, too.

Let me explain…

I’m going to use two examples.

1.) Food.

I consider myself a food snob. You might be like, “I don’t wanna be one of those”.  Just maybe, yes, yes you do want to be a food snob without demeaning other people. Let me share why…

If you’re a food snob you’re gonna care about what you put into your body. You’re going to make informed decisions instead of just going along with whatever you’ve been programmed.  You’re not likely to be an obedient consumer that’s going to make drug private health insurance companies lots of money.  You’re not likely going to make very evil crooked corrupt people rich at the expense of yourself so they can have more while you have less.

So pay attention to what you eat.

Instead of the deep fried double wide have immune boosting food. Have your anti-inflammatory food. Have your plant based whole foods and your natural GMO free food.

Why?

Because you’re gonna FEEL better. You’re gonna BE better. You’re gonna LIVE better and you’re not gonna be a sucker for the drug and private health insurance companies anymore.

You’re not gonna be a sucker for people that make their living and their extreme riches at the sheer willful ignorance of their consumers.

I’m not going to be that person either.

I’m not any better than anybody else however my actions I believe are far better than the actions of most people.

You’re better than a deep-fried double wide greasy whatever.

You’re better than that behavior.

You’re not better than the people who engage in that behavior. You’re just better than that behavior and it’s worth it.

By the way when you become a food snob, an extra added benefit is that you get to elevate your taste buds. You actually get to enjoy food more not less. It’s a common misconception that people who eat healthier don’t enjoy their food as much. No, you get to enjoy food more not less.

2.) Money.

I’m a money snob, too.

Did you know that if you have more money you can give more?

Did you know that there’s going to be tens of thousands of people that are going to die this year because they don’t have frickin food and healthy drinking water?

Can you believe that crap?

Did you know that money could save their lives by getting them those things that they need?

Did you know that?

Did you know that there are certain kinds of income types that most people have no clue about because it’s not taught in school or in media?

There is ordinary earned income which you’re already familiar with because it’s the only one taught in school.  Ordinary earned income is job or self employed income that enslaves all of it’s participants to the dollar.

There is another type of income that is opposite of the ordinary earned income nonsense.

It’s called PASSIVE and RESIDUAL money and it’s not just different it’s flat out superior vs the inferior ordinary earned income.

Passive and residual income can release somebody entirely from being attached to money so that one could live free in real security and stability for their family without ripping themselves off everyday by working out of neediness for a paycheck.

Did you know that those income types exist?

I do.

I learned about it.

I became an absolute money snob when I learned about it.

I’m better than ordinary earned income.

YOU are better than ordinary earned income.

It’s “ordinary” because it’s common and you can’t de-couple your time from it or you lose your ability to pay bills and eat.  That’s so risky and unstable that all job titles should be changed to, “professional gambler”.

You are not better anyone else.

I’m not better than anyone else.

There is a nuance to be recognized in snobbery.  Being a people snob is never acceptable.  Being a food and money snob based on behavior with food and money can save your life and empower you to save other peoples lives.

Not all money is created equal.

Not all food is created equal.

Not all habits are created equal.

People are created equal.

People consciously decide to be conscious thinking people that taps into their free thinking critical faculties or people can make no decision at all which in effect you’ve decided to live your life by default and when you live your life by default, not thinking about the food you’re eating or the income type you’re making, the consequences are the results.

If you don’t critically think to make worthwhile nuances and discernment you live by default. When you live by default you’re constantly being pushed and tossed around like a rag doll by your circumstances and other outside forces you have no control over.  Become consciously aware of your behaviors so you can refine them. Becoming a food and money snob can allow you to correct those behaviors and find better ways.

Those are just a couple of examples.

I hope that expands how you think about snobbery and how there are different kinds of it.

One form of snobbery is useful while another form of snobbery just means you’re a jerk face to other people.

You can use the better kind of snobbery as a mechanism to save your life and inspire others to save theirs, too.

So be a food snob. Be a money snob. Go for the better foods, the better money types, know why you’re doing it and start becoming a more free and critical thinking human being.

Never become a people snob.

You’re better than those behaviors that hurt you and others around you.

Make the decision to draw a line in the sand and decide that life is worth it.

Life is worth being a food and money snob.

If you enjoyed this please share. It’s very contrarian thinking to mainstream ideas so share.

I also have my fire your boss dot xyz website and my tom birkenmeyer dot com website.

I have thousands of pieces of content all to do with health, healing, freedom, financial freedom, and how the real rich measures there wealth by their time not their money. But they connect the dots between being financially free and time freedom. They know the difference between different income types and that ordinary job money is inferior to passive and residual money. They consciously think about what they put into their mouths and what they put into their brain. They consciously think about how they deal with stress and how they enhance their personal lives. They don’t trash their relationships for the sake of becoming successful because that’s not success.  Success is Yes and Yes.  Poor is either or.

Share this and become a snob with money and food but never a snob with people.

-Tom

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Since my dads passing I’ve been unreserved about my vulnerabilities

If I need to cry I cry.

If I have a bad day I show it to whoever is there with a positive aim to heal.

If I do something dumb it’s out in the open where I want it to be.

When I score a victory through the ashes of something that started poorly it will be on display so no one can have permission in my example to be a quitter.

Ya know what doesn’t inspire anyone to do anything?

Playing small.

Afraid to dream.

Afraid to make mistakes.

Quitting.

Excuses.

Ego tripping.

Everyone already knows how to act like a loser they don’t need you or I showing them.

Let’s show people how to be human, how to THINK BIG, DREAM BIG, cry, make mistakes, learn, grow, don’t keep it from people…

I hope my sharing all this stuff inspires you to be unafraid to be unreserved about all of who you are, too, and to dream bigger than you have before and just be unreserved completely about the process of making your beautiful dreams a beautiful reality.

Put it all on display the good bad and ugly it inspires people.

Too many people choose happiness or money.

Choose BOTH.

YES AND YES is rich.

One or the other is Poor.

Feel free to share.

-Tom

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I was supposed to have arthritis 14 years ago

I still don’t have it 🙂

My doctor didn’t tell me about the healing power of Simply eating more plants and Less meat and Dairy.

Maybe he was on the secret payroll of Private health insurance and drug companies to play dumb with the quality of my life?

My joints and muscles feels so good that I literally spring out of bed each morning even if I’m feeling emotionally sad I can physically bounce around at any time with great energy Even first thing in the morning when everyone else is sore and achy and popping pills.

The same organic plant-based products I use I sell also.

The same ones that help me grow more youthful as I get older in years.

I had my dad and mom use the same stuff.

My dad lived another 9 plus years because of it according to his doctor.

My mom I still have hopefully for many more years.

-Tom

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Fire your boss so you can watch the sunrise and frolic in nature without hopping on your human hamster wheel for your hamster paycheck :-)

But Tom I love my job when you love what you do you are free!”

Love of hard work and dedication is a wonderfully positive moral character trait and is different than a job which is a preconceived notion commonly confused with work.

A JOB gives you an illusion of safety. Hard work is the actions that you partake in to continue your physical, emotional, spiritual and mental development. A JOB is external, hard work is an internal character trait.

For my Curious friends… The only income that creates freedom of time is passive and residual. So Google research it if you’re interested in being a free human being. I have lots of blog posts and videos about it if you’d like I’m happy to share what I’ve taught on the topic matter.

-Tom

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Most people aren’t going to be inspired to live inspired lives no matter what they read on Facebook

But, some people are!

Most people feel just fine living out the status quo designed for them by somebody else and the only time they tend to get agitated is when someone points it out.

I might be wrong for pointing it out! Who knows. I certainly like pointing it out though 🙂

I think a lot of us tend to take things way too seriously when it’s not supposed to be and we take things way too lightly when we are supposed to be taking things more seriously.

Just maybe the best thing to ask for is to learn when to take life seriously and when not to.

I’ve been guilty of this just like anyone else. Sometimes I’m guilty and Incredibly dumb at the same time lol

What I’m getting out of life so far is to love, be loved, make lots of money openly and proudly, express yourself without reservations, freedom without the expense of someone else’s freedom, reciprocal relationships whenever possible, learn to become closer to each others Souls than our physical bodies, get away from ordinary earned income, make lots of residual and passive income, and make lots of money brazenly in the face of anyone who dare hold a negative energy towards money so stupidly so.

Yes all of these things is what I’m getting out of a meaningful life so far. I can’t wait to see what else I learned in my next 40 years or however much longer I’m here for.

-Tom

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Are people skills needed to build a home business?

I have an extremely difficult time connecting with people.

My people skills are all but nonexistent.

I have no idea what to say to people in Social settings and I don’t like how that feels.

I don’t wear my lack of people skills with a badge of honor.

Still, I learned how to build a business from scratch in my precious minutes of spare time and haven’t needed a job since February of 2010.

There are always going to be people who want to get healthy, make better money, have more control of their time, be with their family instead of pictures of their family, become financially free, there is always going to be a need for more people to start their own personal businesses.

My people skills are so poor that MAYBE only one person at a time will be inspired to contact me about how they can get involved.

Thankfully I was able to do this only one person at a time.

I think that’s why this is so good because it’s one person at a time even in short increments at a time.

When I started I only had about 20 minutes a day that typically had to be broken up into 5 or 10 minute increments at a time.

A registered nurse recently did it in only 2 minutes at a time on her potty break at her job.

I’m in the midst of writing a new course I’m going to call the 5 minute potty break trainer to help people who want some help at retaking control of their time.

Shy and socially awkward people are typically the ones who do really well here which surprised me because I thought only the outgoing and socially advanced people could do this.

If you want to get involved feel free to private message me.

-Tom

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Debt Free Does not Equal Financially Free

If you have no debt whatsoever, none, are you free?

No you’re not.

You have these bills that keep showing up every month.

Therefor you have Residual bills.

If you don’t have residual money to cover those residual bills you’re not free.

What if you stopped showing up at your job?

That turns off your income obviously because you stopped showing up.

So the income is going to turn off but you still have these bills that keep showing up every month and you have no debt.

Your time is still coupled to your income which means you don’t have time freedom.

So, that’s not to take away from being debt free if you are debt free.

No consumer debt, you own your house outright no mortgage, no car payments, no credit card debt and so on and so forth that’s awesome! Not to take away from that at all!

If you want to be a free human being where you’ve got your time de-coupled from your income you need residual and passive income.

You have residual bills so you might as well have residual income to de-couple how you spend your time from your income and then at last you’re a free human being unshackled from the chains that bound you to the dollar.

You could actually be in debt.. Let’s say you’re a million dollars in debt (extreme example but to make a point) but you have an annual residual income of two million dollars.

You’re a free human being!

Versus somebody who has no debt and has no residual income but they have residual bills.

The person with a million dollars of debt with two million dollars residual income is actually way more free than the person with no debt and no residual income.

I hope that makes sense.

If you have any questions please feel free to comment below, private message me if that’s more comfortable I don’t care I’m open and honest.

If you are debt free celebrate it but don’t confuse it for financial freedom or being free because most debt free people are still chained and shackled to the dollar or they can’t pay their bills and eat.

I’m offering a point of view that is way outside the box of what just about anybody is thinking about.

If you love the concept of being a free human being, free with your time, time freedom to be able to do what you want, it doesn’t matter if you love your job and you live a life style that doesn’t interfere with your job.

If you can’t de-couple your time from your income you’re not a free human being with how you’re going to spend your time.

The only thing that can give that to you is residual passive income and it’s something that can be built up in anybodys spare time.

One of the hallmarks of residual money is it can be built up even if you’ve just got twenty minutes a day like my start was when I started at only twenty minutes a day. It’s all I had time for in the beginning.

I know people who’ve done it on the potty!

I’m actually writing a five minute potty break trainer.

That’s what I’m going to call it.

I’m teaching people how to build residual money in 5 minute increments.

I got inspired by somebody who did it in two minute increments. But that’s a bit extreme.

So it’s possible even in two minutes at a time but I’m going to do at least five minutes at a time.

Everybody gets at least a five minute potty break at work so.

I’m really looking forward to having that published and that will be out soon.

Feel free to ask me about that as well if you wanna be on a list of people that I make aware of as soon as it gets published.

It’s going to be a great training.

Browse around my website.

I have Thousands of videos and blog posts about anything to do with health, wealth, freedom, natural healing and organics and all those kinds of things.

Hope you enjoyed this post.

Share it. Like it. Comment below if you wish and I’ll answer any questions that you have.

Bye for now.

Muah!!

-Tom

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Challenge You Without Stressing You

I FEEL emotional pain.

I feel happiness and sadness in the full scope of that spectrum of emotions.

I feel DEEPLY but WITHOUT stressing most of the time if not all the time.

There is a worth while discernment to be made between emotional sadness that we respond to with stress and emotional sadness that we respond to without stress.

I think it’s HEALTHY to have a full scope of emotions that you FEEL deeply.

The worthwhile journey is to learn to feel all emotions stress free including the painful emotions.

Life is like an orchestra.

I love this analogy.

There are happy notes and sad notes. It’s a mix. If you just hear happy notes all the time it would get annoying. If you just hear sad notes all the time it would get annoying. If you get a good mix of happy, sad, and everything in between then it’s a more rich experience.

You can get that full spectrum of emotions without stressing about it just like an orchestra can play a full concert and it doesn’t have to be a complete jumbled stress mess that destroys itself.

The wide spectrum enhances the experience.

You can walk out of the concert with a feeling of WOW… What did I just experience??? That’s Living! And you didn’t stress out about ANY of those wonderful ranges of emotions did you?

What if you approached lifes full scope of emotions that way?

What happens when you feel good?

It’s easy to respond good when you’re feeling good.

What about when you’re emotionally hurting?

Sometimes it’s easy to stress out about it and that induces the aging process. It makes you feel older over time. You’re going to feel older and look older. When you learn to condition your brain to feel without stress… when I’m emotionally in pain I can stress about it or I can just feel it and then bring myself back as it happens because life is kind of like a roller coaster that way.

Peaks and valleys.

We can have those peaks and valleys without stress, just FEEL and LIVE.

I think those peaks and valleys are actually very good for us when we mature ourselves emotionally to the point where we don’t have to stress about it. We can just feel it and we can be open with each other about it. We can talk about it and be vulnerable because there is a lot of power in that. It’s gonna go a long way towards helping you look and feel younger.

I’m going to go very briefly over the other major variables that contribute toward looking and feeling younger as we get older.

Sleep!

Regular deep sleep because that’s when the brain releases growth hormone and heals the body from the days stressors and other things you need daily and nightly healing from.

Eat lots of plants!

Whenever somebody compliments my skin, or how young I look, it’s an automatic gut response at this point. I simply smile and say, “Thanks! I eat a LOT of plants”. When they learn I’m in my 40s they are practically in shock. A lot of people guess I’m only 24. I don’t know why that weird number is so common to guess but it certainly makes me happy to tell them I eat a lot of plants and THANK YOU. They always giggle when I say that but it gets them thinking, too.

Regular physical activity!

Get in regular exercise that’s going to challenge you without stressing you.

I’m going to add the same nuance to exercise that I added to emotional pain.

Yoga is great for teaching people to find the calmness within the storm. It goes in alignment what I was talking about in the beginning of this post. You can feel emotional pain without stressing about it and just let it be part of enhancing your life in this adventure that you have in this physical world. With exercise it’s the same thing. You find your point where you’re being challenged so that you get more fit and more healthy but you find the calness in that storm when you’re doing a move, holding a pose, or whatever and its uncomfortable. Find that calmness in that storm man!

That’s certainly gonna go a long way towards looking and feeling younger as you get older.

I’m spring loaded!

All my joints feel like they did when I was twelve!

I’m on no medications.

I was suppose to have arthritis when I was 26. Today, in my 40s, not only do I NOT have arthritis, I jump out of bed every morning! Not because I’m happy. Sometimes I am sometimes I’m not. Just as a mechanical function I can spring into action out of a seated position and my joints feel like they did when I was twelve, literally. No exaggeration.

That’s pretty cool!

No medication, I eat a lot of plants, I get regular deep sleep, I get regular challenging exercise, and I feel the full spectrum of emotions without stressing when I’m sad.

When you are able to push yourself hard in your workouts and learn to find that calmness in the storm it translates into every day functional life.

When things in life get stressful or emotionally painful you learn to find the calmness within the storm. When you can find that calmness in the storm you’re just gonna be more productive. You’re gonna respond better to lifes challenges and emotional pain.

Sometimes we tend to do as humans, we take a disastrous situation and we create another disaster from the disaster because we don’t find the calmness in the storm. Instead we stress out about it and that tends to multiply the problem where we take an already messy situation and make it messier. Instead of that let’s respond with finding calmness in the storm. We can respond better.

Pretty cool stuff !

I hope you enjoy this post.

Please share this if you know some people that need to hear this.

We all need to hear things like this.

It would be a happier world if ideas like these were more commonly being floated around for people to absorb.

I need to hear stuff like this too so I study great ideas regularly.

How else do you think I’m able to keep coming up with all these posts? =)

Comment below with something that you do to help yourself and to help other people around you.

-Tom

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A Spring in Your Step..

I’m gonna share some things that I’ve been doing for a really long time now and if you’re physically missing that spring in your step because of sore joints and muscles commonly associated with aging maybe I’ll share something that can help you out or someone you know that you can share this with.

It’s not really an emotional spring I’m talking about.

I have a mix of happiness and sadness that I live with I deeply feel both sides of that emotional spectrum.

The spring in my step I’m talking about is the feeling of every time I step down, I sit down, I get up out of a seated position, or a squat, or the fact I can squat at all, it’s a physical spring that connects to an emotional feeling of feeling really well and healthy.

I’m on zero medications.

I have no discomfort whatsoever and so every morning when I wake up literally I’d just kind of bounce out of bed.

It’s not like an oh I’m so happy all the time kind of bounce or spring.

It’s just my health and my joints feel so good.

14 years ago I was suppose to have arthritis and 14 years later not only do I not have arthritis but I’m in my 40s now and I have the spring in my step that I’ve been rambling on about!

Here’s what I’m doing that I believe is responsible for my not aging the way that most people age and the fact I was I had a predisposition to where I should have had arthritis 14 years ago and I still don’t have it.

My Dr. who told me this did not mention anything about nutrition let alone certain kinds of nutrition that do different things to the human body.

He didn’t tell me about the effect of deep sleep or deep sleep at all. We didn’t have that conversation.

He didn’t tell me about minimizing stress or eliminating stress. We never had that conversation let alone talking about it.

It makes me wonder if my Dr. was on the secret payroll of private health insurance companies and PhRMA companies who make their money managing everything and curing nothing.

So my diet I changed to a plant based whole food diet.

I get good sound sleep every night.

I have things I could be stressing about like anyone else but I choose not to have that stress response anyone. It’s like a survival tactic. Literally 90 percent of diseases generally comes from stress. I’ve heard many experts talk about it and go on to say that it’s even more important than what we eat.

There are plenty of people I know that eat squeaky clean but they’re stressed out all the time from a bad spouse, a bad job, they’re pulling their hair out from their heads and suddenly they get cancer and can’t figure out why.

It’s stress man ya gotta eliminate stress and get good deep sleep every night and then you also have to eat a plant based whole food diet that works for you.

Then you don’t have to age the way that most people do.

Tony Horton said aging is for people who don’t know any better.

I think he’s right by objective measurements that show he is right.

It’s really about stacking the deck in your favor because we’ll never have absolute 100% control.

Anybody that writes me or comments in this thread about how you could still get sick even if you do everything right, well, then you didn’t real this post all the way through because I’m saying it right now about stacking the odds significantly in your favor because we’ll never have complete control but we do control how we respond to situations to make them less stressful, or no stress, no matter how bad the situation was and we have decisions over what we put into our mouth and things like that.

If sleep is a problem that could be tricky but you can certainly go down certain paths to figuring that out so that you can eventually get a really good night sleep if you suffer from something that gets in the way of that.

I hope that helps you.

My website I’ve furnished with tons of this stuff.

Thousands of pieces of content all to do with health, healing, wealth, chronic disease, chronic debt etc..

tom birkenmeyer dot com

Last but not least for a very long time now I drink a very dense superfood whole food plant based shake.

I drink it every day for many years at least one meal per day.

Truth be told I do two most days because I really love the way it tastes it’s quite delicious

It has gone a long way in supporting me towards living free of any aches, pains, or discomforts whatsoever.

Being in my 40s now I was suppose to have arthritis 14 years ago and it never happened.

If I have anything to do with it, it never will happen so there you have it.

Feel free to share this. Like it. comment. If you’ve got some other ideas too that can add to this I’d love to learn from you too about how NOT to age the way most people age.

People think it’s normal to age with aches and pains.

It’s not normal. It’s common.

So if you know more please share and expand all of our minds =)

Share this post because I’m sure you know some people that would get some value from what I just shared with you.

Bye for now,

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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When the tough get going..

Quitting is common when the going gets tough.

When we were kids we have these big dreams that we allow others to beat out of us as we grow into adults.

Sometimes we have to put a filter in our brain and consciously choose what we’re gonna accept and what we’re gonna reject.

A lot of us have moments in our lives when we are thinking really big and then tough things happen, because that’s what happens when you think really big, and we shrink backwards into thinking small again.

That’s what happens when you think big! You get bigger challenges things become really tough.

If you think back to think small the challenges might become smaller and maybe easier to accomplish small goals.

Maybe we go back to thinking smaller and dreaming smaller as a way to make it easier to live with ourselves for being a quitter, or in some cases, a non starter.

Why not make your dream so important to you that you’re eager to go through the tougher challenges to make it happen because your heart would break not to.

I think the whole purpose of those tougher challenges that seem to happen when we dream and think bigger is to force you to have to get the skills, the emotional maturity, and spiritual growth you need to be able to get what you want and fulfill that promise you made to yourself and maybe to other people.

That kind of dreaming you did when you were a child gets a common response when you grow into an adult, “it’s so hard so maybe if I just shrink back a little bit and it doesn’t have to be this great or that big and the thinking can be a little bit smaller I can scale back here and there so that should be easier and then maybe I can do it when my dream is small enough.”

Maybe instead of chipping away at your self esteem in the long run it’s much easier to go through the deal of figuring stuff out.

Instead of shrinking your dreams so you don’t have to grow yourself you could grow your-self so you don’t have to shrink your dreams.

You don’t have to become anything to be nothing.

It’s time to go through the deal of figuring out how to make your big dreams a reality.

The only thing more beautiful than a beautiful dream is a beautiful reality.

If you dig this kind of stuff my website is Tom Birkenmeyer Dot Com. I’m full of it! Ideas and philosophies!!

Feel free to share this. Maybe you know somebody who just needs to hear something like this

When the going get tough you have two options. Shrink or Grow.

Shrinking means you don’t have to become anything more than you already are. No growth. No expansion of your brain. No creative thought. It keeps you lazy. It’s emotionally immature. It’s poor. A temporary illusion of “easy” because over time the real damage comes when you realize you’ve been chipping away at yourself all this time. When you chose to shrink instead of grow you’re under the illusion of making it easier to live with yourself for being a quitter.

When you chose to GROW you have to unleash the power of your human spirit to get creative, learn new things, grow up emotionally, battle laziness, staves off dementia such as alzheimer’s, it’s rich. Instead of making lazy statements you begin to ask rich questions such as asking what books you might need to read, what webinars and seminars to attend, what teachers to teach you, maybe what classes to take, what mistakes can teach you, what kind of a student and action taker you wanna be, the kind of person you want to become.

Now these challenges are just things to figure out instead of road blocks to keep you back.

That’s much better than shrinking backwards don’t you agree?

I think so.

It’s even easier I’d say than subscribing to the illusion that shrinking is easier because you pay for it with the quality of your life.

Reminds me of a great philosophy…

Go for a worth while life not an easy one.

As it turns out the worth while life is easier than the delusional “easy” life.

Don’t you think?

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Put a Spring in your Step Fountain of YOUTH style

I’m gonna share some things that I’ve been doing for a really long time now and if you’re physically missing that spring in your step because of sore joints and muscles commonly associated with aging maybe I’ll share something that can help you out or someone you know that you can share this with.

It’s not really an emotional spring I’m talking about.

I have a mix of happiness and sadness that I live with I deeply feel both sides of that emotional spectrum.

The spring in my step I’m talking about is the feeling of every time I step down, I sit down, I get up out of a seated position, or a squat, or the fact I can squat at all, it’s a physical spring that connects to an emotional feeling of feeling really well and healthy.

I’m on zero medications.

I have no discomfort whatsoever and so every morning when I wake up literally I’d just kind of bounce out of bed.

It’s not like an oh I’m so happy all the time kind of bounce or spring.

It’s just my health and my joints feel so good.

14 years ago I was suppose to have arthritis and 14 years later not only do I not have arthritis but I’m in my 40s now and I have the spring in my step that I’ve been rambling on about!

Here’s what I’m doing that I believe is responsible for my not aging the way that most people age and the fact I was I had a predisposition to where I should have had arthritis 14 years ago and I still don’t have it.

My Dr. who told me this did not mention anything about nutrition let alone certain kinds of nutrition that do different things to the human body.

He didn’t tell me about the effect of deep sleep or deep sleep at all. We didn’t have that conversation.

He didn’t tell me about minimizing stress or eliminating stress. We never had that conversation let alone talking about it.

It makes me wonder if my Dr. was on the secret payroll of private health insurance companies and PhRMA companies who make their money managing everything and curing nothing.

So my diet I changed to a plant based whole food diet.

I get good sound sleep every night.

I have things I could be stressing about like anyone else but I choose not to have that stress response anyone. It’s like a survival tactic. Literally 90 percent of diseases generally comes from stress. I’ve heard many experts talk about it and go on to say that it’s even more important than what we eat.

There are plenty of people I know that eat squeaky clean but they’re stressed out all the time from a bad spouse, a bad job, they’re pulling their hair out from their heads and suddenly they get cancer and can’t figure out why.

It’s stress man ya gotta eliminate stress and get good deep sleep every night and then you also have to eat a plant based whole food diet that works for you.

Then you don’t have to age the way that most people do.

Tony Horton said aging is for people who don’t know any better.

I think he’s right by objective measurements that show he is right.

It’s really about stacking the deck in your favor because we’ll never have absolute 100% control.

Anybody that writes me or comments in this thread about how you could still get sick even if you do everything right, well, then you didn’t real this post all the way through because I’m saying it right now about stacking the odds significantly in your favor because we’ll never have complete control but we do control how we respond to situations to make them less stressful, or no stress, no matter how bad the situation was and we have decisions over what we put into our mouth and things like that.

If sleep is a problem that could be tricky but you can certainly go down certain paths to figuring that out so that you can eventually get a really good night sleep if you suffer from something that gets in the way of that.

I hope that helps you.

My website I’ve furnished with tons of this stuff.

Thousands of pieces of content all to do with health, healing, wealth, chronic disease, chronic debt etc..

tom birkenmeyer dot com

Last but not least for a very long time now I drink a very dense superfood whole food plant based shake.

I drink it every day for many years at least one meal per day.

Truth be told I do two most days because I really love the way it tastes it’s quite delicious

It has gone a long way in supporting me towards living free of any aches, pains, or discomforts whatsoever.

Being in my 40s now I was suppose to have arthritis 14 years ago and it never happened.

If I have anything to do with it, it never will happen so there you have it.

Feel free to share this. Like it. comment. If you’ve got some other ideas too that can add to this I’d love to learn from you too about how NOT to age the way most people age.

People think it’s normal to age with aches and pains.

It’s not normal. It’s common.

So if you know more please share and expand all of our minds =)

Share this post because I’m sure you know some people that would get some value from what I just shared with you.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Getting a job to Pay Bills & Eat is for people who Don’t Know Any Better – Q & A

This is one of those posts that irritates some while Inspiring others.

Depending on a job for income to pay bills and eat should be avoided with everything in your power.

Question: I agree but where do I get the money to pay the bills or eat?

Me: Research passive and residual money. It’s the only income type that de couple’s time from money. At first I found it very difficult but as I went through the process in my precious minutes of spare time (with a hunger for LEARNING) it got easier and it gave me time freedom. I have thousands of videos and blog posts about it on my www.tombirkenmeyer.com website.

 

Question: I dunno. I’ve done it your way. Neither worked for me.

Me: Find your way not my way or anyone else’s way. And when you find your way promise yourself you’ll try and fail over and over again until you figure it out. The word “until” is a huge part of figuring stuff out and solving problems. A deadline for quitting is not part of the equation in figuring stuff out and solving problems. The short cut is to find a teacher who has been there, done that, figured it out, and is willing to show you, and then you be the best student that you can be so you can in turn teach someone else as you get results, too.

Question: I don’t know what “my way” is. Not sure how to find it either. I’ll not “quit”. But I won’t beat my head on the brick wall for something that is not for me.

Me: Don’t use your head against a brick wall. The wall will win! LOL.. Find the right tool, the right teacher, the right training, and utilize those things against the brick wall or anything else. There is nothing in your way. Your obstacles are there to force you to get the skills you need so you can get what you want.

 

Question: A job is a reliable, safe, secure, intelligent source of income.

Me: When an income is owned by someone else, can be taken away at any time for any reason, it requires its participants to trade their time for it like a hamster treading it’s wheel, that income is of the highest risk possible and that person should change whatever their job title is to PROFESSIONAL GAMBLER. The “reliable safe secure income” is the grand illusion. It’s the unforgivable lie that keeps people obedient to the most sinister pyramid scam ever devised against people. Believing job income is safe, reliable, secure or intelligent is just silly. Don’t fall for that scam. It’s sold to you as safe and secure on purpose to keep you obedient to the leadership of the largest financial institutions in the world who need you so they can have more while you have less.

 

Question: Some jobs HAVE to be done, Tom. Humans need care, roads need repair, teeth need cleaning and repairing, heads need psychologists to shrink them. I can go on.

Me: I’m not anti job. I’m anti dependency. Those jobs can all be done by people that like their jobs, and IF they wish, they can build something that’s passive on the side that covers them financially so they are no longer needy and co-dependent on some company to take care of them. You’re making the talking points of the very people who thrive by exploiting you. Love your job and always go above and beyond with a sense of pride for the work you do. We have to recognize the discernment between a needy co-dependency in the income from a job vs. zero needy co-dependency in the income from a job. When a job becomes optional that’s independence. When a job is out of neediness to pay bills and eat then it’s co-dependency and modern day Obedient Slavery.

 

Question: I just can’t make a living like you do. That’s YOUR talent, not mine.

Me: It’s not about me and this is not my talent. I was hungry to learn. You’re capable of learning, too. The difference between learning a job vs. learning passive and residual money is if you rely on job income to pay bills and eat you’re time is coupled to your income. If you learn passive and residual income you de-couple your time from your income so you can spend your time how you wish and be where you want to be when you need to be. You’ve learned new skills in the past. You can learn this one, too. Passive and residual income is 100% adaptable to the individual. At a job you have to be adaptable to the job. It’s common to get this backwards and the result is a lot of people don’t believe they can do passive and residual income. There is nothing further from the truth.

 

Question: I’d love to but I’m broke, debt, I have no time, I have no skill, I have kids, my spouse doesn’t support me, I have too much going on, don’t wanna lose my disability, I have a rash on my butt, mercury is in retrograde etc…

Me: There is someone out there who had it worse than you who figured out residual money while starting at a place in their lives even worse than yours. Replace your rationale for why you can’t with HUNGER for learning how you CAN or you’re screwed and that’s an inside job, ya know, the same home as the solution. Let’s be problem solvers instead of excuse makers.

 

Question: I poured time, and money into these projects, over lots of years. And I’ve never seen a dime in residuals. So I have a job. And a boss. I wasted thousands of dollars over the course of 30 years, trying this one and that one. Literally, never earned a dime. I have yet to see a program that you can start with no money, or continue without buying products and paying fees.

Me: I hear you that’s part of my story, too. After I tried and failed I tried and failed again, and again, until I figured it out. My big breakthrough and shortcut came when I decided upon 2 things. 1.) I decided to find some teachers who had been there, done that, and willing to show me how. 2.) I returned to the wisdom we all had when we were babies when it came to quitting. When we were babies we didn’t give ourselves a deadline to learn to walk or quit and spend the rest of our lives crawling. We were EAGER, ANXIOUS, HUNGRY to continuously FALL over and over again UNTIL we figured it out. We have to dump the Bad philosophies we learned as adults and replace them with good philosophies. Throwing money at a problem doesn’t solve it, it makes it worse and more costly. Learning new relevant skills solves problems. Putting more time in also doesn’t solve any problems it just costs you more time. If you LEARN how to build residual money part time you win. If you can’t build residual money part time then you also can’t build it full time so the solution is to build your SKILL set in residual money.

 

Question: I don’t understand why you think it is that you don’t have a job. You spend time doing what you do.

Me: My incomes doens’t require any personal involvement from me. I can afford to work for free, spend my time for free, so I do. But I was not able to do that till I went through that process of de-coupling how I spend my time from my income. In my personal opinion a reasonable income does not come from a source that can take it away at any time for any reason and its recipient can only keep receiving it if they continuously show up on their human hamster wheel to get it. Residual and passive money is the only income type that de-couples time from money and it’s available to anyone no matter how good bad or ugly their circumstances.

 

Question: You seem judgemental. Not everyone is to walk your path. Everyone has their own purpose.

Me: I don’t want a captive audience I like free thinkers including free to think differently than me. A discrepancy I observe is when someone believes the earth is flat and they believe it’s open for debate. No, its not open. Its settled. The earth is a globe shape. In this case… When someone believes they are wild and free all the while they depend on their job to pay bills then they are just as objectively wrong as the person who believes the earth is flat. They are not wild and free they are chained and shackled to the dollar or they can’t eat. The solution is passive and residual money because it’s the only income type that de-couples time from money and that works for ANY and EVERY purpose and for ANY and EVERY individual. My main point I blog about more than anything is de-coupling ones time from ones money. That way one is free to spend their time however they want.

Question: I respect hard work whether it’s self employed or a job.

Me: Yes I do too! I’m not anti job and I’m definitely not anti work. I’m a workaholic myself. My post is about the dependency people put into income from a job to pay their bills and eat. It’s the worst idea ever and it’s lived by lots of very good people many of whom I love and care about. My post was not attacking the quality of anyone’s character or work ethics. My post was attacking a very stupid idea that very good people subscribe to on a very popular basis

My friend Keia Lavine worded it better than I ever could have so I’ll quote her: “Working hard… is a moral character issue and is different than a job which is a preconceived notion that is confused with work.

A JOB is fashioned slavery that’s gives you an illusion of safety. Hard work is the actions that you partake in to continue your physical, emotional, spiritual and mental development. A JOB is external, hard work is an internal character trait”

Have you enjoyed this?  You might also like “10 Reasons You Should Never Get a Job by Steve Pavlina” & the original “Getting a job is for people who don’t know any better“.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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Getting a Job to pay bills and eat is for people who don’t know any better =)

I’m not an Expert in money. I have a basic understanding of it, and that is why I would NEVER get a job again.

Lots of people think they have a basic understanding of money all the while they need their job or they can’t pay bills and eat.

Their neediness in their job to pay bills and eat shows they are chained and shackled to their income.

49 out of every 50 people unfortunately have been sold terrible unforgivable lies about money and how to pay their living expenses.

Not everyone is ready to learn how money really works.

If a person believes their job is an intelligent safe secure way to make money and not open to the possibility they are dead wrong then they are not ready and will continue their obedience training.

I did my obedience training, unknowing to me, but when I learned new information I changed course IMMEDIATELY.

Some people keep the status quo with new facts while others can’t help but to EVOLVE as they get new facts.

I’m letting you know I come from the world of Obedience so you know that I’m not demonizing you or pointing any fingers if you’ve fallen for this LIE that you’re job income is safe, secure, or even an intelligent way to pay your bills and eat.

I’m not even anti job! Jobs are awesome WHEN THEY ARE OPTIONAL!

If your job is not optional or you starve then you are nothing but at turd in the herd in the eyes of the leadership of the largest financial institutions in the world who need your obedience to perpetually exploit you for their gain at your expense.

In my personal eyes you’re not a turd in the herd. You’re doing the best with what you know. Using job income to pay bills and eat is for people who don’t know any better.

Be hungry to LEARN and TRASH this idea that you know anything about money so that you can become open to LEARN about money and FINALLY go through a worth while process of de-coupling your time from your income.

In the end that’s what its about!

If you go through that process of decoupling your time from your income then you are at last a FREE human being able to spend your time however you want. You’ll be able to be where your heart BLEEDS to be when you need to be.

Without that kind of freedom to spend your time how you wish then you are wasting that DASH between your birth date and death date.

You only get one dash.

Don’t waste it on being a coupled to your income.

Money is NOT that important that you’d tie your god blessed time to it!

De couple your time from your money!

Learn passive and residual income and go through that deal of LEARNING and doing with an absolute resolve that you will NEVER give up UNTIL you’ve solved that problem.

If you give yourself a deadline to quit you’re ripping yourself off.

There is no deadline.

Learn the word, “Until”.

“UNTIL” is a powerful world.

You’ll do it UNTIL!!!

When you were a baby you didn’t give yourself a deadline to learn to walk or quit and spend the rest of your life crawling.

You had more wisdom in that regard when you were a baby than you do now as a grown adult!!!!

Feel free to share this message it’s important and needs to be received more than the lies we’ve been fed all our lives.

If you enjoyed this you might also enjoy the Q & A for Getting a job to pay bills and eat is for people who don’t know any better.

With Love,

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

follow your heart

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Finally Making Videos since my Dad Passed Away over a month ago

Good evening all! How are you??

Today I’ve been bitten by the Video Bug for the first time since my dad passed away over a month ago now.

I made 4 videos today =)

1.) 9 is Fine
2.) My Superhero Dad and Guns
3.) How to use Credit Cards to scam THEM with their Permission and in a way that you don’t have to use your own money
4.) Capitalism and Socialism & Checks and Balances

Lots more coming!!! I love making videos about Health and Wealth topics and for people who love to eat that stuff up because having both health and wealth, yes and yes, is cool. Picking one or the other is lame.

Yes and Yes! Not yes and no.

Your dash between your birth and death date is your one life you get so I don’t see the point in half-throttling it on choosing either or. YES AND YES =) Everything in the way of YES AND YES is just stuff to figure out. When the going gets tough the tough get going. Too many people quit when the going gets tough and deflect to make it easier to live with themselves for being a non starter or a quitter or both. Eff that self sabotaging non-sense =)

Since my dads passing I’ve been unreserved about my vulnerability. It’s not even a thing anymore for me to keep my crying to myself. If I need to cry I cry. If I have a bad day I show it to whoever is there with the aim of positively healing. If I do something dumb it’s out in the open where I want it to be. When I score a victory through the ashes of something that started poorly it will be on display so no one can have permission in my example to be a quitter.

I hope my sharing all this stuff inspires you to be unafraid to be unreserved about all of who you are, too, and to dream bigger than you have before and just be unreserved completely about the process of making your beautiful dreams a beautiful reality. Put it all on display the good bad and ugly it inspires people.

Ya know what doesn’t inspire anyone to do anything? Playing small. Afraid to dream. Afraid to make mistakes. Quitting. Excuses. Ego tripping. Everyone already knows how to act like a loser they don’t need you or I showing them. Let’s show people how to be human, how to THINK BIG, DREAM BIG, cry, make mistakes, learn, grow, don’t keep it from people…

Thanks for listening.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Use credit cards as much as possible!

Hear me out I’ll explain..

Credit is Leverage.

Cash is debt and DESIGNED on purpose to lose money each year through inflation.

Using cash and building savings accounts reduces your buying power and transfers money in lil bits and pieces at a time to the most financially literate people that make up our economy without you knowing it.

Today most credit card issuers charge zero fees (unless you’re late on a payment) and will pay you between 1% and 5% on ALL credit purchases which means you get to leverage money for free and get paid a little extra for it.

The only discrepancy is a psychological one for people who use a credit card to spend more than they would if they were using cash and then go on to blame the credit card instead of looking inside themselves for the source of the real problem which is also the location of the real solution to that real problem.

For those of us willing to solve that internal problem then the credit card is your best monetary friend because it’s 100% leverage that is free to use and you get paid a lil extra for using it.

Credit also makes it easier to get ahead AND DE-couple how you spend your time from your income because credit is leverage.

Without leverage you cannot get ahead or DE-couple your time from your income because cash is debt and made by DESIGN on purpose to lose buying power each and every year through inflation and higher taxes.

There is a saying that the Establishment of Big Money does not want you to know, and that is, “SAVERS ARE LOSERS”. Translation = We at the heads of the largest financial institutions of the world don’t want you to know that savers are losers. We want you to buy our lie and illusion we are selling you that saving is good! We want you to use cash and save anything you can so that we can take from you financially illiterate peasants through inflation, fractional reserve, and higher taxes without your knowledge.

In my opinion having a savings account for some cushion is wonderful. I have a savings account I use just for cushion. But having a savings account as a wealth building strategy is completely obedient to the heads of the worlds largest financial institutions who are stealing from you, legally, and don’t want you to know about it.

What about a CD account? CD stands for Certification of DEPRECIATION. You were told it stands for Certificate of Deposit which is a euphemism to get you to put you’re money into them so they can take from you in lil bits and pieces at a time just like your savings account.

What about the interest you earn on savings accounts and CDs? You lose twice on those interest “earnings”. 1.) The interest rate is less than inflation and 2.) you pay ordinary earned income tax on Savings and CDs which is the highest tax a person pays right along with their financially dumb job. You’re double whammied with your savings and CD accounts all the while you were lied to and told it was an asset that you personally would financially benefit from. In reality it keeps your time coupled to your income so you can never get away from it and it makes it easy for highly corrupt people at the top of that racquet to get richer at your expense.

I have a lengthy video that goes into more detail about how to get out of this pyramid scam racquet. If you’d like to see it let me know ill post it in reply to your comment in this thread. Or you can private message me for it I don’t care either way.

Moral of this blog post is knowledge is NOT power. Knowledge is potential. You’ve learned something valuable that you can sit on or do something about. Doing something about it with knowledge is power. Knowledge without action is for educated derelicts. Knowledge alone is not powerful it’s just intellectual masturbation and all the educated derelicts are only intellectually masturbating while the Action Takers are getting Results.

You might also enjoy my blog post entitled, “Credit Cards – Friend or Foe?“.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Bathroom Breaks at Work Used to Create Financial Freedom

5 minutes here..
and 10 minutes there…

Even during 5 minute bathroom breaks at work sitting on the toilet it didn’t matter a girl in my company had no free time and she made the decision she was not going to let her time be manipulated anymore.

Me personally, I had 20 minutes a day sometimes broken up into five and ten minute blocks.

I wasn’t going to let that stop me either.

Lack of free time might be your present but does not have to be your future.

You have a finite Dash between your birth date and death date.

You don’t get multiple dashes just the one, the one you’re LIVING in right now, one shot at making your finite time here on Earth count for real.

Love your job hate your job it’s irrelevant.

LEARN how to decouple your time from your income so you can be a free human being.

Your one dash between your birth and death date is worth it.

I did it in 5 or 10 minutes blocks at a time you can do it too.

Feel free to ask me how I did it.

I’m not going to sell you sht you don’t want or need.

This story has inspired me to create a whole new financial freedom training that can be done in 5 minute increments and from a smartphone for when you only have 5 minute bathroom breaks and only a smartphone.

Mechanically there will be nothing holding you back.  Not lack of time, not lack of a computer, just bad thinking will be the only thing left to hold you back but we can solve that, too.

I will have this training completed soon for your devouring =)

Tom

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Daily Affirmations and Prayers for Abundance working against you?

You do your daily affirmations and pray for laws of abundance to be working for you but you still have too much month at the end of the money and no free time to yourself.

I want to share something friends shared with me long ago.

A friend said, “replace expectations with gratitude and all feelings of fear and anxiousness go away”.

Another friend told me, “faith without consistent relevant ACTION is dead faith”.

And then the big one for me was when one of my mentors taught me to DECOUPLE YOUR TIME FROM YOUR INCOME OR YOU’LL NEVER BE PROSPEROUS AND FREE. He taught me the only way to decouple time from money is to work to build passive and residual income.

That was the biggest game changer for me because I was never afraid of hard work.

I was putting my hard work into places that was not bringing me meaningful long lasting prosperity.

When I put my hard work toward residual and passive income my time began to decouple itself from my income.

It took me only two and a half years of going through that decoupling process until at last my time was 100% completely decoupled from my income.

Long lasting result of prosperity finally.

Love your job hate your job it does not matter.

The goal is to decouple your time from your income so you’re free to do what you want with your time.

Keep your job, leave your job, give to charity, start your own charity, spend more time with your family, take a family vacation.

No longer living underneath the thumb of others who can tell you what to do.

No more worry about how bills will be paid for.

You create your own life experiences without the permission of a gatekeeper.

Needing a job or some company to take care of you is not cool.

What is cool is not being needy and codependent on some company to take care of you so you can keep it or leave it you’re free.

You can do it for what it’s worth I’m your biggest cheerleader in this context.

If you are wondering why you don’t have more control over your time..

If you are wondering why you are not more free to do what you want..

I hope this helps you as it helped me when I learned these things.

But this is not even scratching the surface you have to love learning and be eager to dive in deep with learning and doing otherwise you’re screwed and that is an inside job.

You can do it.

Feel free to share this.

Tom.

P.s. if you’d like to see what I did to decouple my time from my income feel free to ask.

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To be Triggered or not to be Triggered..

There is always that 1 person Deeply offended by my posts.

To that one or two deeply triggered people trolling me:

I’m sorry to see you so deeply triggered.

I’m not microaggressing you so i’m puzzled at why you’re so triggered.

If you need a safe space I don’t judge..

I just want you to know that I don’t want you to feel like I need your captive attention.

You’re free to ignore my crazy posts about money and surround yourself with people you agree with.

If my posts about Money, jobs, Freedom, Wage Slaves upsets you (the posts I make that triggers you so badly) I have much more coming in perpetuity just a fair warning to you.

The wonderful thing about being unreserved WITHOUT attacking people is when someone is magnetized to me and my ideas it’s organic and natural from them to me and from me to them.

If I become someone I’m not to protect you from feeling uncomfortable around me then anyone I attract to me will be attracted to a disingenuous facade and that would make my heart feel empty.

I like being around people with different opinions and ideas.

For me personally I have to bow out when one of these two things happens:

1.) The person I’m talking with crosses the line from attacking ideas they disagree with to attacking the person of whom they disagree with.

2.) The person I’m talking with confidently subscribes to false facts with zero openness to the possibility they could be wrong. I.e. 2+2=5 is not an opinion we get to have because it’s wrong and that’s when I stop talking with you to put my energy with someone else.

One last thing..

Thank you for giving me something else to blog about. This post is more for people of my “tribe” than my haters. It’s for my tribe because it feels good to come together around similar philosophies that we can high five each other about.

Let’s have some FUN =)

Tom

P.S. Whether you love your job or hate your job your freedom comes when you no longer need your job to take care of you and your family any longer and that only happens when you build an asset you own that produces passive and residual money that exceeds all of your expenses. And to do that you need to be hungry to LEARN because nobody knows how to do any of that! Do you LOVE learning? You’re welcome =)

P.P.S. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Your Cash flow Direction Tells you EVERYTHING about your Freedom

-Tom

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Wild and Free or Chained and Shackled?

So many people brag about how Wild and Free they are while having to go report to their job and gatekeeper over how they spend their time.

Yeah you’re real wild and free.

That’s one of the biggest nuisances (and lies people tell themselves) I ever see in our, you know, our new age thinking people.

I love new age thinking but most people don’t live up to it because the idea is I’m wild and Free, I think differently, I’m open but oh I’m so wild and free I have to go to my job or I don’t get paid and I starve.

Yeah you’re real wild and free aren’t you?

It doesn’t make any sense.

It’s not even logically intellectually honest at all.

Ya wanna be wild and free beyond a cute new verbal trend?

DE-COUPLE YOUR TIME FROM YOUR INCOME.

Put the guarantee into yourself and get involved in something that has a residual and passive compensation plan so you can de-couple your time, because, if your time is coupled to your money I hate to break it to ya you’re not wild and free you’re just another sucker shackled to the dollar like everybody else whose time is coupled to their money so ya gotta de-couple the two or you’re not free.

I love you,

Tom

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The Clever Trick of Money being the Root of Evil to Keep you poor and Obedient

“the money is the root of all evil”, (a clever trick used to control people because the poor were easily subdued and obedient!) and financial ignorance and illiteracy of previous generations. Well, money is not evil, it’s how we use it. Financial independence is FREEDOM and it gives us the ability to live this very short and often messy life to the fullest. They always preach that we need to donate, donate, and donate…But how is one suppose to do that without money?!!! Nobody ever asks that question. What we need to teach our kids instead is: make as much money as possible while following your dreams, however, never ever be greedy about it or make it your whole life. Instead, once you make it, share it and use it to lift others up! – My friend Yelena wrote this.

Adding to her well spoken words..

LEARN ABOUT RESIDUAL AND PASSIVE MONEY.

Building your own passive and residual money unshackles you from the control anyone has over you via dependency of money to pay your bills and eat.

In my opinion the point of life is to focus on creating experiences not worry about money.

PAssive and residual money is the only money that can de-couple how you spend your time from your income so you CAN focus on creating experiences instead of worry.

If you’d like to see how I build passive and residual money, or to see a video I made about four ways of doing it, let me know ill show it to you either in this thread or privately whatever you’d like.

-Tom

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Be where you NEED to be WHEN you need to be..

The most precious moments in the cycles of life.

You will not want to live in fear of how bills are going to be paid or if you can’t get permission from a gate keeper at your job who may deny you.

When you NEED to be where you need to be you will be so glad you learned to become free financially from ALL your expenses.

This past week I needed to be with my family for my dad who passed away. No boss to check in with. No worry about bills or how I’d be covered financially. I was free to put my energy where it needed to be and all my expenses were covered anyway.

This wasn’t given to me. I had to earn it in the midst of a dark period of struggle in my life years ago.

I’m grateful I’m of the minority of our population who is a starter and finisher. It’s worth it for these most precious moments when we truly need that wonderful passive and residual income to de-couple our time from our income so we can be where we need to be when we need to be without permission from anyone but ourselves.

It took me a while to figure it out. No one would join me when I first started. You can figure it out too with our endless help if you’ll take it.

The simplified formula for setting yourself free financially is 1. Make a decision 2. tell the world 3. Figure it out by falling head over heals in love with learning and applying what you learn along the way a constant course of correction and re correction that never stops.

Don’t fail to start because you don’t know how. Do start so it can be revealed to you how.

Don’t quit after you’ve started because you made a mistake. Do make mistakes and allow them to reveal the path to the finish line.

See your mistakes along the path of learning for what they are, that is, your road map to being a finisher rather than a quitter.

Getting started and making mistakes QUICKLY is your key ingredient to setting yourself free financially so you can LIVE free of worry about how bills and other expenses will be paid for.

My dad was very proud of me, and still is from Heaven now, that his son started and saw it through without quitting. I don’t know if he thought I’d see this through when I first started and then again when I wasn’t making any money in the beginning. He saw me stick it out and create my own success and that honestly is one HUGE motivating reason for me that I wanted to see this through. I wanted to make my dad proud of me. He already was, but still, this was really important to me that he sees me be well financially too because residual bills are a fact of life that never goes away as long as we are living so I wanted residual and passive income to over power my residual bills.

My dad saw, just as we all see, most people do not start or see things through and always have an excuse to make it easier to live with themselves for being a non starter and a quitter.

That life style of quitting is not worth it because the real damage comes as a person chips away at their individuality and self esteem.

It’s impossible to create yourself according to your own individual authenticity if you live the life style of a quitter.

It’s nothing to beat yourself up over if that’s your past. If it is your past just draw a line in the sand TODAY and tell yourself along with the rest of the world you’re jumping over that line with BOTH FEET and you’re going to start living now as your own individual free thinking authentic self.

Then watch how the world around you benefits from your light.

No more of this quitting or procrastination non sense.

To my friends who have been faithful with what you’ve been given, remember you were once a quitter too til you decided not to be a quitter anymore. Love everyone, but, prioritize your home business time and energy for people who are ready to take action now because action is the only place where a positive impact can be created.

I love you all,

Tom

If you’re interested in looking at what I’m doing just ask and I’ll show and support whatever you wanna do this or something else. My dad loved that about me and how I helped other people get healthy financially and even physically. I always supported everyone. My dad would get so pissed at telemarketers who pitched the way they did and would keep going even after he said he wasn’t interested. He loves the fact I just love and support everyone and that I build a team of people who love and support, too.   How I build and how I help others build is one of many ways I love to honor the life of my Dad.  Please feel free to share this on your timelines maybe you’ve got some friends and family who’d love the messaging of this post.

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The worst experience is JOB experience.

You usually just repeat the same limited experience over and over.

You learn a lot in the beginning and then stagnate.

This forces you to miss other experiences that would be much more valuable.

And if your limited skill set ever becomes obsolete, then your experience won’t be worth squat.

In fact, ask yourself what the experience you’re gaining right now will be worth in 20-30 years. Even just 5 years???

Will your job even exist then?

Many employees believe getting a job is the safest and most secure way to support themselves.

Social conditioning is amazing. It’s so good it can even make people believe the exact opposite of the truth.

Does putting yourself in a position where someone else can turn off all your income just by saying two words (“You’re fired”) sound like a safe and secure situation to you?

The idea that a job is the most secure way to generate income is just silly. You can’t have security if you don’t have control, and employees have the least control of anyone. If you’re an employee, then your real job title should be professional gambler and Domesticated human pet.

Speaking of human domestication…

Employment is human domestication designed to keep you controlled and manipulated through money dependency to pay bills.

I’m not anti job or anti work. I LOVE work I am a workaholic! I’m anti co-dependency.

When a job is optional it’s cool take it or leave it.

When a job is out of NEEDINESS or you can’t pay bills and eat then you are not independent or a free human being.

So learn about passive and residual money and do that on the side til one day at least you are a free human being, truly independent, and decide if you want to keep or rid yourself of your job because you can now.

Doesn’t that sound like more fun than this OBSCENE neediness and co-dependency for some company or the government to take care of you??

Share.

-Tom

P.s. If you’d like to work with me I don’t charge any fees I’m not going to sell you something you don’t want or need: http://workwithtom.fireyourboss.xyz

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Invitation for an online Business in Health, Fitness, Organics..

I’m not looking for people with no money who can’t afford to start their own online business. I’m looking for people who have no money and can’t afford NOT to start their own online business.

I’m not looking for people with no time. I’m looking for people who do NOT want to still be saying, “I Have no time!” a year from now.

I’m not looking for people willing to make some money from managing others sickness and poverty. I’m looking for people who have the guts to be themselves, to laugh, and to make some money perpetuating health and wealth.

I’m not looking for people who don’t know how to build their own online business. I’m looking for people who don’t know how but eagerly wants to LEARN how.

I’m not looking for people who want to live inside of what they already know where it’s “safe” and “comfortable”. I’m looking for people who want to learn more than they already know, be uncomfortable, and grow.

I’m not looking for people using the facts of their situation to be a non starter or quitter. I’m looking for people using the facts of their situation for the perfect reasons to start and see it through.

I’m an Independent Team Beachbody coach.

I want to work with more people who want to solve problems and get healthy physically and financially.

I’m attracted to people who want to decouple their time from their income so we can live FREE together.

I don’t want to worry about running out of time or how bills will be paid.

I want to enjoy life more with my friends.

If you’re interested in looking at being an Independent Team Beachbody Coach with me let me know and I’ll show you a video, or blog, whatever you prefer looking at and if you see what I see you and I will do this together.

Please Share this post if you’d like. Maybe someone on your friends list would be interested in looking at this, too.

Thank you for reading this and feel free to ask questions.

-Tom

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4 Ways to ESCAPE from being Controlled and Manipulation via Money Dependency

Freedom of Time comes from Passive & Residual “LEVERAGED” money =)

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-Tom

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Hold Closely to the Ones You Love

In the health my parents are in I face regular reminders to spend time and hold close to the ones we love.

Most people are acquaintances and that’s lovely.

Few people are so much more than just acquaintances.

My dad is an inpatient once again at the local hospital for complications.

Thankfully he is showing good signs of improvement but one of these incidences he will pass on and that terrifies me honestly.

When you care for someone as much and as long as I have for my parents you tend to develop and emotional dependency on having them around.

At least that’s my experience especially with my parents.

I’m grateful I can spend time with them, care for them, be present and engaged in their lives.

At the same time it’s creating an emotional cost and that is proving to be severe on me.

I would not change my circumstances ever.

I don’t have to be at a job because I fired my boss years ago.

I’m so grateful I can be where I need to be because it’s in these precious moments that means EVERYTHING.

I’m well aware there are many tortured souls walking the earth riddled with guilt and regret about not being there for certain loved ones while living.

I’m writing this newsletter for 1.) my own personal therapy, 2.) to make sure that you know to hold closely to the ones you love, too, and 3.) if there is something you need to figure out in your own circumstances to be able to have the time and space to be where you need to be when you need to be please figure that out asap because we don’t know when we will need that freedom we just know that we will need that time freedom sooner or later.

Feel free to reply here or say hello on my Facebook.

Love to you Always

Tom